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    Default What types are most often perceived to "speak" with their eyes?

    Sometimes I convey my thoughts/opinions through my eyes if I do not want to speak out loud and was told I "speak" with my eye.

    What are your experiences with the type of people who have such tendencies? Any connection to a particular function, i.e., Ne-Creative or Fe-Mobilizing?

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    I'm pretty sure it isn't type related but I know an LII woman who shoots daggers when she's displeased lol.

    It may be Ne-creative or Fe-mobilizing, but I've also noticed that SEE can also be pretty expressive with their eyes as well.

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    not mine. I would say SEI are great at that even SEE would be pretty good. In order to do this I guess you would have to have a good idea of how you come across to others and have a sense of what you want to achieve.

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    I would think involved object functions have the most to do with this: Se and Fe.
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    More in interesting would be "how different types speak with their eyes" imo.
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    i definitelY speak with mY eYes more than words irl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    i definitelY speak with mY eYes more than words irl.
    Hmm yeah

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    ESE for sure
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    More in interesting would be "how different types speak with their eyes" imo.
    Yes, that would be. Come to think of it, a book on body languages I read awhile ago has some good points on how the eyes reveal our inner thoughts (in addition to the rest of the body gestures). What I am more curious on how the types use eyes actively to convey messages not spoken.

    An ESE I know, has lively eyes when excited, does a lot of winking, conveys the "you know what I mean" or "wouldn't you agree" type messages frequently whether in large or small group settings. I on the other hand, have the puzzled, indifferent, tell me more, I am glad/sad/angry, etc look more often. I suppose these type of eye messages can come from people of any types since they are automatic.

    When in the company of people I know well, my eye expressions carry more meaning. One time, a SLI had to leave a discussion early, someone stopped him and asked him to stay for a little longer, I "asked" why you have to go, and he explained and I gave him a "glad you understood and appreciate the answer" look without uttering a word. It is also possible that I am just more comfortable around types with Si in the ego and am more inclined to communicate with them that way.

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    I think I speak with my mouth.

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    tbh i think that who we communicate best with via body language (between the spoken lines) is going to be HEAVILY intertype-related. I suspect probably duals accomplish this most effectively.

    That's why i suspect we already have a variety of types listed, some of which I dont agree with, for myself anyway.
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    I would think maybe creative Fe or maybe NTR.
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    That's easy, SLI. They speak volumes through their eyes.

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    LIEs would be a good contender for this. People that analyze faces usually hone in on what my eyes are doing because there's a lack of expression otherwise.

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    ESI, from Beskova's sketch: http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...SFj-by-Beskova

    "Most often, she has classically built face and unusually expressive, warm, agitating eyes."

    one IEE girl i remember liked exchanging "knowing" glances with her friends

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    I can communicate with my SEI brother and my SLI mom using eyes. If I look at them long enough with an expression, they're realize what I mean. It doesn't work with my IEE dad, though on occasion it has made him panicky.

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