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    any idea ?
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    My first guess would be ENFp-ISTp and my second would be ISFp-INTj.

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    The girl is me and I've been typed both ENFp and ISFp. And the guy is probably ISTp although he's strange he might be ENFp as well.... so balanced between these two types.

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    Needs more pics. Any VI impressions of these two I have are fleeting at best.
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    IMO Ti-Base the guy and Fe-Base the lady.
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    the value of guesses = zero

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    the value of guesses = zero
    Then troubleshooters don't do anything.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Galen View Post
    Needs more pics. Any VI impressions of these two I have are fleeting at best.
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    Some more pics
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    Woman: SEI?
    Man: SLE?
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    MBTI: ENTJ "Field Marshall" or ENTP "Inventor"
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    Oh my God
    So I still don't know. SLE.... I think he is feeling rather than thinking. He's very nice and takes care of people. Seems relaxed. For me the weirdest thing is that he plans everything although he also can be spontaneous. And the girl S? Fe and Fi both sound ok, but I'm everything but the plan . I would really love to know what our types are before we go on that holiday . Please guys help. Any questions I'll answer

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    I think he's Ne-ego, at least Ne/Si valuing. Definitely not SLE.

    You don't look very IEE to me, but idk.

    Can you post descriptions of you two? Both as individuals and how you interact. How would other people describe you? What do you do for fun and why do you like it? What is your idea of a good party?
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    Nobody here...besides me, seems to know what SLE is except for maybe Maritsa.

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    Hm, my first thought was I was ENFp Fi and he was ENFp Ne
    The interaction is really good. We get on well, he is much different than my previous INTj boyfriend who was very nervous. He is calm, organized, smiles a lot. Doesn't see problems in things. Wants to take care of me. He has many friends who are important for him. As for his interests he is much into sports : plays basketball, watches football, attends matches. He doesn't like "diving" inside things which I sometimes do. I have never seen him really nervous. First of all I didn't know he was interested in me. He doesn't say compliments, he is just "here" and "always there" is very nice, helps me but doesn't show affection so openly. I am much better at things like that. When I realized he was into me, I kind of finalized everything although I'm normally not this way. It was just easier with him cause he is I don't know... a bit shy maybe. I just kissed him first . I think I kind of did him a favour . And he's somehow sentimental. He likes setting himself goals and fulfils them which is strange for me.
    Me - most people I know would describe me as a warm, caring person but crazy, in need of somebody more organized and more "living here and there". I often do crazy things, I'm rather spontaneous although when it comes to serious relationships I'm really careful and a bit scared. I analyze too much. We both enjoy parties, we used to go to the clubs, we attend dancing course. We both like talking, sharing stories and we laugh a lot. We feel very natural with each other. He is maybe more responsible than me, more serious, he plans our relationship. I'm much more expressive he doesn't show much of emotions I have problems with reading his face.

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    Hi Pauluch,

    If it's any help you look a ton like my brothers girlfriend. To begin with I thought she was ENFp too, but now I think she is ESFj.
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    Pauluch,

    just out of curiosity

    is the way you look (with look I mean with your eyes) in the photos the way you would normally look (more or less) on a person?
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    ESFj description also fits me quite well but I don't get on with INTj-s. I had an INTj boyfriend for a long time (about 7 years on and off) and this relationship was really destructive for me - really. I lost my self confidence, I was the shadow of what I am now. He was INTj - Ti. My flatmate is also INTj -Ne and I like him a lot although I don't feel as comfortable around him as I do with my present boyfriend. As for the photos - difficult to say, cause I only see myself in the mirror or in the photos . But of course I try to look my best in the photos which is probably making it less natural .

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    And I do get on really well with ISTps. I might look alphish cause my mother is ESFj and my sister is INTj I also have a few ESFj girlfriends. I shared a room with ISTp girlfriend for a year and we never had a small fight. Now I'm close friends with some off ISTp Te girl and I think it might be difficult for some other people to get on with her but I do . I just feel the need to protect her, help her and I like her view (insight) into my emotional "problems".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pauluch View Post
    ..my mother is ESFj
    haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pauluch View Post
    And I do get on really well with ISTps. I might look alphish cause my mother is ESFj and my sister is INTj I also have a few ESFj girlfriends. I shared a room with ISTp girlfriend for a year and we never had a small fight. Now I'm close friends with some off ISTp Te girl and I think it might be difficult for some other people to get on with her but I do . I just feel the need to protect her, help her and I like her view (insight) into my emotional "problems".
    it might just be the wording, but I'm different in this. I tend to deal with my "emotional problems" myself, and what I like about the ISTps is that they let me plus that they don't get emotional if I am
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    I think it depends on people and their psychics, not only on their type. I have a few ISTp friends and they are different. Of course they have some things in common - they all enjoy privacy, contact with nature but they are different human beings . It applies to everybody I quess.

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    Update :The most probable version is : the woman ENFp Fi and the man ESTj Si . What do you think about this match?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pauluch View Post
    Update :The most probable version is : the woman ENFp Fi and the man ESTj Si . What do you think about this match?
    Two extroverts of the same quadra? It seems we got a pair of activators...
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    Mirror relations; ESTj, man and ISTp, woman.

    Is he externally tense, moves with purpose from one object to another? Is she laid back and relaxed..?

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    Hi thanks for your help. The woman is me and I'm hmm I'm rather not relaxed all of the time, I may seem relaxed but I analyze a lot, I worry a lot etc. I sometimes feel I need other people's help although I would really love to be independent.
    He is extremely goal focused which is extremely appealing to me but also it's also totally different than me. He doesn't analyze too much, he just wants to know what his aim is. Most of the time he is really calm, focused. He is definitely Ne valuing. When we were on holiday it was like he took care of everybody, controlled what was happening and planned everything. He was also the organizator. We don't argue at all. He has also some difficulties with showing feelings, he doesn't say compliments, he is better with touch but still I believe I'm much better at this. It's not a big problem for me cause I feel really safe around him, he takes care of everything etc. He is also extremely practical, I'm interested in sooo many things, he likes things which give him pracitcal results. Inside, I believe he is romantic. He isn't interested in one-night stands or short relationships.

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