Originally Posted by
Wacey
its about judgement of ones own thoughts and feelings. Is this feeling appropriate? Why? Why not? Why do I feel this way? Is it me? is it them? How do I want to feel? How do I want them to feel? What am I supposed to feel? How are they supposed to feel? Am I to change how I feel? Why and How? Am I to change how they feel? Why and how? what is right for this moment? What is right for the future? Is this the past coming up? For me? For them? Is it right? Do other people feel it is right? do I care if it is right? Do other people care if I care if it is right? Why are they acting that way? Why am I acting that way? Do I care how I am acting? Do they care how I am acting? Do they care about how much I care about how I am acting? Is this healthy? Is it serving me? Do I care if it is healthy? Why or why not? What would other people do?
Who am I close to? why am I close to them? How can I get close to them? How much of myself should I reveal to them? Do they deserve it? Do they not deserve it? Will they relate to me? Will I relate to them? How and why? How and why not? How do I act in relation to how I feel about them? Is it right how I think about them? Is it true how I think about them? Is it true how I think about myself? Why do they think that way? Can I change it? If no, what do I do that is most comfortable? If yes, how do I change it? Or, should it stay the same?
Is this the right time to say something? If yes, then what? Is this the wrong time to say something? If yes, then what do I do? Do I just leave it be? Should I say something? How do I feel about the things I should say?
How will this effect others? How will this effect me? How will this effect how others feel about me? How will this effect how others act towards me? How will this effect how I act towards others? What is the rules here? Am I creating the rules? Are others creating the rules? Can I follow the rules? Is it right to follow the rules? Should I change the rules? How and why? Should I change my behaviour to follow the rules? do I even want to? If yes, then can I lie to appease them? Is that okay to do? Should I not change my behaviour? If I do not, What will the consequences be? For myself? For them? In the longterm?
Is it safe? Am I safe to be me? Is it okay if I am not? If I am not, what good can I take from it? Where is this going? where are they going? Closer to me? Away from me? How do I feel about both? Do they see what I do? Do they notice that? If not, is it okay with me? Yes or no? If yes or no, how do I act?
Who knows who? How are they connected? What is the right thing for me to say in the given situation? what is the right thing to act in the given situation? How can I impress upon them my needs? Do I deserve it? Yes or no? Do they deserv it? Yes or no?
Was it right? Was it wrong? If it was right, is it okay? With me? If it is wrong, is it still okay? With' me? With them?
How do they feel about me? How do I feel about them?
It's the ethics of feelings. Emphasis on the ethics part. That's the beauty of socioncs introverted feeling, it can cover both the external and internal.