Am I eii?

[babybow]

Sorry I was not trolling but was probably half drunk when I wrote this!

[fen]

None of this has to do with being infj.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. A lot of people from the forum come here when things are bad in their lives...and disappear from the forum once things improve. You are welcome to prop your feet up and stay however long you need. Surely, if you get involved, you will make some great friends here.

I think you will find that this forum isn't so much about typology as it is an emotional support group, in a way.

Though typology is sort of like a mask we show the outside world...when really we are like the Island of Misfit Toys.

[Beautiful sky]

Welcome.

[Suz]

Welcome!

Yeah none of what you mentioned in the OP is relevant to socionics typing, other than I may be sensing a victim-like approach to life (not totally sure though). The victim types are IEI (INFp), ILI (INTp), LIE (ENTj), and EIE (ENFj).

If you are coming from an MBTI background, be careful about trying to "translate" your MBTI type to socionics type. The letters may be the same, but the meaning is not always. When I first got here, I put myself into my opposing quadra for 4 months by doing so. Not a pleasant experience.

[Cuddly McFluffles]

Welcome!

Yeah none of what you mentioned in the OP is relevant to socionics typing, other than I may be sensing a victim-like approach to life (not totally sure though). The victim types are IEI (INFp), ILI (INTp), LIE (ENTj), and EIE (ENFj).

There is a difference between the Victim romantic style and a victim mentality. An "I suck and the world is out to get me" mindset cannot be narrowed down to any one type.

[Korpsy Knievel]

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Please someone tell me if I'm infj.

[InvisibleJim]

Please someone tell me if I'm infj. ... I'm a woman

Only joking.

I don't think I have enough context to take a sufficiently certain stab at your type. Perhaps if you hang around a bit you can find out more.

The giveaway would be the continual perpetual logic train that INFjs embark upon which is difficult to tether to observations.

[Beautiful sky]

A test:

You get into a new relationship and your bf/gf tells you that she/he loves his sister-in-law but doesn't know how to reach out and communicate with the person because the person is highly materialistic and superficial and doesn't want to befriend them because they give a constant attitude as thought your bf/gf isn't in the same boat. What do you say or do?

You can see how this is so general because in real life, a lot of exchange of information takes place over time. But try your best. I guess.

[Red Villain]

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[Scapegrace]

Damn Jews and their child army.

(Why are you morons taking this post seriously? It's obviously a joke.)

[Cuddly McFluffles]

(Why are you morons taking this post seriously? It's obviously a joke.)

*shrugs* Asking if she was trolling seemed like a quick route to getting blasted by other forumites ("how can you be so insensitive" and all that rot).

[wacey]

@babybow, not much to add here other then reiterate what has already been said by other members: nothing in your description of yourself can help us type you. In fact, I would be extremely cautious in letting others type you in the first place, especially on this site. The reason for this is simple, sociotype must be selftyped and to do this you must understand all the concepts of socionics, starting with Model A. Once you have the basics down, then you can look at some of the supplementary therioes such as the Reinen dicotomies, conventional V.I., ect,. I think it is best to look at your sociotype as the house that you live in. This house has a front door, windows, bathrooms, bedrooms and garage. You will notice your neighbor's homes also has these amenities, but their homes archtecture is very different from the home you dwell in. In the same way you are the occupant of the home and not the house itself, you are the one behind the sociotype and not the sociotype itself. You can identify with the the shape of your "house", or ego, by observing your most centered, relaxed, natural state---the way you are most comfortable behaving---for an extended amount of time. That last point I want to emphasize, because you can be natural while using your demonstrative function, but for how long could you keep that behavior going without becoming exhausted or "lose your sense of self"?

For the instance of an EII, lets look at their ignoring function extraverted ethics, or Fe. To this individual, outward displays of emotions in tandem with light hearted concern (and I use the word concern for lack of a better one) and ethical awareness for the effect these emotions are having on the interloculator (to use this term), can be done for awhile, if the situation calls for such behaviour. But, this individual will become exhausted and feel untrue to herself because her base function is the most comfortable place for her psyche to abide. Introverted ethics, Fi, manifests in the subdued display of outward emotion, with more emphasis on the individuals inner dialogue and feelings towards the interloculator with less regard to changing the emotional "atmosphere of the situation". This is an EIIs base function. Both are ways in which the psyche handles the relationships between self and other, or individual and the world, but one is pointed outwards to others and one is directed inwards.

For example, if invited over to a friends house for coffee, if using the ignoring (or observing) function of Fe, and EII individual will actively smile, joke and generally keep the mood up regardless of inner sentiments towards her friends. She will steer clear of her true feelings, not because they are unimportant, or that her friends will critise her, but because this situation does not call for the sharing of inner sentiments. It calls for being sociable. She "observes" an Fe demenour and outlook, but will find this difficult to continue if her psyche would naturaly like to rest in what it calls "me", or the ego block. She wants to talk about her own personal reactions without needing to maintain the others sense of good mood, which she refraims from doing because she intuits that such conversation would best be left for another time. Although she had a pleasent afternoon, she leaves her friends house slightly unsatisfied. She did not have an opportunity to view the neighborhood through the window of her living room, her ego, because she was sitting in the often unused top floor spare bedroom, the one used for guests. This up stairs bedroom is soon forgotten and closed up when not in use, much like the psyche abandons the observing function when deemed it is not needed. It is a pleasent enough room, but lacks that personal, comfortable feeling, it remains neat and clean. So you see, if you want to self type, I would suggest finding out which Information Element is best suited to describe your most natural behaving and thinking self. This base function will help you narrow down to a handfull of types the one that you could possibly be.

