I've noticed that I often get irritated when I'm not acknowledged for certain things:
For instance, today when I was coming out of the hospital I held the door open for this mom and her daughter. As they walked through, they glanced at me but didn't give me a thanks or a smile.
When there's heavy traffic and I stop the car to let people through - there are times when people would wave at me, but there are other times when they won't. I often get irritated at the latter.
In both examples it seems like I used as a way of saying, "good citizens should always acknowledge each other when helping each other out," and I expected to express this role of a good citizen.
Just for your info, istj have as base and as dual-seeking, so I'm guessing this kind of scenario wouldn't be as big of a deal to other types?
Would you be irritated by a scenario similar to the one above? If you do, what's your thought process? If not, why not?