My possible dual and mystery personality?

[Azure Flame]

There is a personality that I've been hunting down almost my whole life. I don't know what type it is, but I know what it looks like. Is this my dual? I've never gotten a successful date from them but I'm still working on it. When I hang around them for long enough I get these incredibly powerful fantasies and daydreams that no other type brings out of me. One example, I was at a wedding hitting on 2 women. 1 was very shy and watched me from afar. We had 1 conversation about how she was scared of flying. I ignored her the next day and hit one some possible ESFj who I had nothing in common with, but turned me on incredibly. After the wedding, I was really attracted to the ESFj, but after a few hours the lust faded and the dust settled in my mind, and suddenly I was completely obsessed with the shy girl I spoke to earlier who was scared of flying. I had intense fantasies and daydreams about her for the following week and the whole time I was thinking, "why the hell didn't I talk to her instead?" and it was too late to make contact with her at that point. You can blame the datelessness on my general ineptitude when it comes to approaching women. Regardless, do you think this is my dual? Could this even be my conflictor?

Anyway I know what this type looks like. I have a radar for it. Its the same personality as

Armin van buuren and Ryan Gosling.

Here is some of armin van buuren's music, he's one of my absolute favorite DJ's.




and here is ryan gosling, my man crush



So, what is this mystery personality I go bonkers for? (I can't think of any female celebs that fit the type as of yet).

[Absurd]

Well, at least you go crazy for someone who was typed beta. Not bad.

[redbaron]

or maybe you were just drawn to her because she was more of a mystery, and at that point impossible to attain. men always want what they can't have (people in general, not just men).

What is Ryan Gosling typed? LSI? I liked him in Crazy Stupid Love but not so much in Drive. I mean, his performance was good but the character was kind of flat.

[Azure Flame]

Well, at least you go crazy for someone who was typed beta. Not bad.

dangling modifer fail. please rephrase.
@redbaron... As for their types, I have my own opinions but I'd rather hear what you have to say first so as to generate more genuine responses.

[Absurd]

dangling modifer fail. please rephrase.

As for their types, I have my own opinions but I'd rather hear what you have to say first so as to generate more genuine responses.

I took the liberty to lick the screen when I opened that socionix gallery so I won't forget it after I closed socionix tab and there he was in shiny armour. Anyway, when you look really closely at me sticking my tongue in your direction you're going to notice the image which reads Ti-SLE.

[Azure Flame]

What the fuck are you saying right now?

[Absurd]

What the fuck are you saying right now?

That depends what you want to hear.

[Gravolez]

IEI

[Azure Flame]

what about esi?

[Slacker]

Hey girl.

[Absurd]

what about esi?

ESI works just fine as far as I am concerned. I have always admired people self-typing LIE and how they manage to spot their duals so fast.

[Aquagraph]

and here is ryan gosling, my man crush

I think I can get a good gist of what you see there.

[Azure Flame]

So does anyone want to give some constructive posts? I threw ESI out there as a possibility to hear what you think, not to get trolled. I've heard 1 person give an answer which was nice.