Do you think that Se is impact?
Unlike myself, I am very much a boundary kind of person and I follow boundaries and stick within them. As a child I used to listen to my parents and not "test" my will upon them; if my mom said "stay here." I stayed there until she came back to get me. I followed rules.
This is very interesting and deserves a lot of looking at because Si base children, especially SiTe boys, because they have a hard time doing Se, also have a hard time looking at their parents to observe how one has impacted their will upon them and hence repeat some mistake often and get shouted at often by their parents who might want a response about certain things from them the first time around.