Member Questionnaire 1 (bradly33)
What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Love is what two people have for each other.
What are your most important values?
They are the courage to face up to others, being honest with myself, and love others as I want to be loved.
Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
Buddhism because I want to be less materialistic about my life.
Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
War is deadly. It causes nothing but the loss of life. True power comes from strength in humility.
What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
They've been about everyday life. My interests are weaving, cooking, and housekeeping because it teaches me how to maintain the home.
Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
Yes I'm interested in health because health teaches me how to be clean about my habits. Yes I'm focused on my body so I can be healthy.
What do you think of daily chores?
Daily chores are fun because I help my mom everyday.
Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
I like the Time Machine as a book and a movie.
What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
What makes me cry is seeing sad movies like when Bambi's mom dies after getting killed by a hunter in the movie, "Bambi."
Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
I feel best at home because I feel safe there.
What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
People have seen my lack of independence and my clingyness. What I dislike about myself is not being able to make it on my own.
What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
People see my generosity as my greatest strength. The thing I like about myself is my endless optimism.
In what areas of your life would you like help?
Being able to walk out on my own.
Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
Yes like when I'm stuck on an idea and can't get out of the rut.
What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
I like the way people get along together. I get along with almost anyone.
How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
I love romance. It is a way to find that someone special to share life with.
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
If I were to raise a child, I would make sure that they were taken care of. I would be there for them always.
A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
Well I try to talk to them to see if we can find some common ground and to see what we can do to get along together.
Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
As a whole, I describe my relationship ith society to be a good one. Of course there are a few bad people but over all, most people are nice.
How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I try the direct approach. I love to make new friends. I'm always nice to my friends by showing them respect. And when they want some space, I give them their space.
How do you behave around strangers?
I am very comfortable around strangers. i'm not shy at all. In fact, I'm willing to make new friends with any stranger that is nice.