Is it ever good? I'm ESI and my mother is SLI. She's a wise and gracious catholic(I'm not), and I'm always grateful for her Si, there's a bit of mutual respect and that's it. I'm never helpful for her happiness and she always dismisses my worth. ("What's the point of you if you can't do ______?") And she often guilt-trips me into believing that so many things are my fault when they aren't. That makes me angry all the time but I hide it. We're both great at hiding feelings so we make it. Haha.
I'm curious about other people's experience. If anyone has a benefactor as their parent.