Subtypes in Benefit, Quasi, and Activity relations
Which of these subtype combinations work out better in these types of relations in your experience?
both people leading subs
both creative subs
irrational leading - rational creative
irrational creative - rational leading
It's not that I have that much experience but IMO when it comes to activity: both creative subtypes works pretty good .
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Activity: ILI-Tes are awesome.
I don't believe I've ever met an ILI-Ni IRL.
I did find our friendship though being great and very understanding, became strenous over time: we had to try to find level ground on our points of views and he thought I was too opininonated/jugemental, which at first he found to be hilarious, but later we both grew old of each other, it was like we both brought a lot to the table but tired of being the more lively one and so we'd both resort to being quiet and after three hours of nonstop talking would suddenly run out of things to say in a fairly awkward manner. Super easy to start up conversations and no hard feelings on either side. He let me get away with whatever and pushed the majority of his feelings under. Unfortunately I like the passion that comes with calling eachother out on BS once in a while. He found an amazing SEE-fi a year ago and he's already getting ready to propose while they're in Costa Rica, socionics aside, they're an awesome match and she's extremely loyal/ rambunctious/opinated as well but she's totally more liberal/open than I, which is perfect for him, andddddd she's a law student which doesn't hurt.
I'd also like to know how subtypes affect the nuances in relations. I remember one time my ESI mom told me about a date she had with my ILI dad. They went out to the park and they chatted- but most of the date was silent. My mom waited for my dad to speak for 3 hours (i'm sure she said a few things in between) but dam i don't even have that sort of patience and i don't even know why they're together. Good to know that you guys communicate! And thanks for sharing your activity experience, i've always wanted to know what activity for introverts were like
How long did your relationship lat blackburry?
Originally Posted by blackburry
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we're still friends, sorta... I haven't heard from him in a while.
I've known him for 2 1/2 years now, we never officially dated but we hung out often he brought it up a lot so we talked about it. but i knew i wasn't into him enough to make anything happen.