I realized recently that I might not actually want a wedding, and how odd that might be as a 30-something American female. I love my fiance very much and want to be with him, so it's not a matter of not wanting to be married. I'm just considering a nice, simple courthouse affair with no dress and basic witnesses (not even a reception after) and it's sounding better and better by the moment.
I don't want this to be pinpointed to valuing a certain function over another, since I don't think it's as simple as my valuing Fi over Fe. (I'm certain of my type, so no need to go into that.) Rather, I'm more interested in how people of the various types would approach the scenario: not terribly bonded to your family and a small circle of friends/workmates that you'd tell about the marriage outside of a formal celebration anyway. A fiance that would be okay with whatever you decide. What do you do, and why?
(An aside: I feel more vested in whether or not my funeral happens than my wedding. Kind of makes me wonder if I'm strange.)