A recent example is us talking about what's going on in our lives... and I said something about a problem I'm having. Just venting/sharing, not even in a whiny way but more matter-of-fact, and I could tell it bothered her, like it brought her mood down. Which is weird, because I was fine; my mood was not down and I was not trying to affect her negatively; I was just sharing my current situation, but -- again -- not in a whiny or hopeless way. Just sort of venting.
It ended up with me calling back later to make sure I hadn't spoiled her mood (which she made me feel I might have done) and she said something like, "Oh no, just a little. I went out for a bit and felt better. It's just all so much for me." And I'm left thinking, WTF? I can't even talk to her about my life because it's "too much" for her. So I end up feeling like I'm a huge downer as a person (not a fun feeling) or "too much" or whatever, and like I'm just no fun at all. Which sucks.
Things like this make me wonder if I'm LSI or something. I just wanted a listening ear and maybe a little support, and instead I end up feeling guilty