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    Like when you post on someone's Facebook wall (same sex, not romantic) a bunch of hearts and "I miss you!!" and they don't even like it. And they're supposedly one of your best friends.
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    lol are you sure they noticed it? thats funny. they could have at least "liked" it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    and they don't even like it.
    They didn't physically click the "Like" button, or they said that they don't like your post?

    Was this recent? Like kassie said, they might have just not gotten around to it yet.

    There are plenty people who appreciate Fe, so no need to worry.

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    LOL I think I realized it's because she uses an iPad app to access Facebook and so if it's not in her stream right then, she doesn't notice it. i.e. she never checks her wall.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    LOL I think I realized it's because she uses an iPad app to access Facebook and so if it's not in her stream right then, she doesn't notice it. i.e. she never checks her wall.
    Glad to hear.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mountain Dew View Post
    Glad to hear.
    Say MD, what type are you these days? Just curious!
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    Say MD, what type are you these days? Just curious!
    LSI.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mountain Dew View Post
    LSI.
    That means Maritsa thinks we're duals.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    That means Maritsa thinks we're duals.
    Lol perhaps she's right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mountain Dew View Post
    Lol perhaps she's right.
    She's always right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    Like when you post on someone's Facebook wall (same sex, not romantic) a bunch of hearts and "I miss you!!" and they don't even like it. And they're supposedly one of your best friends.

    A group of cheerful people instills the following reactions:

    1) On ignoring Fe (EII and ESI): they display the "I am surrounded by criminals" face
    2) On Fe polr (SLI and ILI): they display the "I am pushing but I can have a shit" face
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1981slater View Post
    2) On Fe polr (SLI and ILI): they display the "I am pushing but I can have a shit" face
    Are you saying that their facial expression is as if they are taking a shit?

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    That means Maritsa thinks we're duals.
    Yeah, and didn't I say that before and several several several times? *Maritsa wants the emoticon with the brick and the guy banging his head on it*

    I'm ignoring Fe now redbarron; I skip the emotional atmosphere and get down to serious things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    Yeah, and didn't I say that before and several several several times? *Maritsa wants the emoticon with the brick and the guy banging his head on it*
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    Well, now you know how I ignore Fe. The emotional atmosphere, that is being created, established, is skipped over in favor of discussing serious topics that may be against the existing emotional atmosphere where Fi is.

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    Maritsa you seem non-serious to me in a few ways
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    Quote Originally Posted by ArchonAlarion View Post
    Maritsa you seem non-serious to me in a few ways
    She's just ignoring Fe and it works.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArchonAlarion View Post
    Maritsa you seem non-serious to me in a few ways
    well that's not what socionics says, socionics says she's a SERIOUS type. get your facts right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArchonAlarion View Post
    Maritsa you seem non-serious to me in a few ways
    Squirtle?

    No. Everything is serious in her world, including sex. That's why she doesn't answer to Squirtle when she is called upon in Tinychat, because it sounds too "merry." Lets aim for, say, Dr. Squirtle.

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    There are things you can try to ignore, but get to you eventually

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    Sometimes I want somebody to tell me what's really going on not just their social mask. I understand 9 times out of 10 the social mask is more comfortable but ... I was the emo boy who didn't smile in school like Daria and then the teachers were like 'Smile Sam!' and I just glared at them. I'm a big whore for real human connection not just pretending to be happy in front of people. =/

    does this mean im Fi-ego now? AHHH IDENTITY ISSUES. (j/k i won't be insecure about that. I hope.)

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    nah i think people have superficial conceptions about most things

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    People who leave overly gushy posts on my wall and expect me to react in kind annoy me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Galatea View Post
    People who leave overly gushy posts on my wall and expect me to react in kind annoy me.
    Like this, for example?

