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    Default Why are INTj men so hot?

    I find that I'm consistently (very) attracted/drawn to LII's, much more than to men of any other type.

    Sometimes I can type them immediately; a lot of times, though, I can't manage to type them correctly at all until much later, although this is changing. I'm really attracted to the dry wit, but sometimes it's purely physical and I haven't talked to the person at all (and, when I do, I find out that said person is LII). I'm wondering if anyone else experiences this sort of thing with their activity partners...?

    My college boyfriend (and the only man I've ever been in love with) was LII, but that relationship ended disastrously, for many NTR reasons. But I do remember that the J/P divide drove us both crazy, and that neither of us were extroverted enough to balance out the other/draw out the other's capacities for adventure, although we had a really genuine understanding of how each other worked.

    Also: related to other thread: LII men don't usually like to do chasing, and I'm the type that always wants/waits to be chased. It's like a disease.

    ...someone train me to go for my dual??

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    NTR reasons? My urban slang is behind the times and all efforts at looking this up say it is Japanese for cuckoldery. Illuminate this. Go on tell us everything ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saberstorm View Post
    NTR reasons? My urban slang is behind the times and all efforts at looking this up say it is Japanese for cuckoldery. Illuminate this. Go on tell us everything ...
    NTR=Not Type Related

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    LIIs aren't hot. You're delusional.

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    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    LIIs aren't hot. You're delusional.
    Abbie, you're so mean! . Both LII genders can be attractive and elegant actually. They tend to have this serious-sexy vibe because they are so logical and introverted, and tend to have elongated features.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lobo View Post
    Abbie, you're so mean! . Both LII genders can be attractive and elegant actually. They tend to have this serious-sexy vibe because they are so logical and introverted, and tend to have elongated features.
    When I see an LII, I think of my brother. That may be a factor.

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    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    When I see an LII, I think of my brother. That may be a factor.
    So all LIIs look like your brother?

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    No, but they move like him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    No, but they move like him.
    Lmao, ok... Fair enough I guess.

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    Hey you like what you like. =D

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    I find LIIs hot, even if I sort of know they should not be seen as hot.

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    As Barney Stinson would say: they are in my quadra and that's why they have some of my awesome traits.

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    OMG LII MEN!

    *goes gay for his dual*

    ...

    *awaits BnD reponse: 'See! You CAN go gay if the appeal is strong enough!'


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mountain Dew View Post
    OMG LII MEN!

    *goes gay for his dual*

    ...

    *awaits BnD reponse: 'See! You CAN go gay if the appeal is strong enough!'



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    Finally, somebody acknowledges the heat emanating from LIIs!

    On a serious note, while I can't say I've been physically attracted to every SEI I've come across, I do feel a desire to be around them when they seem to be open-minded and friendly. I've had three SEIs that have been extremely close friends(not many reach that status in my book) and a good amount that, in my opinion, were just great people to be around.

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    The weird thing is. . . . my dual isn't always attractive to me physically. . . especially not at first. Although some are extremely alluring, the whole type isn't. In fact, the only thing I normally find alluring is their brain. They begin to use those big words and the crowd goes wild.

    But I digress. Some of them are very attractive. And when they're ugly, I can usually get over it much better then other types that are ugly. I may even find them attractive if I'm around them long enough. =P

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    Quote Originally Posted by yellow82 View Post
    I may even find them attractive if I'm around them long enough. =P
    Same with my duals.

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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    It's true! They give off this aura of...sheer knowledge plus endearing cranky old manness. It's like the Ti makes me feel all safe. And there's something about them that makes me feel totally comfortable with just being friends, even when I find them attractive.

    Also with the getting over nonattractiveness: this happens with me and ILE's! Many aren't goodlooking, but they're quirky and awesome, so it's not a question of "getting over" so much as "I don't give a fuck!" or "Yes, I will let you drive me to a giant hedge maze in the middle of nowhere." Lol.

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    Great question.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lemontrees View Post
    I find that I'm consistently (very) attracted/drawn to LII's, much more than to men of any other type.

    Sometimes I can type them immediately; a lot of times, though, I can't manage to type them correctly at all until much later, although this is changing. I'm really attracted to the dry wit, but sometimes it's purely physical and I haven't talked to the person at all (and, when I do, I find out that said person is LII). I'm wondering if anyone else experiences this sort of thing with their activity partners...?

    My college boyfriend (and the only man I've ever been in love with) was LII, but that relationship ended disastrously, for many NTR reasons. But I do remember that the J/P divide drove us both crazy, and that neither of us were extroverted enough to balance out the other/draw out the other's capacities for adventure, although we had a really genuine understanding of how each other worked.

    Also: related to other thread: LII men don't usually like to do chasing, and I'm the type that always wants/waits to be chased. It's like a disease.

    ...someone train me to go for my dual??
    Maybe I'm weird but I always find myself doing the chasing even though I'd rather be the chased.
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    The better question- What makes LIIs more attractive than LSIs?



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    having polr S they are sick more often
    Types examples: video bloggers, actors

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    lol ive noticed that about LII

    they seem to experience weird and offbeat injuries/illnesses at a higher rate than normal

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    Alphas in general do nothing for me, with the exception of male ESE's... and the initial attraction fades pretty quick once I see how quirky/eccentric they can be.
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    I was in a bus trip once. Suddenly I noticed how LII and SEI had found each other.

    Life has so many inexplainable mysteries.

    I don't know if they attract their duals same way? Some ESE's get all hyped up by my unconventionality but SEI's are harder. It is like you need to analyze aloud around them. So I would imagine that LII's need to seriously let loose to lure their duals.
    extrospection > introspection

    Head type as in being truly head type and probably 7>5. Too divergent, scattered and expressive for typical 5 and that is the preferred way although long term focus usually helps.

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    I have a LII friend

    Many women have found him hot

    He looks a little like Johnny Depp, that probably helps

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    If he looks like Johnny Depp hes probably IEI. That would explain the chicks too.

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    They're smooth.

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    They look at you in a way like no one else could.

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    They have great fashion sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal View Post
    If he looks like Johnny Depp hes probably IEI. That would explain the chicks too.
    Nope. He is a LII that looks like johnny depp

    He is not like johnny depp. Just looks like him

    You seriously dont think i can type my friends ??

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tallmo View Post
    Nope. He is a LII that looks like johnny depp

    He is not like johnny depp. Just looks like him

    You seriously dont think i can type my friends ??
    of course. everyone could be wrong. unless you are God which I doubt. Anyway, JD has never look like LII afaik. I'd see him as beta ST too, but not LII. I was talking too about his facial features, not his personality traits.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal View Post
    of course. everyone could be wrong. unless you are God which I doubt. Anyway, JD has never look like LII afaik. I'd see him as beta ST too, but not LII. I was talking too about his facial features, not his personality traits.

    I havent said that JD looks LII. JDs type is irrelevant. There is some logical misunderstanding between us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tallmo View Post
    I havent said that JD looks LII. JDs type is irrelevant. There is some logical misunderstanding between us.
    I'll let you solve this by yourself

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    This is not the first time i've blushed behind my computer screen.
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    Give it like 50+ years and there will only be hippope

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    Lsi are hotter. Lii are nerds

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    I know a LII girl who is hot
    LII guys are very nice and kind most of the time but idk about hot

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    Show me a picture of an LIi that is hot.. Girl or dude

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