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    Red face Ne-EII (INFj), nice to meet you

    Hello,

    I was introduced to socionics by some friends and when I detected the accuracy of the test and descriptions I was very excited about this.
    Now I'm very interested in the Dualism and read that many people met a few of their duals. So I wonder how they met and how they found out about the dualism. If you can tell about it, I would be very grateful

    Kind regards,
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    An EII interested in duality; I've long waited on this day.

    Pleased to meet you.

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    Scapegrace did as well, Jim.

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    Was that sarcasm, InvisibleJim? ^^

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    Hi Lydia,

    I'm with my dual now. He's just a hard working man who likes to feed me and fix stuff around the home.

    I love him....what can I say...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    Hi Lydia,

    I'm with my dual now. He's just a hard working man who likes to feed me and fix stuff around the home.
    Is that all there is to delta duality? Now I am sad.
    “Let us forget with generosity those who cannot love us”
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kim View Post
    Is that all there is to delta duality? Now I am sad.
    No..no...no

    The sex is off the hook. about that BDMD thread...um there's some pinning down involved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    No..no...no

    The sex is off the hook. about that BDMD thread...um there's some pinning down involved.
    Hair pulling, too?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kim View Post
    Hair pulling, too?
    yes

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    yes
    “Let us forget with generosity those who cannot love us”
    ― Pablo Neruda

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    Seems nice, Maritsa Although not every dual would fit, I think; there are so many other facets which build a human being. Can you also talk to him about matters you care of? Or does his lack of imagination bother you?

    Anyway, I'm very confused now. While I relate to everything written in the IEI-Type and the more I read and think the less I can identify with EII, the test still says EII. I made some lists referring to EII and IEI and the IEI-List is much longer. Also I read the Description of Functions and marked everything which fits me more. While there are also some areas on the EII-Side, the IEI-Side was much darker. I'm more an introvert thinker and extrovert feeler. In the videos where INFP and INFJ people talked to each other, I highly identified with the INFJ (which apparently is IEI) and their statements.
    But the test keeps saying EII, while only 80% IEI.
    Is this normal? Could the test be wrong? Will I see clearer if I let it rest a bit? Or does anyone have a clue what would help me to find my real type?

    Kind regards
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lamproly View Post
    Is this normal? Could the test be wrong? Will I see clearer if I let it rest a bit?
    Yes.

    Do check all the functions.
    Do check the respective dual descriptions of IEI and EII. The difference of preference there might be clearer than your own type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lamproly View Post
    Seems nice, Maritsa Although not every dual would fit, I think; there are so many other facets which build a human being. Can you also talk to him about matters you care of? Or does his lack of imagination bother you?

    Anyway, I'm very confused now. While I relate to everything written in the IEI-Type and the more I read and think the less I can identify with EII, the test still says EII. I made some lists referring to EII and IEI and the IEI-List is much longer. Also I read the Description of Functions and marked everything which fits me more. While there are also some areas on the EII-Side, the IEI-Side was much darker. I'm more an introvert thinker and extrovert feeler. In the videos where INFP and INFJ people talked to each other, I highly identified with the INFJ (which apparently is IEI) and their statements.
    But the test keeps saying EII, while only 80% IEI.
    Is this normal? Could the test be wrong? Will I see clearer if I let it rest a bit? Or does anyone have a clue what would help me to find my real type?

    Kind regards
    Lydia
    Did you do the test on sociotype.com? I don't say it's a bad test but don't rely to much on tests even though they can be accurate and fun. 80% IEI doesn't mean it's unlikely that you are IEI.

    some other tests:

    http://www.mizami.nl/public_html/questionnaire
    http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...-function-test

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    Too many EIIs popping up lately. Hey there, welcomes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lamproly View Post
    But the test keeps saying EII, while only 80% IEI.
    You want more?

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    Ave! The church of Delta grows.





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    Willkommen im Forum!
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    Thank you for the Tests, Daft21!
    Both said INFP, although I often had to guess because of not understanding the english language well enough. But while reading the functions' descriptions, they were in conflict with what the functions-test said. Perhaps it is because of the lack of understanding, perhaps because of misjudgment of myself.
    I did not find very good information about possible subtypes of INFP, perhaps one might be fitting more.

    Like Esaman suggested, I checked the duals (once more) and also watched videos - although I did not find a single ESTJ speaking. EJArendee made a video about ESTJ and ESTP differences. I agreed (or valued) more ESTP while imagining ESTJ as more dry and more work- than fun-related. But which of these is my dual and which the conflictor is hard to say.
    @Absurd: Somehow yes, because it lets me doubt very much although the rest is fitting and this is getting more and more confusing. @Pa3s: Danke. Another german in here?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mfckr View Post
    Better cull the herd…
    Yeah I'll get on that soon, I plan on devouring a portion of the EII population and absorbing them into myself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lamproly View Post
    EJArendee made a video about ESTJ and ESTP differences.
    Congrats on 'meeting' your dual. It would be fine if you were to post that vid for me, though...

    Who knows, I might fall for myself, too.

    Anyhow, seems like DJA is on MBTI page.

    If you want to stick to this Socionics you might want to check whether you're Fi dom or Ni dom first.

    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Arendee View Post
    Yo whatup my name is DJ Arendee. I can fly, shoot lasers, eat an entire chicken whole and sing my abc's. I'm a god damn gentleman and I know what I'm talking about.

    You guys seem pretty cool and everyone seems to know each other. That makes me feel gay. Gay for women.

    I'm an LIE and I like eating salt by itself. Turn ons include sex. Turn offs include death.

    Nice to meet you.
    LUL.
    Last edited by Absurd; 09-20-2013 at 09:55 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lamproly View Post
    Danke. Another german in here?
    Yes, there aren't many of them, though. Kim is a german living in exile who also is a forum regular. Other than that, there are mostly one-time visitors.
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