    Thanks for being there when I needed a shoulder to lean on, for patiently listening to my personal problems. Baby, I just want you to know how happy am I to have you in my life and I thank God for that. Thank you for the love and the joy you bring. You've changed my life, Baby. You're the only boyfriend who gives my heart some excitement and thrills. When I'm with you I feel like I'm out of control! You taught me how to handle life seriously, you taught me how to solve my problems and to face it without any fear... when I'm with you, I feel no fear, not even a single one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Absurd View Post
    Like this, for example?
    Gag.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Galatea View Post
    Gag.
    Okay, thanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Absurd View Post
    Like this, for example?
    did you write that on somebody's wall, absurd?
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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    did you write that on somebody's wall, absurd?
    No, I even have quite and issue with saying 'I like you' in real life but when I do and it is met with some hate shit, one is dead to me, literally dead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Absurd View Post
    No, I even have quite and issue with saying 'I like you' in real life but when I do and it is met with some hate shit, one is dead to me, literally dead.
    Okay, that's not what I meant. First of all, the OP specified that the situation in question was a platonic one. I have gushy friends who leave me gushy wall posts, I don't know how to respond in kind and I'd feel weird doing it, so I don't. They understand that because they're my friends, and if they didn't they probably wouldn't be. It's just when gushing and liking and responding become expected social niceties for EVERYONE that I get annoyed.

    Romantically speaking, I strongly prefer men who don't wear their hearts on their sleeve, so posts of the kind you provided as an example are not usually an issue.If it did come up and I wasn't into them, I'd let them down but I certainly would try not to be cruel about it. It takes courage to tell someone how you feel especially if you don't know whether or not your feelings are reciprocated, and I respect that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Galatea View Post
    Okay, that's not what I meant.
    Heh, it wasn't directed at you nor any of yous on this board. Calm down, haha, I can't believe I'm saying that to a self-typed Ij.

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    Idk, maybe this is a Fi>Fe issue, but posting things like that to people's walls seems weird to me. I feel like their primary motive is to show off to others (how they have a lot of friends and how much fun they're having or something like that), instead of actually directing their words at me and meaning what they say. If somebody missed me I'd much rather have them send me a text message or a private message or call me than post something publicly on my wall that I'm going to see probably several hours or even days later.. I don't get posts like that too much, but if it happens I usually "like" it or say something back, because I don't want to embarrass them or make them feel bad, but may remove the post after some time.
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    This is an odd thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Galatea View Post
    People who leave overly gushy posts on my wall and expect me to react in kind annoy me.
    Quote Originally Posted by Agarina View Post
    Idk, maybe this is a Fi>Fe issue, but posting things like that to people's walls seems weird to me. I feel like their primary motive is to show off to others (how they have a lot of friends and how much fun they're having or something like that), instead of actually directing their words at me and meaning what they say. If somebody missed me I'd much rather want them to send me a text message or a private message or call me rather than post something publicly on my wall that I'm going to see probably several hours or even days later.. I don't get posts like that too much, but if it happens I usually "like" it or say something back, because I don't want to embarrass them or make them feel bad, but may remove the post after some time.
    Chiming in with this, if someone wrote something like that on my facebook wall, I'd immediately delete it. That's not to say I wouldn't appreciate it and I'd probably contact them in some way as soon as I read it, but I don't want things like that to be public. It's embarrassing to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Absurd View Post
    Thanks for being there when I needed a shoulder to lean on, for patiently listening to my personal problems. Baby, I just want you to know how happy am I to have you in my life and I thank God for that. Thank you for the love and the joy you bring. You've changed my life, Baby. You're the only boyfriend who gives my heart some excitement and thrills. When I'm with you I feel like I'm out of control! You taught me how to handle life seriously, you taught me how to solve my problems and to face it without any fear... when I'm with you, I feel no fear, not even a single one.
    What's wrong with this? I think it's very sweet. Seems like something an ESE would say, btw.

    As for the OP, I'd respond to such a post. Being an Fi-ego doesn't mean that there's like a ying-yang attitude towards Fe... I've also done the "HEEEELLLLOOOOO !!!" type thing too. Fi and Fe are important in relationships in general, imo, though I might just be a biased feeler .

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    Things like that don't really bother me but if they were to get as personal as Absurds example, i'd be like wow TMI for real. That's just awkward and creepy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lobo View Post
    What's wrong with this? I think it's very sweet. Seems like something an ESE would say, btw.

    As for the OP, I'd respond to such a post. Being an Fi-ego doesn't mean that there's like a ying-yang attitude towards Fe... I've also done the "HEEEELLLLOOOOO !!!" type thing too. Fi and Fe are important in relationships in general, imo, though I might just be a biased feeler .
    Pulled that off some random site, just to check I have it right.

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