So here I am again with some doubts as to what my type really is.When I first bumped into socionics I was really amazed at how correct these descriptions were - I was pretty sure I was ENFp. I considered ESFj but something was off about that type - especially the fact that they can continue doing something even if they don't like it etc. For me it's been incredibly difficult.
My relations with people show that I'm rather not ESFj although Martisa has me as one. I had INTj boyfriend - terrible relationship although at times the connection was really strong. My sister is INTj, my mother is ESFj. I've always argued with my sister I felt she was not delicate, saying rude things and not sensitive to what other people feel like and her nervousness was unbearable for me - I was almost scared of her. I also felt I gave more that she did in our relationship - I always tried to help her and when I needed her she just wouldn't do that "because". And again, at times it was different. We seem to get on well from times to times but I need to try hard.
But maybe it's not type related after all.
I get on pretty well with delta ST - we simply never argue and even though they are not always what I perceive sensitive it is not as strong as in case of INTj I know.
E.g. my flatmate is INTj. Normally we would just sit in our rooms, sometimes talking but usually in front of our computers doing something. We discuss philosophical issues, sense and nonsense of life and dreams of achieving something. He also gets on my nerves sometimes cause he doesn't want to clean.
On the other hand when my LSE boyfriends comes it seems to me that I'm protected and everything is under control.When I am on my own I usually don't know what to do and he is the one who steers us in some directions. I give and idea : maybe we'll go somewhere and he is the one who decides when and if at all. It's not so silent when he comes, I feel power to do something and it's just great. He doesn't like it when I discuss abstract ideas with somebody let's say the religion and if we should go to the church if we know that we don't fulfil all the things the church wants us to do etc, etc. He's not into discussions about respect etc. but he looks for my insight when he's wondering what he should do or shouldn't do.
So I don't know. Martisa typed MD correctly so maybe my type is correct as well.
Am I ESE? That would be really stupid considering people I get on with.