They're so focused on what they LIKE. For example, my NeFi mother is always talking about how she HATES the cold and LOVES the beach. My SeFi friend LOVES babies and has all her friends in a row, knows exactly how close she is with each of them and spends an inordinate time talking about their bond, publicly.
It makes me tired after awhile. Like, okay great but WHO CARES. Why does the entire Facebook world need to know how close you are with these other women? First of all, it might make people on the outs feel bad that they're not as close to you as your "close" friends. Why would you want to exclude people?
I think Fi-creatives can come across as Fe valuing types at first because they're friendly, warm and outgoing. But then when you get to know them, you see that they refuse to ignore their bonds with specific people for a more general positive atmosphere.
The SeFi I know was complaining the other day about air kisses. How they're not sincere or whatever. My thought is that it's a positive gesture of affection. Might not be as deep or abiding but it could have its origins in culture or in that particular community. My point being, why be so judgmental about air kisses??
I dunno. Bugs me.