Last edited by LeShay; 05-29-2011 at 11:26 PM.
So some info about this couple. These people have been family friends for ages..
Them raising kids:
The mother says she has the perfect kids and is all impressed by everything they do, only to a few hours later break down and tell us how far off track they are and have a huge drama about it all.
The father is very non-confrontational. his repsonses are like 'whatever' to any situation and shrugs his shoulders.
They follow my folks around the country when we move to wherever we move.
Dude INTj, lady ESTj?
I don't think the guy is INTj... does look XXTj though... ISTj and ESTj seem to make more sense than ENTj to me.
The lady seems F to me, that's the only clear part... she reminds me of my friend Missy... who is also very dramatic, upbeat one sec and crying the next... maybe intuitive? Not sure...
Lol I hate VI. Can you provide more information about them? Besides negative things, like lying about their family (the girl), being passive about decisions (the guy), or stalking following you everywhere you go , can you provide some positive information? What are they good at? What are their unique interests? Sports, hobbies, collections, goals in life, etc.?
Mmm, I'm going to have to go with ISTj for the guy. Ij temperament seems most common, especially with the phlegmatic nature of not caring, being passive.
For the lady, still unsure, but I'm going to have to guess ESFp. Seems most likely Ep temperament. Outward energy but somehow unfocused. ENFp seems like a good guess too... how well do they get along? .... Slight chance of the guy being ISTp, now that I think about it... hmmm..
More info please.
Maybe they're Gamma SEE-LIE Activity?
He sounds upbeat but laid-back all the time, perhaps like ENTj, and the "cost efficient" route thing sounds very Te, and disliking the supernatural seems very Ne-unvalued.
Completely unsocionics related, I agree they sound a bit crazy. Running a facebook group as your be-all end-all hobby, and making emptry promises, and being overemotional... she sounds like a winner... and him, no goals in life, content being drugged and taking meds, can't be determined in finding work in Australia's 5% unemployment... and I like Monty Python, but he sounds like the kind of git who worships it...
Of course I'm biased, I know how annoying these people can be to you and your family. Haha.
Haha Dew! I thought you were fast asleep!
Lady doesn't look ethical, just miserable and fake.
ESFj and INTj. Just like my mom and dad.
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I think (I read the descriptions, too) the lady may be ESE and the man SLI. By VI alone I'd have said ESE or LSI for her and ESI for him, so I was close .
ESFjs are MUCH more outwardly focused than her, and much more varied in emotion. She actually seems emotionally subdued...
Again, she reminds me through VI a LOT like my friend Missy, what do you think? Missy is also very dramatic, everything you described about your friend could describe her too. She's also very hands-on, likes caring for animals, and wants to help others. And just enjoys relaxing.
I'd even throw out a guess of either ISFp or ISTp at this point. Was never sure what type Missy was, maybe this thread will mutually help us both.
(and also your Missy looks more SEI than ESE, get over it)
So mutually, I guess we both agree that the lady is either Alpha SF or Delta ST. Basically Si Ego.
Please tell me a website where I can upload a picture and be able to delete it, which actually works (not Photobucket). I got one who looks very much like your girl, confirmed SEI by the guy who sent me the picture for test purposes.
(and don't get mad on me, but I don't see them similar, maybe I don't know what to look at)
Try out Flickr, Zooomr, or Picasa Web Albums.
Just from the pictures, she reminded me of the same way Missy would interact with people. Especially with the hugging, facial expressions, etc. So I stick by what I said. Agree to disagree.
Here's that SEI.
Edit: I can't see the image, if you can't too quote the post and copy the link in your browser.
*picture removed on 5/28/2011*
Last edited by Snaps; 05-28-2011 at 10:02 PM.
... that girl actually reminds me more of my friend Amber.... DAMMIT, now I'm going to have to post more pictures. Already trying to create a VI thread, aahh!!!
NOT ENOUGH TIME TO WASTE ON 16TYPES!!!
Okay, now I'm convinced the OP woman is ESE.
Everything she is interested about is joy, passion, thrill, exaltation - especially that God stuff. I know ESEs similarly obsessed by an idea (ideal), doing everything with that in mind - eg one is with stuff like "The Secret" & wolfberries to live forever - and IMO they like to believe in miracles. In my personal opinion it's worth praising her genuineness regarding her belief, I think you either believe or not. I think however that sometimes she's trying to convince herself - when she's in doubt she repeats herself "I love", "I believe" & stuff to disciplinate her mind, not acknowledging imbalance.
"You dont need to spend big to look your best" - did you interviewed my mom?
I agree with an ExFj typing for the woman, but ENFj seems to be more probable than ESFj on the basis of VI. Given your description, it seems fairly certain that she is an extrovert with Fe in her ego block, and I would be inclined to believe that she is an ESFj. However, she does not look like any ESFjs that I've seen; indeed, in the first picture of her alone, she seems very Ni/Se-valuing. Of course, I could easily be mistaken; I can't even discern any clear Fe in any of the pictures, even though she is ostensibly Fe-dominant. Nonetheless, laziness is not the sole preserve of Si-valuers, and I've observed religious fanaticism in Ni-valuers more often than Ne-valuers, so nothing in the description precludes ENFj from being a possibility.
Last edited by silke; 05-22-2011 at 08:05 AM. Reason: typo
just wanted to add into the thread that this lady who i had coffee with this morning and talked socionics with, (i am shayley's daughter by the way, not just a random who dodesnt know these ppl lol) self-typed her hidden agenda as ESFj/ESTj to be perfect. She chose for her husband in regards to hidden agenda, ISTp/INTp to love. In the past, she sat a socionics test and came out ESFx.
She tries to compete with shayley over things she views in shayleys life as perfect and has trouble with jealousy in this area, which for the first time she actually admitted it to shayley and myself this morning. She said that she thinks shayley has the perfect life, which she wants for herself, but admitted that shayley does not value this, and think it as important like she does. I think she is ESFj. Not sure on her husband. In my mind he is ISTx. Could see the to believe hidden agenda play out in him regarding church etc, but can also see ISTp's to love.
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