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    I had to register when I saw this.

    from pics he looks like he'd have infantile romancing style of talking lots and lots, and talking about positive present moment possibilities
    Yes, I do fancy such and I'm quite the optimist.
    his ears are tiny. he's a baby!
    He looks like an infant with whiskers and needs exposure to sunlight.
    Well, the baby face goes along well with my Peter Pan Syndrome. Then again I'm 6 feet, 3 inches.

    You don't get tanned too much where I come from. You wilt and wither.
    Evil-stache
    Gimme!
    how old is he btw?
    Turning 21 next month.
    Who is he? He looks like he belongs in a magazine or in a movie.
    I am of no fame nor rank. Yet.
    I'm putting in a request for more pics for no reason other than he's hot.
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    Thank you for the compliments.
    Much obliged.

    I'll be happy to answer questions in order to help my identification.
    Well, I'll be happy to answer questions of any sort.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ironiantinomi View Post
    I had to register when I saw this.


    Yes, I do fancy such and I'm quite the optimist.


    Well, the baby face goes along well with my Peter Pan Syndrome. Then again I'm 6 feet, 3 inches.

    You don't get tanned too much where I come from. You wilt and wither.

    Gimme!

    Turning 21 next month.
    I am of no fame nor rank. Yet.

    For you:



    Thank you for the compliments.
    Much obliged.

    I'll be happy to answer questions in order to help my identification.
    Well, I'll be happy to answer questions of any sort.
    Damn dude. You have entered into the valley of self awareness. Too bad that the sages are lost in theyr dreams and that no particular awareness other than stupidity reign here.

    But nevertheless im happy that you have joined here to an experience of how deep the ocean breeds. And what trivialities can we cast our minds on. To a journey of having no impact. Except to inflate your ego by defeating others in games of artificial rules. And there lies the potential for you to reach the tittle one: KING OF SOCION. BUt its all based on feigned ignorance. So you would be crowned the king of stupid. Oh surely this cant be what you desire ?


    NEVERTHELESS. THE PRETTY FACE IS HERE. HOW ABOUT YOU MAKE HIM FEEL COMFORTABLE BY ASKING SOME QUESTIONS BITCHES. Lets see what he is. I had a poll among his friends. they were mostly entp /enfjish

    ok goodluck

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    With just that short intro, I don't think SLE anymore. EIE, IEI, or ILE.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Creep Of a beast View Post
    http://i54.tinypic.com/2yl9yjk.jpg
    AAAAH!!! MY EYES!!!!!


    Sorry but I have not seen an uglier guy than this.

    EDIT: all the photos in this thread are gross, YUCK how could anyone find that sexy??? To each his/her own I suppose.
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    ILE or SEE? Reminds me of an ILE I know.
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    Lose those braces betoid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    With just that short intro, I don't think SLE anymore. EIE, IEI, or ILE.
    How would sle be likely to introduce oneself ? ;D


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    AAAAH!!! MY EYES!!!!!


    Sorry but I have not seen an uglier guy than this.

    EDIT: all the photos in this thread are gross, YUCK how could anyone find that sexy??? To each his/her own I suppose. "

    Heretic bitch. Quit mocking our sex god with your perverted tongue. go away.


    "ILE or SEE? Reminds me of an ILE I know. "

    Sure about ile ? i cant see see. But see are often said to be easily mistaken of eie

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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    AAAAH!!! MY EYES!!!!!


    Sorry but I have not seen an uglier guy than this.

    EDIT: all the photos in this thread are gross, YUCK how could anyone find that sexy??? To each his/her own I suppose.
    How about you post your face here. So we can have some opinions thrown around by people what they consider atractive. I could bet my head off that your subjectivities are far away from this world. Mutant

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    lol...

    i guess tastes shouldn't be argued about.

    BTW, me posting my pic wouldn't be a fair exchange, because you did not post your pic, and i was not commenting on your looks. The fair thing to do would be me posting a pic of someone I consider sexy. Here u go...



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    Your taste is refined anon.
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    Worksanon, you do realize the person you're bashing just posted in this thread, right?

