Damn, @silke. I remember reading your post on Barabanov’s article when you first posted it, but I had forgotten how true it was. It mirrors precisely my relationship with an IEI-Fe.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for posting that and clarifying things for me.
Now I need to tone down my Te in favor of her Fe and Ni, which won’t be easy, since Te is what I do best.
I wish I could introduce her to an SLE-Ti friend of mine who shares some of her interests, but your article says that my attempts to help her are not her solution.