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    I like Gammas. ESFps especially. But you have to admit that the one thing they do wrong, that is the most annoying thing ever, is their stupid "I'm Okay, You're Not Okay" Life philosophy. Not just ENTjs do this, but it's something that all Gammas have issues with. They've always been a quadra that's struggled with simply accepting others. The enterpriser, critic, politician and moralist.

    What all those archetypes have in common is an inability to accept other people the way they are.

    It's incredibly annoying, of course, and something they do that objectively pisses everybody off. When a gamma simply accepts other people the way that they are, they become 150,000,000 times more likeable and everything is fine in the universe.

    I broke it down and discovered that the reason they do this, is because they value all the Asshole functions.

    Ne: Nice
    Ni: Asshole
    Te: Asshole
    Ti: Nice
    Se: Asshole
    Si: Nice
    Fi: Asshole
    Fe: Nice

    What's the one thing that Betas do wrong? I have to be fair don't I? Well that's simple: Play the Victim. (I'm Not Okay, You're Not Okay Either)

    What do Alphas do wrong? Pretend like everything is always fine. Over-mediate. (I'm Okay, You're Okay veil but underneathe you mean I'm Okay, You're Not Okay. Or I'm Not Okay, You're Okay.) ENTps/ISFps do the former more, and ESFj/INTjs do the latter.

    What do Deltas do wrong? Same thing as Beta, but with an emphasis on Controlling Others. (which is just like playing the victim but turned inside out) (I'm Not Okay, You're Not Okay Either)

    That is the most pure one main thing annoying thing that you do in your quadra. Stop doing that thing you do that pisses everybody off, and a lot of your psychological issues will start being healed at an incredibly rapid pace. The world should become your oyster again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post

    I broke it down and discovered that the reason they do this, is because they value all the Asshole functions.

    Ne: Nice
    Ni: Asshole
    Te: Asshole
    Ti: Nice
    Se: Asshole
    Si: Nice
    Fi: Asshole
    Fe: Nice
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    Haha. What so nice about others functions?
    Fe-bitch
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    Ne- "i see everything what will be in future" *punch* "damn, that hurts"
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    BnD you're not okay.

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    I read an article that says gamma is the most psychologically unstable quadra or something to that effect - IME that seems to be true.
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    I read an article that says gamma is the most psychologically unstable quadra or something to that effect - IME that seems to be true.
    Just look at Anglas, he is twice asshole and he called me fish or rude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    I read an article that says gamma is the most psychologically unstable quadra or something to that effect - IME that seems to be true.
    Hahaha I could believe that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Absurd View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    I read an article that says gamma is the most psychologically unstable quadra or something to that effect - IME that seems to be true.
    Just look at Anglas, he is twice asshole and he called me fish or rude.
    I called you rude, because you are

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anglas View Post
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    Just look at Anglas, he is twice asshole and he called me fish or rude.
    I called you rude, because you are
    Ehh, BnD is of different opinion. I am maybe an asshole but I'm nice. And I'm not rude at all, I mean this is harassment and bullying

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    I like Gammas. ESFps especially. But you have to admit that the one thing they do wrong, that is the most annoying thing ever, is their stupid "I'm Okay, You're Not Okay" Life philosophy....
    This is also why Gamma is the most punitive of all quadras (besides, if you put people in prisons, and then privatize the prison system, you can make a lot of money out of putting people in prison, so to Gammas, it's a sort of win-win situation)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Absurd View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Anglas View Post

    I called you rude, because you are
    Ehh, BnD is of different opinion. I am maybe an asshole but I'm nice. And I'm not rude at all, I mean this is harassment and bullying
    Ok. Goodnight

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anglas View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Absurd View Post

    Ehh, BnD is of different opinion. I am maybe an asshole but I'm nice. And I'm not rude at all, I mean this is harassment and bullying
    Ok. Goodnight
    Sleep tight, mate

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anglas View Post
    Haha. What so nice about others functions?
    Fe-bitch
    Ti- has no life only computer
    Ne- "i see everything what will be in future" *punch* "damn, that hurts"
    Si- I'm so drunk tonight.


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    BnD you're not okay.


