Se polr is a b*** of a function
Se polr is the fear of reality being manifest in individuals you love take my ex boyfriend and how I experienced my father's diabetic muscle degeneration when I feared the same would happen to my ex, through relational experience or reality of a disease. It's reality transposed in relationships, as Se is function that observes what is happening coupled with Fi, in what is happening or could happen with others.
I panicked and thought the progression of events would occure in someone else I love,
It's a bitch of a function because I then sound like I'm being critical of their health habits, leaning back to Si HA in trying to get them to eat and be healthy in order to avoid the same possible thing in happening to them.
It's the inability to grasp the real qualities of the object as they are in real time instead it's grasping the qualities of the object through Ni, what could happen in time if certain things are not done right. I lack will, not courage but desire, pleasure, my wishes over things. I give up a sense of my self.
It's the thought of losing someone you love in EII, or parting away with relationships that are static to me. Static positivist means not easily changed, not dynamic negativist.