type these women

[Joy]

from another topic...

actually, there are two types of women I tend to be attracted to.

The first is like, my idea of the ideal woman. She's short and thin in a petite way. She has long hair, either curly or straight and golden brown or dark brown. The picture in my mind atm the moment is a woman with dark brown hair with loose curls (as opposed to natural curls). She has pale skin and fine features. She wears make up (neutral tones on the eyes and dark lips) and dresses in a classic somewhat dressed up way. She's quiet and would appear unapproachable to most people due to her reversed nature and refined way of carrying herself, but she's not pretentious. She's always on top of things in her life. She's also intelligent.

The other kind, the kind I have had most of my female crushes on, is much louder. She has a slim athletic body and a big grin (she isn't "sporty" though). She jokes around a lot and is very approachable, but she doesn't let anyone walk all over her. She's active and fun. She has short blonde hair and dresses in a casual yet provocative way. She's fun to party with. This person is quick witted and funny. Nothing significant has ever come from these crushes, and I honestly couldn't see myself in a serious relationship with someone like that. She's too flirty. Regardless, the attraction is there.

[Creepy-bg]

from another topic...

actually, there are two types of women I tend to be attracted to.

The first is like, my idea of the ideal woman. She's short and thin in a petite way. She has long hair, either curly or straight and golden brown or dark brown. The picture in my mind atm the moment is a woman with dark brown hair with loose curls (as opposed to natural curls). She has pale skin and fine features. She wears make up (neutral tones on the eyes and dark lips) and dresses in a classic somewhat dressed up way. She's quiet and would appear unapproachable to most people due to her reversed nature and refined way of carrying herself, but she's not pretentious. She's always on top of things in her life. She's also intelligent.

The other kind, the kind I have had most of my female crushes on, is much louder. She has a slim athletic body and a big grin (she isn't "sporty" though). She jokes around a lot and is very approachable, but she doesn't let anyone walk all over her. She's active and fun. She has short blonde hair and dresses in a casual yet provocative way. She's fun to party with. This person is quick witted and funny. Nothing significant has ever come from these crushes, and I honestly couldn't see myself in a serious relationship with someone like that. She's too flirty. Regardless, the attraction is there.

lipstick and butch

[Joy]

neither are butch... the second one is a little bit girly, but also has an "I don't give a fuck" attitude.

[Expat]

The first could be any IJ type; the second, any EP type.

[Joy]

the first is too on top of things to be an intuitive type

the second is too uhhhhhh... feelery... to be a logical type

[Joy]

yes... ISxj and ESFp make sense

[Joy]

for further clarification of what I meant by "on top of things"...

I don't mean long term big things. I mean everyday things like errands and chores and appointments and what needs to be done by when. She's sharp and keeps good track of everything, never forgetting anything important, becoming irritated or frustrated with these "interruptions" (as an intuitive type is likely to do), or getting flustered when there is a lot going on and most people would get stressed or have a difficult time keeping up.

[Animal]

the first is too on top of things to be an intuitive type

the second is too uhhhhhh... feelery... to be a logical type

These two statements are representative of what bothers me about your typing methodology, Joy, and I'm pretty sure I'm not alone.

Anyway, the first woman reminds me of Joy herself (or at least how I believe Joy imagines herself), and the second one reminds me of... Joy herself, excepting of course a few traits here and there.

[Joy]

again...

for further clarification of what I meant by "on top of things"...

I don't mean long term big things. I mean everyday things like errands and chores and appointments and what needs to be done by when. She's sharp and keeps good track of everything, never forgetting anything important, becoming irritated or frustrated with these "interruptions" (as an intuitive type is likely to do), or getting flustered when there is a lot going on and most people would get stressed or have a difficult time keeping up.

the second one you'd have to meet to understand. I am not trying to pass this reasoning off onto anyone else. I'm stating my own observations.

as far as my being like the women... I wish

I first is way too down to earth to be me. The second has WAY too much energy to be me, and is more popular than I am.

[Catholic Schoolboy]

Please, no more poetry.

[Joy]

if that's poetry...

[Catholic Schoolboy]

I can't tell what is modern poetry and what is not.

[Joy]

oh and I almost forgot...

they both have perfect eyebrows