    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    I like Gammas. ESFps especially.
    Hell yeah, me too! we're both right on that one

    How could someone accept someone as they are when that someone is in a constant state of flux, as they should be? If I leave myself as I am and accept it, I'll die of either drought or starvation. I gotta keep moving on, and moving for the better. I was getting fat, and I was furious and disgusted at it, so I started turning up the heat on the workouts; I feel great now, and I'm hotter than hell. Still gotta turn up the heat a bit more. It would be insulting to what could be if I settled for what is; what is now, won't be, so it might as well be for the better...

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    Generally speaking, IMO I'd say this thread is accurate when I look back on my interactions with gammas IRL.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    I like Gammas. ESFps especially. But you have to admit that the one thing they do wrong, that is the most annoying thing ever, is their stupid "I'm Okay, You're Not Okay" Life philosophy. Not just ENTjs do this, but it's something that all Gammas have issues with. They've always been a quadra that's struggled with simply accepting others. The enterpriser, critic, politician and moralist.

    What all those archetypes have in common is an inability to accept other people the way they are.

    It's incredibly annoying, of course, and something they do that objectively pisses everybody off. When a gamma simply accepts other people the way that they are, they become 150,000,000 times more likeable and everything is fine in the universe.

    I broke it down and discovered that the reason they do this, is because they value all the Asshole functions.

    Ne: Nice
    Ni: Asshole
    Te: Asshole
    Ti: Nice
    Se: Asshole
    Si: Nice
    Fi: Asshole
    Fe: Nice

    What's the one thing that Betas do wrong? I have to be fair don't I? Well that's simple: Play the Victim. (I'm Not Okay, You're Not Okay Either)

    What do Alphas do wrong? Pretend like everything is always fine. Over-mediate. (I'm Okay, You're Okay veil but underneathe you mean I'm Okay, You're Not Okay. Or I'm Not Okay, You're Okay.) ENTps/ISFps do the former more, and ESFj/INTjs do the latter.

    What do Deltas do wrong? Same thing as Beta, but with an emphasis on Controlling Others. (which is just like playing the victim but turned inside out) (I'm Not Okay, You're Not Okay Either)

    That is the most pure one main thing annoying thing that you do in your quadra. Stop doing that thing you do that pisses everybody off, and a lot of your psychological issues will start being healed at an incredibly rapid pace. The world should become your oyster again.
    Ne asshole: I know everything about everything, let me impress you with my knowledge.
    Se asshole: I am a badass and I can beat you up.
    Si asshole: I'm too lazy to care about anyone but myself. But why aren't you as pleasant as I am?
    Ni asshole: I am an uber-insightful shaman god that no one can comprehend.
    Ti asshole: I am always right and you are always wrong, except when you are replying "Uh-huh" to one of my carefully-worded pearls of exactitude.
    Te asshole: I know how to do everything better than you and I will demonstrate this by doing everything for you.
    Fe asshole: I am just an all-around wonderful person and everyone loves me!
    Fi asshole: I am the Moral Voice of the World, and if I seem judgmental it's only because you're a bad person

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    I read an article that says gamma is the most psychologically unstable quadra or something to that effect - IME that seems to be true.
    In general, that statement fits IME. To be fair though, for every psychologically unstable gamma I've met, I've met at least one who was well adjusted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush View Post
    Ne asshole: I know everything about everything, let me impress you with my knowledge.
    Se asshole: I am a badass and I can beat you up.
    Si asshole: I'm too lazy to care about anyone but myself. But why aren't you as pleasant as I am?
    Ni asshole: I am an uber-insightful shaman god that no one can comprehend.
    Ti asshole: I am always right and you are always wrong, except when you are replying "Uh-huh" to one of my carefully-worded pearls of exactitude.
    Te asshole: I know how to do everything better than you and I will demonstrate this by doing everything for you.
    Fe asshole: I am just an all-around wonderful person and everyone loves me!
    Fi asshole: I am the Moral Voice of the World, and if I seem judgmental it's only because you're a bad person
    Not far off but TeSi at least is more: You're doing it wrong. Watch me, and listen to my hour-long explanation on why this is the right way.

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