What would you say/do to the keep someone

[Codie]

I'm likely to pine over someone for years, which I have done.

I pine over people a lot too, it's just because I rarely find anybody that I'm actually attracted to in real life, so when I do find somebody- I get really obsessed.

I have a problem getting along and tolerating people. So when I do like somebody, I get a little intense, just because I'm not used to actually enjoying somebody in real life. Almost all of the time people just get on my nerves (in the bad way) and make me angry. And when they speak to me it's like they are being nasty, hateful, jealous and vindictive. Yuck and YUCK.

It's also because I'm so introverted. I can't 'enjoy a bunch of people just a little bit' the way extroverts can. I will either despise you or feel like 'You're the one.'

Along with INFp crankiness. I live in Brazil and I get to feel like an outsider. I get asked the same old questions by almost everyone I meet. I'm not a tourist after six years living here!...sorry just venting. Enjoying company is like finding a diamond! falling in love? don't even ask.

[MisterNi]

It's also because I'm so introverted. I can't 'enjoy a bunch of people just a little bit' the way extroverts can. I will either despise you or feel like 'You're the one.'

It's alright. Most people aren't worth getting to know anyway. They're usually some combination of being vapid, self-serving, worthless or just plain terrible people.

Enjoying company is like finding a diamond!

Yeah, I agree 100%.

falling in love? don't even ask.

Maybe you need to find a new circle of friends because your current group isn't working out for you.

[Reuben]

@hkkmr

A HEIST YOU SAY? Count me in, big brudda