This has been posted on Russian socionics forums by a poster named narayan (SLE-Ti) 7w8, as short list of guidelines for dualization in the SLE-IEI pair from pov of a male ESTp e7 (original thread).
"These instructions do not put any claim to scientific accuracy. Author: Zhukov (SLE). Head editor - Esenin (IEI). This is the most powerful secret weapon against SLEs of male gender. It is intended for those who, at their own risk, have decided to build a relationship with an ESTp.
1. For the SLE love and control are interrelated concepts. Therefore, a sure sign that an SLE is in love with you - he starts to violently attempt to bring some order in your life, sometimes surprising with his interrogations, questionings, and most valuable (in his view) explanations and instructions. He starts to actively guard you from other suitors, and will attempt to push you in the direction of improving your work and your salary. If you refuse to give in (and he won't immediately understand this), he will come to a conclusion that "this citadel will not yield to an attack", and retreat. He needs to understand that you are his territory. Help him with this. Then he can sit back and loosen his grip.
2. SLEs are always in doubt about your attitude and disposition towards them. He can share his suspicions with you openly: "You don’t love me / don’t respect me / don’t appreciate me / don’t value me / don’t recognize my awesomeness." Even when he is silent he is often thinking about this. To reassure him, make a surprised expression and say the female equivalent of the phrase: "Yes, I am for you, bro, and for you I will cut through anyone's throat". Mentioning of going through burning houses and steel pipes is welcomed. Don’t be frightened that SLE will make you prove it all in practice. Otherwise it's not cool. And Zhukov is always cool.
3. The SLE doesn't fall under the influence and neither does he become tamed. The only way to tame Zhukov is to convince him that it is he who is taming you. The more yielding and compliant you are with him, the sooner he will bring his own collar to your feet.
4. The SLE is always at war with something or someone. If you don’t want him to be at war with you, find him an appropriate challenge or enemy. Circumstances, bosses, lack of money to purchase a new appliance, neighbors, mother-in-law - all of these are great candidates.
5. Gaining SLE's trust is very difficult. He is jealous and suspicious. Compliments in his address in manner of "You're the best!" and "You're the one" are encouraged. And remember, all your guy-friends are gay, and in extreme cases are very deeply married. And, of course, all of your ex-boyfriends have long ago been killed in car accidents or have drowned from unrequited love.
6. Zhukov is always right and knows what he wants. It is useless to argue with him. You can only voice "alternative" points of view and your personal wishes. Which, he, of course, has to take into account, because you are so much in need of his help.
7. In any case, do not play with Zhukov. If he catches on what game you're playing, he will win it. If he doesn't, he will shrug his shoulders and walk away. Remember, your most powerful weapon against Zhukov is "victimness". You have to learn how to win by raising a white flag over the castle.
8. Do not compete with the SLE. No sports competitions, no games testing logic. First of all you will lose. Second, even if you win – you will still lose. SLEs may harbor resentment for you and even anger over a loss in a game of cards. Though it is rare that Zhukov has to worry that you're earning more than he does.
9. You need to be very patient and calm with extensive knowledge of Zhukov in fields of literature, art, architecture. Even when he decides to prove to your mother that Pushkin had a duel with Tolstoi over Anna Karenina.
10. Do not purposefully attempt to make Zhukov jealous. This could end in tears.
11. If you want to gain peace of mind in relations, you must constantly remind SLE that you love him, and explain in detail for which qualities.
12. Every SLE is a romantic at heart (just hides it deeply), thus give him a chance to develop this in you with music, poetry, movies, romantic walks, gifts, etc.
13. SLEs cannot be allowed to go around hungry. If you do not know how to cook, then learn how to do it. He won't demand exquisite dishes, but there should be enough food around.
14. Despite his edginess, Zhukov is a gentlemen at heart. Constant encouragement and reminders about these qualities will be proportional to the number of gifts and favors.
15. Relax and have fun. Rape is inevitable.