One thing I think about a lot is how differently each type metabolizes information and how they each expect/need different verbal responses to essentially everything. Usually this becomes more evident when a particular type is going through something and discussing it with you.
I feel as though if the person I'm talking to is not my dual, activity, semi-dual or illusionary, there is not much I can offer them in terms of help or advice that will really give them what they need.
So how do you provide what your dual needs in these situations?
1. What is your type?
2. What are some concrete, real examples (quotes) of things that you might say to comfort your dual and give them what they need (Te, Fi, Fe, Se, Si, Ni, Ne, or Ti)?
3. What solutions would you try to implement/offer them?
4. What are questions you might ask to learn more about what is bothering your dual?
5. What do you look for/need in a response from your dual? In what ways might they help you?
Please provide actual examples if you can (and don't mind doing so).