Remember you cannot choose which type you live through, that is dictated from birth, you can however, become aware of some of your strengths and weaknesses of your personality and work within that home. You are always free I might add, because conciousness is always free. Be carefull with the temptation to identify to your type, because this will lead to pain for yourself, which I will not get into here; you are NOT an EII, or IEI, or SEI; you are simply living in that house, you are not the house itself.

I think, judging by your original post, that in that moment you were being highly critical of yourself. Although self critism is not nessasarily a trait of any one sociotype, I will say in my experience that EIIs can be extremely hard on themselves and self-recriminating. To the point that they can become depressed because of their preceived lack in their skills and abilities, past accomplishments, and reactions to other people. This might stem from an super-ego which make up consists of Se and Ti, two functions that are geared toward the outside world and manuavering through it. As well, having a Ne creative function causes the EII individual to seek out new information, including new possibilities for the individual. The coupling of an Se super-ego and a Ne creative function can lead to a certain cognative dissonance for the EII mind, as the distance becomes greater between their preceived place in life, and their closely held beliefs of what life could and should look like causes them stress.

The EII asks: am I doing enough? Is what I do good enough? Can I be physically healthy? Can I take care of all my needs? Will my future be secure and will I be happy there? How will I have the energy in the future, if I do not have the energy now? Can I accomplish all I wish to accomplish, while still remaining physicaly healthy? Will I be loved? How will I survive? Will others see me for how I truly am? Did I say the right thing? Do the right thing? How will my circumstances change? This can be especially painfull when their unconcious function in their Id, introverted sensing Si, seeks out bodily comfort and homeostasis. In other words the EII wants both balance and possiblities. This has the effect of leaving the EII bounded to self judgements (from the super-ego) about his or her place in the world and the desire to create the perfect situation for itself, where its bodily needs and needs of the heart are both met.

Life circumstances that have little room for personal growth are especially difficult for EIIs, as they lack the ease and dynamic of a Si, Te, Se, or even Fe egos, that seem so skilled at changing their outer circumstances to better suit the needs of the individual. On TOP of this precariously balancing scale is an Fi ego. This base function has the effect of magnifying the self, as part of the process of introverted ethics is a steady stream of self analysis. The Fi base individual is constanly talking to herself, almost instantaneously combing through her own thoughts, personal reactions and that of the outer world including and especially other people. Having this microscope aimed inwards brings into glaring detail the EIIs preceived weaknesses. What would others think of me if they only knew? Rarely are others thinking anything at nearly as negative as the EII would believe. Mostly other people would say the EII faults are not true. Insecurity is a trait EIIs need to be vigilant in avoiding. It is part of the EIIs shadow. However, in the end, the EII will be the ultimate judge. She wouldn`t have it any other way.

I can say with certaincy, Babybow, that if things are as they say they are for you, then you are doing a fine job of living. You just need a shift in views, trust yourself here, you ARE doing the right actions.

So, try to type yourself by becoming familier with socionic theory starting with Model A and supplementing with Reinen dicotomies, ect,. Remember that there are eight functions that corrospond to the ego, super ego, Id, and super id and that you can use anyone function at a given time, but that the most natural resting place, the sense of me, will be in your base and creative functions. Become familiar with the imformation elements and how they manifest in each function block (there is plenty of literture on these subjects). Keep in mind you are the occupant of the house, and not the house itself, this wil keep you from becoming trapped in identification of your sociotype. Finally, do not be so hard on yourself, situations can change and you will not always be where you are. And if you are where you are for awhile, remember, EIIs are rational and can thrive in any given situation. Gravitate towards situations and people that help you feel that you can , at least for a little while, LIGHTEN UP and feel good about yourself and what you are doing. Try not to be so hard on yourself.

You`ve got diamonds on the inside, let a trusted few see them... AND do give others the attention you want to give them, a generous EII is a fullfilled EII, BUT, do not forget selfcare!

I apologise for the spelling and grammer errors.

[wacey]

^Edited for socionical errors. Cheers.

[Scapegrace]

You guys must suffer from some sort of mental retardation. Why can't you tell that the original post was not intended to be taken seriously?

Hell, (s)he hasn't posted a damn thing in two weeks.

[Korpsy Knievel]

Why can't you tell that the original post was not intended to be taken seriously?

Have you heard of deltas before?

[Scapegrace]

Socionics is real.

[Creepy-pikachu]

w00f's penis is real.

[wacey]

I have read the posts from all members here and have not found anything that reveals that any member did not realize the thread was not originally intended to be taken seriously. Perhaps people just needed a reason to write out their thoughts and this thread seemed to be convenient. There is this saying from childhood that comes to mind: thankyou captain obvious. Knowing it may not be true, the default position is best to take people at their word, that way you have shown you can be trusted with yours. But, every situation contains nuences. Besides, what can be wrong with contributing to the body of socionics work? You are right about one thing, intertypes are real, my supervisor.

[Scapegrace]

Next time use your Hello Kitty diary.

(Also: hay guys! I'm SEE.)

[wacey]

^...................................Nice one.

[babybow]

I'm here, the post is real.

[blackburry]

I'm here, the post is real.

ew.

[Scapegrace]

I'm here, the post is real.

I had them all convinced it was a joke. You were home free.

[Words]

Your OP is pretty bare, nor sure what your type is.