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    Default Why are INTj men so hot?

    I find that I'm consistently (very) attracted/drawn to LII's, much more than to men of any other type.

    Sometimes I can type them immediately; a lot of times, though, I can't manage to type them correctly at all until much later, although this is changing. I'm really attracted to the dry wit, but sometimes it's purely physical and I haven't talked to the person at all (and, when I do, I find out that said person is LII). I'm wondering if anyone else experiences this sort of thing with their activity partners...?

    My college boyfriend (and the only man I've ever been in love with) was LII, but that relationship ended disastrously, for many NTR reasons. But I do remember that the J/P divide drove us both crazy, and that neither of us were extroverted enough to balance out the other/draw out the other's capacities for adventure, although we had a really genuine understanding of how each other worked.

    Also: related to other thread: LII men don't usually like to do chasing, and I'm the type that always wants/waits to be chased. It's like a disease.

    ...someone train me to go for my dual??

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    NTR reasons? My urban slang is behind the times and all efforts at looking this up say it is Japanese for cuckoldery. Illuminate this. Go on tell us everything ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saberstorm View Post
    NTR reasons? My urban slang is behind the times and all efforts at looking this up say it is Japanese for cuckoldery. Illuminate this. Go on tell us everything ...
    NTR=Not Type Related

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    LIIs aren't hot. You're delusional.

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    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    LIIs aren't hot. You're delusional.
    Abbie, you're so mean! . Both LII genders can be attractive and elegant actually. They tend to have this serious-sexy vibe because they are so logical and introverted, and tend to have elongated features.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lobo View Post
    Abbie, you're so mean! . Both LII genders can be attractive and elegant actually. They tend to have this serious-sexy vibe because they are so logical and introverted, and tend to have elongated features.
    When I see an LII, I think of my brother. That may be a factor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    When I see an LII, I think of my brother. That may be a factor.
    So all LIIs look like your brother?

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    No, but they move like him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    No, but they move like him.
    Lmao, ok... Fair enough I guess.

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    Hey you like what you like. =D

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    I find LIIs hot, even if I sort of know they should not be seen as hot.

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    As Barney Stinson would say: they are in my quadra and that's why they have some of my awesome traits.

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    OMG LII MEN!

    *goes gay for his dual*

    ...

    *awaits BnD reponse: 'See! You CAN go gay if the appeal is strong enough!'


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mountain Dew View Post
    OMG LII MEN!

    *goes gay for his dual*

    ...

    *awaits BnD reponse: 'See! You CAN go gay if the appeal is strong enough!'



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    Finally, somebody acknowledges the heat emanating from LIIs!

    On a serious note, while I can't say I've been physically attracted to every SEI I've come across, I do feel a desire to be around them when they seem to be open-minded and friendly. I've had three SEIs that have been extremely close friends(not many reach that status in my book) and a good amount that, in my opinion, were just great people to be around.

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    The weird thing is. . . . my dual isn't always attractive to me physically. . . especially not at first. Although some are extremely alluring, the whole type isn't. In fact, the only thing I normally find alluring is their brain. They begin to use those big words and the crowd goes wild.

    But I digress. Some of them are very attractive. And when they're ugly, I can usually get over it much better then other types that are ugly. I may even find them attractive if I'm around them long enough. =P

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    Quote Originally Posted by yellow82 View Post
    I may even find them attractive if I'm around them long enough. =P
    Same with my duals.

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    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    It's true! They give off this aura of...sheer knowledge plus endearing cranky old manness. It's like the Ti makes me feel all safe. And there's something about them that makes me feel totally comfortable with just being friends, even when I find them attractive.

    Also with the getting over nonattractiveness: this happens with me and ILE's! Many aren't goodlooking, but they're quirky and awesome, so it's not a question of "getting over" so much as "I don't give a fuck!" or "Yes, I will let you drive me to a giant hedge maze in the middle of nowhere." Lol.

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