Nearly every 4 I've met has been argumentative. This includes my EII 4 sister and 4s I've paid attention to on forums, even when they're not arguing with me. I love the 4s in my life and there are many, but it can get quite exhausting to have these pointless debates with them that sometimes last for hours at a time as they want to talk about them until one of us has to do something else. It generally seems to stem from them nitpicking. How do I put a stop to this without being insulting? It's not that I don't care and don't want them to be able to talk to me, it's just that after/before a long day, three hours spent arguing about something totally meaningless like how to get over a cold or whether animals have feelings is utterly frustrating for me in the end. I notice this definitely seems to happen more with 4w5s than 4w3s, and might have something to do with the 5 wing.