ENTP?

[Destroypuppy]

Hello all!

I love this forum! People seem to know so much about socionics.

When I first found out about socionics, I was too much in a rush to get all the info and started to try and find peoples types and see relations between me and them but it got some people frustrated.

I usually get carried away when I find something new like that.

Its also that when I was younger, I used to see resemblance between people that others didn't confirm. It wasn't physical, more like the same soul.

So later, I discovered astrologie, and was like : This must be it!

So I learned a lot about astrologie, even started to try to guess strangers astrological signs.

After lots of fails, and little winning, I stopped caring about astrologie.

But now! Socionics! Wow! It all makes sense again!

The only problem is that even tho I try to read and understand jung's textes, or even on the wiki, I can't learn on my own.

I need someone who understands socionics very well to help me understand bunch of things.

I guess this is an introduction, maibe introduction to my cry for help.

My coloc thinks i'm ENTP, tests tell me INTJ, I though ENFP for a while...

I think its hard to find your type on your own...

Anyway, I wanna start a mouvement in Montreal, maibe meet some people that are into Socionics.

I think everyone should know about this.

So yeah, this is it, you can ask me questions, pictures, videos, skypes would be nice.

And oh yeah, I'm a 28 male who speaks french, live in Quebec Canada ( not french french) and I got a pretty good english.

Thanks!

(Call me destroy, or Leon)

For clues, look at the post I did thinking I was an IEE, its about love.

Well, here it is:

Hello,
As a IEE I can tell you what to do. Ask him to do something, like going out for a beer or a meal, ask him when you two are alone together. It will not be weird, and don't make it obvious that you are interested in him, let him read you (because he will be reading you.. all the time), give him hints that you are into him. One thing is touch, if you can touch his arm while saying good bye, he will fall for you.
Starting relationship with IEE is easy, it's not giving up that is the hard part.
At one point in the relationship, he might test you. The biggest test, is the break-up. He might try to "white wolf" you.

The problem with IEE is that we have great showmanship. What I mean to say is that we often appear to be more then we really are, and this is conscious.
So, at one point, he will either try to show you who is really is, or else, try to break it off thinking that openning up to you will make you love him less.

I had a lot of different girl friends and I always said that, : The one for me will take me back after I turned her away.
Because we often go back to the girls we loved.

Here is my 2 cents.
I hope this is usefull.

And to explain White Wolf reference:

White wolf, it's in the latest episode of The New Girl.

White wolf is an actual book where a boy gets a wolf to be his pet, but has to get rid of it, even tho he loves it, because it's the best thing to do.

Its pushing someone away because you think you are bad for them.
Even tho they love you...
This happened to be so many times.

I get the girl to fall in love with me, then I beleve she likes me for the wrong reasons, and I break it off saying that it's because i'm a fraud and she is better off without me.

Its very childish.
I was with a lot of caregivers.
Like a serial monogamist.

And I often break it up for logical reason, but then regret it later on.

I always come back to my ex, and it always fails.

So.. IEE's, rings a bell?

(I might be ILE, not sure i can found my type on my own. My coloc(roommate) thinks i'm ILE)

[FoxOnStilts]

Anyone not speaking french, coloc means roommate. When I read it, I kept thinking colon which led to "My poop thinks I'm ILE".

Anyway, I wouldn't be surprised if you were IxE at all, and IEE seems a better bet than ILE based off this one post. It seems less organized than I'd imagine an ILE to be, though it could just be that your english (while very good) lacks organization. More Fi than Ti. Or it could just be that I'm typing you off of one post which is a terrible sample-size. Either-or.

Nonetheless, I'm sure people who get off on typing newbies will be in here soon to help you sort everything out. I'm 23 and ILE and an American residing in the motherland at the moment. Welcome to the forum.

[Cuddly McFluffles]

Welcome!

[Destroypuppy]

I feel like i've been working on my Fe or Fi since I was into girls.

I think I might made myself more aware of feeling, because in cegep I was a hit with the girls and didn't succeed in school.
And also, I have always been interested in how the human mind works and social networks (in real life) and how can I be someone else or better myself.

I had lots of different friends over time, and now that i'm 28, I have 2 or 3 friends and have a hard time making new ones.
There is always at my work, but I work in a small business. Anyway.

I also changed my profile picture to a real one, it might help.

[Destroypuppy]

I felt like if in the movie Scott Pilgram vs the World, Scott Pilgram was the same type as I.
Seriously, its like the story of my life, like a movie made for me. Instant Classic.

For some reason I can't upload pictures.

[lemontrees]

Destroypuppy, your avatar looks way too much like an ENTp I know (and am trying to avoid.)

I nearly jumped in my seat...

[Gravolez]

IEE is more likely than ILE.

[Destroypuppy]

Could I be an IEE with a strong Te or Ti, or is that impossible?

[Galen]

Your user pic VIs as Ti valuing.

The way you write in your OP seems way too cut-and-dry for any F-ego imo.

[woofwoofl]

holy jesus obvious ILE

[Absurd]

So I learned a lot about astrologie, even started to try to guess strangers astrological signs.

What's my astrological sign?

[Destroypuppy]

Now I'm thinking IEI, the truth is, I don't know.
I change a lot when I have a girlfriend, I become what I believe she wants me to be.
Maibe it's all those different girls I dated that confuses me on who I am, who I was and who will I be.

The thing is, I don't want to be alone, I am always looking for a new conquest.
To be loved I think is what I need. Or to love, Idk.

HELP!

[Gravolez]

I'd still go for IEE.

[Destroypuppy]

I found my type!
I'm Gamma, I'm serious, but make infantile decisions.
I'm LIE, and I had such a hard time finding my type, and that's because LIE needs to destroy and rebuild.


Like I said before, I was frustrated about me doubting my type all the time, retrying everyday to find a better way to self type me, finding flaws in my last self typing, but now it all makes sense.

Also, it's so clear from my parents typing.

My moms loves my dad, my dad lost interest in her, I always thought my dad was superior to my mom (dad is her benefactor) and that I should be more like my dad (dad is my supervisor) but I always felt a better connection with my mom.
So it was very confusing for me, believing my mom that my dad was superior, but now I see, my mom is my dual. I need a woman like my mom, but when I meet one, I get the sensation that she most be inferior.

I didn't like myself, or people of my quadrant, thinking that they were inferior.

So now, I reject my dad's approche to life, I praise my mom's.

Did I do a self-psychoanalysis?

[Destroypuppy]

I've been a self-hating LIE.

[ashlesha]

When I first found out about socionics, I was too much in a rush to get all the info and started to try and find peoples types and see relations between me and them but it got some people frustrated.

I usually get carried away when I find something new like that.

Its also that when I was younger, I used to see resemblance between people that others didn't confirm. It wasn't physical, more like the same soul.

So later, I discovered astrologie, and was like : This must be it!

So I learned a lot about astrologie, even started to try to guess strangers astrological signs.

After lots of fails, and little winning, I stopped caring about astrologie.

But now! Socionics! Wow! It all makes sense again!

The only problem is that even tho I try to read and understand jung's textes, or even on the wiki, I can't learn on my own.

I need someone who understands socionics very well to help me understand bunch of things.

this alone makes me think IEE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I LE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> LIE

[fen]

Hello Ne-ego. Where is your Te?

[Radio]

so far you strike me as E3, extroverted, Ne/Si valuing
probably Alpha > Delta

anyway, welcome.

[Gravolez]

IEE

[Destroypuppy]

I got my Briggs and Myers test.
I'm ENTP at home when I smoke weed, but ENTJ at work.


Skype me? Anyone?