Member Questionnaire 1 (nousername123)
What is beauty? What is love? Beauty is looking at art or (anything really) and just being awed and happy, pretty much. Love to me is passion for things and people. It is neutral. Sometimes love can make people do stupid things but I view love as useful if used right.
What are your most important values? Honesty, freedom joy knowledge and ease of comfort
Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place? No but I thought about being a pagan to be a part of my European heritage ( I am North American) I find Christianity to encourage weakness and so full of self punishment, but I'd rather not have a debate please. Im not thinking of religion right now (and I will when I have time) but I view it as a good for human society to boost morale. I don't and will never see god as a real entity but a code.
Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you? Sadly, its practical at times but right now its bullshit. Like why do we need war on Syria? Power to me is freedom because you have no power if you are not free. Power is not always using force ;that's different.
What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why? I don't know. I don't really have a social life right now I wish though. When I was happier a lot of people talked and I was so happy. High school sucks. I guess whatevers on my mind( what's interesting to me) or what Im feeling. But Im not confident on this one. My interests are action/adventure and role playing games, day dreaming, meditation and martial arts. I just wanna kick ass man
Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body? No more as a need. Unless something feels good
No not usually but I want it to be sexy as hell. Be a muscular man, yeah.
What do you think of daily chores? What can I say... boring as hell? Why is this even a question lolz. Dosen't everybody hate chores? I do them at the last minute
Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome. I don't really watch movies, Im more of a gamer. Movies/TV are too passive for my tastes but I will watch movies when Im forced to. I tend to like fantasy, mystery and suspense. I like plots with a lot of depth and rich characters and a world I can explore. And this goes for games, books (Why I like Final Fantasy so much)
What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why? I don't really cry much. But I cried like a week ago when I listened to a song about not being perfect. My class was being condescending to me and my Dad used to critize me a lot and I couldn't take it anymore.
Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging? An envioremmt where Im comfortable and relaxed. Where people are open about anything without being over dramatic and are accepting and non-judgemental. But it has to have a soul not feel like a robotic environment
What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself? Im very overanylitical gets paranoid about the dummest things. Not very good at talking to people and people are confusing and I get stressed out about them. I can come as rude without realizing it. I tend to day dream a lot and not really care about the present. I don't like that Im really fucking skinny and have a leg impartment. Im a bit werid sometimes too
What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself? I anazle things well good at noticing connections, imagine a lot. I just love how I daydream and laugh and people go "so what you day dreaming about?"
In what areas of your life would you like help? Social skills, remembering where to put things, relaxation
Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it. Its cuz Im stuck in my head all the time always day dreaming. I get paranoid lol and then maybe I get optimistic and find a way out.
What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with? I dislike unpredictable people, arrogant people, preachy people. People who betray people, two faced people, narrow minded (wow Im getting repetive ) snobs, yeah. I like people who are kind, repective, fun, non-judgemtal, smart
How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner? I don't know. This is a hard one.... Well Im bisexual I guess (wont go into detail, yuck!) If Im in straight mode I like women who are soft spoken, beautiful, kind yet fun and interesting. But they have to a "soul" and are not robotic and ridgd personality wise.
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why? I'd want to my kids to have freedom but with common sense, I want them to be part of society and their going to have to follow certain expecations. For example, I'm not going to pump feminism in my daughter's head (this is my opinion you can like feminism for all I care) to tell her she's all that. I think women are naturally feminine and men naturally masculine but as they get older (say 15-16) they can go their own way but I want to provide them guidelines basically
I would also homeschool (future)them if I can. I hate how learning is structured in schools
A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction? Outwardly I'll just say "yeah" but I'll feel disappointment in the inside. Because I like it when people agree with my beliefs
Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one. I don't feel really part of society but would like to again like I was when I was younger. I see people as confusing sometimes but their just people with a life of their own just like mine. Some bad apples some goodies in there too.
How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them? I don't really have any friends so Im not sure. Its hard to picture how I behave.
How do you behave around strangers? Say Hi not much else. Cautious though.