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    Default Rude INFps/Nice ENTjs

    INFps can be rude and cutting and a huge asshole.

    And ENTjs can be caring and sensitive and empathetic.

    Please discuss.

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    everybody tells me how loving I am and how much of a big heart I have, but it's not like I go out and save the human race. I just selfishly like to play rpgs all day and to think about what superpowers I have and idealize people how I want to see them not how they are.

    how is that me being a good guy?

    just because I don't like to do the cutting str8 male thing like Nick and Gilly and almost all heterosexual men that means I'm a saint or something?

    please discuss.

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    I don't agree with ENTjs being assholes by definition, though they are in a position to be more impersonal than other types. It's all about personality development and emotional maturity, without that - any type or person is liable to be not "nice".

    Socionically, they are allowed to be nice in INFj-ish ways. They also still retain that [Ni ego - Fi seeking] disposition, so they are not all that volitionally forceful and there are unconscious desires to be seen in a good light.
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    I think a lot of LIEs mean well and come off as assholes by accident, while IEIs can be bitchy as hell and come off as nice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    everybody tells me how loving I am and how much of a big heart I have, but it's not like I go out and save the human race. I just selfishly like to play rpgs all day and to think about what superpowers I have and idealize people how I want to see them not how they are.

    how is that me being a good guy?

    just because I don't like to do the cutting str8 male thing like Nick and Gilly and almost all heterosexual men that means I'm a saint or something?

    please discuss.

    =)
    It doesnt make you a good, guy, it makes you uninfluential. If you got off your pc(like I need to do these days :-p) and actually tried to impact people, you could be considered a bad guy, because influence is dangerous.

    I wouldnt say you are a bad person because you're not being altruistic and saving the human race, though. Theres only a select type of personality that is likely to be altruistic, which Xtian values have set as a standard when it only applies to a small percentage of the population.

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    i was going to say that rudeness and niceness are NTR and all a matter of perspective (which could be socionic, but it's different for each type).
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    I know an Fe-IEI who's likable enough, but purposefully antagonistic, and he doesn't seem happy unless everyone around him's driven half mad

    I don't know too many Ni-LIEs, but I know some Te-LIEs, and they're generally (actually all, to the best of my memory, given the current-at-time-of-writing pool of ones I know) wonderful, easy to get along with, we motivate the shit out of each other, we have some of the best conversations, they give some of the best hugs... how can anyone not like them?

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