its late and i'm tired but i feel like typing something about this now. maybe i'll edit tomorrow when i realize it sucks. cuz for some reason even tho its pretty abstract and i usually find it difficult to place myself in these kinds of dichotomies the static thing is really easy for me to identify with.
the op stuff sounds pretty normal, like its kinda shitty to blame someone for something that isn't their fault. i think saberstorm is actually kinda on to something but i quoted his post and started crossing stuff out to tweak it more to my liking and it ended up having more crossed out than i thought it would at first. - k yeah i saw your response while i was previewing this and you got the important stuff out of it so YEAH that.
when i think about my life its more natural and easy for me to think about it in discrete phases. the roughly 7-9 phase when i had a bad perm and my teachers loved me. the roughly 10-12 phase when i lived with my mom and things were crazy. the roughly 22-25 phase, etc. things are frozen and they can be unwrapped but it takes more work to unwrap them than it does to wrap them. they come pre-wrapped. my impression is that dynamics see things outside of these packages and that it takes effort to wrap them up instead of the other way around.