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[chrisalys]

Hello fellow Socionics enthusiasts. My name is Chris. I've been posting sporadically but I am pretty new around here and wanted to say hello.

Also, I was hoping for some input on some girl troubles I've had lately. I normally don't share, but yall seem supportive so what the hell.

So here goes: My girlfriend lives in Chile. I took a trip with her to Punto Arenas in 2011 and she didn't come back with me. She didn't bring a passport along for the trip, so she would have had trouble returning with me -- but her excuse was that she'd become fond of a group of penguins that had taken to her during the trip. She said she didn't have the heart to say goodbye so soon.

I haven't spoken to her in months. We're still Facebook official, but I'm thinking our relationship is probably a lost cause. Should I feel ashamed that I was dumped for fowl? I mean, i guess I sort of feel like the woman whose husband asks for a divorce because he has come out of the closet and wants to date other guys. Am I making any sense?? I mean, it would be one thing if she left me for some other guy, but she left me for a bunch of wild penguins. I shouldn't feel inadequate, if it's penguin loving she's after - I can't and wouldn't want to compete. But still, it just fucks with my head.

Guys and galls, but guys especially, what should i do? You'd think i would be over her by now, but if I'm honest with myself - I'm still totally obsessed and heartbroken. Goddamn penguins. I have started playing this game obsessively just to take out my rage. I should probably stop that. Just breeds negative energy.

[InvisibleJim]

She didn't bring a passport along for the trip, so she would have had trouble returning with me -- but her excuse was that she'd become fond of a group of penguins that had taken to her during the trip. She said she didn't have the heart to say goodbye so soon.

O_o Really?

And this is a problem now, 2 years later?

Does this behaviour sound entirely rational to you?

I recommend that you should consider looking elsewhere.

Does this image bring tears to your eyes?

 

[chrisalys]

Hi, Timmy.

Hi, Ashton.

[fen]

The comma is superfluous.

I think.

[Beautiful sky]

OMG This is nuts.

[Cuddly McFluffles]

I haven't spoken to her in months. We're still Facebook official, but I'm thinking our relationship is probably a lost cause. Should I feel ashamed that I was dumped for fowl? I mean, i guess I sort of feel like the woman whose husband asks for a divorce because he has come out of the closet and wants to date other guys. Am I making any sense?? I mean, it would be one thing if she left me for some other guy, but she left me for a bunch of wild penguins. I shouldn't feel inadequate, if it's penguin loving she's after - I can't and wouldn't want to compete. But still, it just fucks with my head.

Yes. Yes, you should.

[Capitalist Pig]

"heh"

[Beautiful sky]

don't be ashamed for other people's choices. Why would you be? it makes no sense. unless, of course you want to help scape perfect her mind control device, in which case if you actually contributed to their decision, you should feel ashamed. But, that ain't happening any time soon, and spending time fretting about what went wrong is not good. Sorry for the ethics

Let it go, move on; say, "NEXT!" Hopefully the next person you choose is a kinder human being.

[jessica129]

Penguins r hot

[Aquagraph]

Have some self-respect and dump her.

[SyrupDeGem]

I think you are being quite unkind to penguins. Release the bird woman in your mind, she clearly wants to fly away.

You could look inside yourself to find your inner animal... perhaps it is a bear or tiger.... what fun you could have!

[Aquagraph]

You could look inside yourself to find your inner animal... perhaps it is a bear or tiger.... what fun you could have!

It's peculiar how our inner animals are always iconic and never anything like snails or chickens.

[fairylights]

It's peculiar how our inner animals are always iconic and never anything like snails or chickens.

That's just not true. I've always sometimes felt that my inner animal was a cow.

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

Ironically when somebody makes light of their pain I can't help them because it feels as though they are already doing a good enough job of it themselves.

ie: You are just another celebrity that wants attention.

[Aquagraph]

That's just not true. I've always sometimes felt that my inner animal was a cow.

850 million hindus probably disagree with you about cow being not iconic.