What do SLEs/ESTps generally like to talk about?

[Clumsy]

Serious question

[Ezra]

What does everyone else generally like to talk about?

It depends on the SLE.

What's the REAL question here? Why you don't have good relations with an SLE when you should do, given they're your dual?

[Clumsy]

I guess. Maybe I've typed myself wrong?

[Ezra]

Or maybe the person you can't connect with isn't SLE.

Or maybe he is, and you just don't have a spark. I've spoken to my girlfriend in the past, and she's told me that she's know SLEs who don't have that je ne sais quoi you lot look for.

[redbaron]

like with anyone, figure out what they like, what they're into. Some of the SLEs I know enjoy things like cars (cool ones, old ones, fast ones), airplanes, motorcycles, art, theater, MUSIC, movies, new experiences, etc.

Once you hit on a good topic for them, it's fun to watch their eyes light up and hear how they talk about it in a passionate little-boyish way.

[redbaron]

How dumb people in general are, and how to make them see the light.