This thread is inspired by the notorious "I'm An ESE!" thread, but I don't dare post there. I tried a few times, but hadn't really read the thread carefully before posting, so my comments came out all wrong, plus I don't feel I belong in that thread anyway.
But here's the issue: So you have an EIE and an LSI fighting, and it seems very bad. But the EIE recognizes the duality.
So here's the question: Have you experienced what you feel is duality with someone you loathe? What's it like, and what about it did you recognize as duality?
And to expand on this, have you ever experienced a conflict relation that was totally awesome? What was that like, and what made it feel like conflict even though it was so great?