What do you think of these two. You think sonic and sally are an SLE/IEI pair? I'm still getting used to the pairings so I'm not sure. Sonic was my hero from birth and I named my cat after Sally cuz she's hawt and I want her even though she's an animal. (mm kinky)
So I'm an SLE and I've met my fair share of INFp's. If I wanted to put a conscious effort into finding INFp's, where should I go? I'm a gymnast and I met most of them in that sport but the age for gymnastics is passing so the odds of finding an INFp that's still going to the gym are slim. I've been suspecting yoga class might be a good place. Any ideas? I love art and wanted to get into some kind of art class as well, probably just drawing.
Here's another random question.
As I mentioned eariler, I've met INFp's. Typically what happens I tend to find them somewhere in my proximity checking me out, or I start checking them out I'm not too sure which comes first. Then the across the room eye contact eventually turns into walking and talking about the weather or whatever worthless shit I can pull out of my ass. I always get this sense like, "GOD I WANT TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT SOMETHING FUN!" but it never happens, almost as if she's holding back. Like I really really want them to start talking but they just, don't, and they tend to give really enthusiastic one word answers. I got an INFp to give me 3 words once, that was pretty impressive.
Anyway I'll use one girl as an example. She sat at my lunch table and I just looked at her curiously then started talking to her. Then we parted ways and suddenly I felt totally turned on. She lived on the same floor as me so our interaction was mostly me being a jackass rolling down the hallway in a laundry cart and her laughing hysterically. Somewhere along the line we started talking. I got her phone number and asked her if she wanted to go running with me which she said "Yeah!" like it was a great idea. Then when I approached her the next day she was completely cold. I was a little disheartened so I pulled back a little. Eventually I tried again. We sorta went back and forth but never had any success. At one point we met at a football game and just stopped and gave a loud enthusiastic "HEY!" to one another and I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime. She said yes so I called and left a message. Still no success. Never called back, and our paths didn't cross because we never had any classes in common.
Anyway I met tons of INFp's in my life, and this is almost always how it goes. So for the last few years I completely gave up on them and went after ENFj's and ISFp's. Back in those days I was terrified of girls and didn't have much confidence but I tried and tried over and over. If I had to do something all over it would be my confidence, because now I'm not nervous at all and I ask women out all the time, sometimes on accident and I regret it. Suggestions? I know the possibility is in there somewhere but I can't seem to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Maybe I'm not showing up at her door with flowers or something, Idunno.