I've been lurking a while and reading a bunch of posts. That isn't creepy, is it? To be honest, I've IMMERSED myself in enneagram stuff lately, doing so much reading and researching that I ran out of things on google. Discovering my type has been an interesting process, but I think I finally have my finger on it.
I know that 945 is a triple withdrawn type, but I think "withdrawn" is being taken too literally and extremely by those who claim that "true" 945s, 954s, ect., must be hermits and cut off from the world. When I look at it, I see the "withdrawn" feature as referencing common responses to conflict. 9s withdraw to avoid conflict, 5s withdraw to their inner (often dark) thoughts, and 4s withdraw to protect their feelings. I think any variation of the 945 tritype is prone to doing all three - I know I am.
...Anyway, hi! I didn't mean to introduce myself on an intense note. It's good to finally meet you all.