I love this forum! People seem to know so much about socionics.
When I first found out about socionics, I was too much in a rush to get all the info and started to try and find peoples types and see relations between me and them but it got some people frustrated.
I usually get carried away when I find something new like that.
Its also that when I was younger, I used to see resemblance between people that others didn't confirm. It wasn't physical, more like the same soul.
So later, I discovered astrologie, and was like : This must be it!
So I learned a lot about astrologie, even started to try to guess strangers astrological signs.
After lots of fails, and little winning, I stopped caring about astrologie.
But now! Socionics! Wow! It all makes sense again!
The only problem is that even tho I try to read and understand jung's textes, or even on the wiki, I can't learn on my own.
I need someone who understands socionics very well to help me understand bunch of things.
I guess this is an introduction, maibe introduction to my cry for help.
My coloc thinks i'm ENTP, tests tell me INTJ, I though ENFP for a while...
I think its hard to find your type on your own...
Anyway, I wanna start a mouvement in Montreal, maibe meet some people that are into Socionics.
I think everyone should know about this.
So yeah, this is it, you can ask me questions, pictures, videos, skypes would be nice.
And oh yeah, I'm a 28 male who speaks french, live in Quebec Canada ( not french french) and I got a pretty good english.
(Call me destroy, or Leon)
For clues, look at the post I did thinking I was an IEE, its about love.
Well, here it is:
As a IEE I can tell you what to do. Ask him to do something, like going out for a beer or a meal, ask him when you two are alone together. It will not be weird, and don't make it obvious that you are interested in him, let him read you (because he will be reading you.. all the time), give him hints that you are into him. One thing is touch, if you can touch his arm while saying good bye, he will fall for you.
Starting relationship with IEE is easy, it's not giving up that is the hard part.
At one point in the relationship, he might test you. The biggest test, is the break-up. He might try to "white wolf" you.
The problem with IEE is that we have great showmanship. What I mean to say is that we often appear to be more then we really are, and this is conscious.
So, at one point, he will either try to show you who is really is, or else, try to break it off thinking that openning up to you will make you love him less.
I had a lot of different girl friends and I always said that, : The one for me will take me back after I turned her away.
Because we often go back to the girls we loved.
Here is my 2 cents.
I hope this is usefull.
And to explain White Wolf reference:
White wolf, it's in the latest episode of The New Girl.
White wolf is an actual book where a boy gets a wolf to be his pet, but has to get rid of it, even tho he loves it, because it's the best thing to do.
Its pushing someone away because you think you are bad for them.
Even tho they love you...
This happened to be so many times.
I get the girl to fall in love with me, then I beleve she likes me for the wrong reasons, and I break it off saying that it's because i'm a fraud and she is better off without me.
Its very childish.
I was with a lot of caregivers.
Like a serial monogamist.
And I often break it up for logical reason, but then regret it later on.
I always come back to my ex, and it always fails.
So.. IEE's, rings a bell?
(I might be ILE, not sure i can found my type on my own. My coloc(roommate) thinks i'm ILE)