What social observations make you upset or get to you?
Social observations that get to you
What social observations make you upset or get to you?
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
when people look away when e.g. an old man falls down on the street.
when people don't hold the door open when someone is trying to catch the train.
when no one intervenes when a waitress or waiter gets insulted by a guest
I'm a tough alpha male. Seriously.
Only way to bother me is if you have some sort of physical power over me, I'm not offended by social situations anymore or somebody being emotionally cruel. It's just so petty.
-Going into a room where someone made to smoke weed privately.
-Cockblocking
-Not being able to stay on the right side on a path.
-Talking in a movie
-Throwing away edible food.
-Shaking hands with lazy grip.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
Seeing Aquagraph talk about them.
People not giving up their bus seats for the elderly/pregnant women, etc.
Abusive parenting (common here).
Drunken weeing in other people's doorways.
Chavs with poor control of their dogs.
Lol. You would hate me.Originally Posted by Aquagraph
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
I doubt it. I might get annoyed but hate must really be earned. ...
And I'm probably being too literal.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
Gossip, petty lunch room gossip about people not in the room.
Complaining, unending complaining about things very small things, things that can be changed. Alright if coming to some understanding about a situation, a person, an event. Otherwise, just suck it up.
Cruelties, making fun of others based on uncontrollable circumstances like apperance, or innocence. Reveals a shallowness of character.
Most other things I can tolarate. These three especially irk me.
not giving up one's seat to the elderly or disabled
I agree with you Wacey, cruelty really gets to me
littering
I don't mind people talking, venting etc, but yeah, like you I feel that I don't want to be around people who need to gossip about others just to cast them in a certain light; if a person who does that isn't doing it to get advice about how they should deal with their emotions about the situation and just continues to gossip, I'll discontinue that relation.
I like it when people complaining about things, gives me a chance to hear about their concerns and helps them work their feelings about stuff out.
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Destroying the property of others[ vandelism].
I really can not stand it when a group bullies an individual, verbally or physically. People pushing into queues...grrrrr, the cashier telling you their till is closed once you get to the front of the queue or telling you you need to join another queue 'for (whatever reason) that'. I also intensly dislike people entering my personal space without permission. And animal cruelty. Loads more.
Now this is a story all about how, my type got changed, turned upside down. Just wait for a minute and watch chatbox right there, & I'll tell how Gem became the moderator with blue hair.
In typology central friended and praised, on the picture thread was where she spent most her days. Chilling out, selfies, relaxing all cool, And all typing some people and getting them schooled.
When a couple of girls who were up to no good, Started annoying her & her friends in the forumhood, She got in one little flame war & got pissed off & said 'I'm moving in with that exboyfriend in the forum with the socionics toffs.
So Gem pulls up to the forum for a year without being a hater, And yells to typocentral 'Yo creeps! Smell Ya later', Became a mod in her kingdom she was finally there, To sit on her throne as the mod with blue hair.
InvisibruJim
The signs, advertisements, the clothes people wear, the way they smile, their cars and houses, every style / clique annoys me, the idea of professionalism... teenagers, fearful mothers, businessmen, judges, ... managers of any kind. Voting, or anyone who thinks their opinion in itself matters. When people say thank you.
You're gay.
The word gay also really annoys me...
Okay, crazedrat, I'm going to stop seeing it annoys you, not.
You are a better person then me.
It seems like a very uninventive way to insult another.
I don't often like the word "whore" when referring to an honest sex worker. It's often a tool used for slut-shaming and I hate slut-shaming.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
Way to shame me for not being an inventor like you and I think I know the reason why you stood up for that guy who had his pic taken by that woman - you don't want to be next.
Ehh, people get immunity and I can't, malna. Cruel world.
-Interrupting people while they talk
-Disrespectful debate (shaking heads, crossing arms, yelling over each other)
-Heavy gossiping, backstabbing, or lack of loyalty when it comes to people you call friends
-Flakiness, setting up plans and canceling often. I get way too far in my daydreaming, and it kills me when plans fall through!
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