Originally Posted by
wookie
Example...kind of hard. But I'm thinking in terms of the sort of people who carry some guilt around. Perhaps it's from emotional baggage from the past, or they experienced some trauma that they feel ashamed of and feel like what negative experience they had was their fault, or being belittled over time so often that a person subconsciously believes they are inferior and blame themselves for being this way and blame themselves when things around them go wrong.
I'm also thinking of how sometimes people carry this guilt and yet try to disown it and project their faults onto other people to make themselves feel absolved of negative traits they possess by assigning it to something external.
I know people, including myself, who are like this and it really can bring out the ugliness in a person. Though I guess the reason I am asking is because I think a number of people do it but not a lot seem accustomed to facing themselves as it's hard to do. I'm inclined, however, to try and face these things, even if it's painful and even if doing something about it is hard work because I believe it's somehow the right thing to do sooner or later.
I like to think it's something like coming out where you deep down know you are different and know where your preferences lie but don't want to really admit it for what it is to yourself or to others and so to start the process of dealing with it and being done with it (well, I don't think one is ever done with it, but I know it helps really dealing with it). But I'll leave it at that before rambling on.