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    Awwwwwwkwaaaard!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    Worksanon, you do realize the person you're bashing just posted in this thread, right?
    Wha..?? who... kama??

    Kama does NOT look like that, i've seen pics of kama!!


    p.s. I'm not trying to bash anyone, i'm simply reinforcing that "sexy" is not universal.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamajama View Post
    Your taste is refined anon.
    Thank u Kama, your ability to appreciate this reveals your own FINE taste.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CILi View Post
    LOL.

    I'd back ya up though, WA.
    oh lol, i sort of skimmed thru the thread. seeing the photos was such a shocker, i couldn't really focus.

    Anyway, well, I'm sorry if my words were harsh, but seriously, the guy needs to realize he is not the epitome of beauty to all. But he probably wants to be that way--he seems to be the type that intends to shock people with his looks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    Worksanon, you do realize the person you're bashing just posted in this thread, right?
    And thank u jessica for pointing that out ... my dualz always keeping me in line...
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    He has striking features which are hard to come by. His style is probably not someone I'd necessarily go for but strip that away and he's got an attractive face regardless. Don't worry thread guy, it's okay.

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    I hate you people. All i see is prentiousness and hidden arrogance.

    Seriously fuck you and get off.

    I disagree. Fist of all i was merely talking for him. And he put himself in line by his pictures. And as you talked about his pictures you referred to him. Therefore this would require you to compare to him. Im merely an observer here. With little relevance to this thread. But you decided to enter here with you subjective preference to shout away the ugliness. Which i responded by asking you to show off yourself so we can see how you compare to to the trancendetal beauty values. Those guys look demented, and you are ruining this thread with your fucking whining.


    "Your taste is refined anon. "
    Antique would fit better.

    "Worksanon, you do realize the person you're bashing just posted in this thread, right? "

    Yeah, wtf. How the fuck do you people happen ?


    "Thank u Kama, your ability to appreciate this reveals your own FINE taste."

    Seriously using this thread to show off your own perversity.. I have seen enough of your ugly tits.


    Quote:
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    Worksanon, you do realize the person you're bashing just posted in this thread, right?

    Wha..?? who... kama??

    Kama does NOT look like that, i've seen pics of kama!!


    p.s. I'm not trying to bash anyone, i'm simply reinforcing that "sexy" is not universal. "

    This is the most prententious shit i have read. WTF you bash someone. And then you state that you are not trying to bash anyone. Wtf retard. You failed.
    Sexy is universal concept. That many interpret differently on how it aplies to the world. Our genetics and enviromental fixes determine what we tend to see as atractive. And based on certain values that we apreaciate. We can see general trens on what we consider as sexy. And im pretty certain most would find his features pretty sexy. And your whole attitude is totally irrevelant to anything of this thread. FUCK OF AND DIE.

    "Anyway, well, I'm sorry if my words were harsh, but seriously, the guy needs to realize he is not the epitome of beauty to all. But he probably wants to be that way--he seems to be the type that intends to shock people with his looks. "

    Isnt thsi sort of obvious ? Even to him that he is not the epitome of beauty to all. i dont see anything wrong with the former.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    He has striking features which are hard to come by. His style is probably not someone I'd necessarily go for but strip that away and he's got an attractive face regardless. Don't worry thread guy, it's okay.
    ur right, he does have nice eyes in that one close up photo.

    but the huge honkin nose-ring detracts major attention away from the nice eyes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    He looks like a vamped out version of Ezra.
    What do you think his type is then ? Estp ? Me and one of my friend is thinking enfj for him. But we are uncertain. Maybe someone could interview him a bit.


    She was probably more so bashing his aesthetic/style/fashion then his actual physical features. Though I agree that her attitude going about it was rather poor & judgmental.
    This how easy it is to get me to like someone. Just agree with me. =)

    And at most what i wish is that my master is gonna come back with style to entertain us all on this joyney to his type.


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    how do you think that first description applies to you ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    And thank u jessica for pointing that out ... my dualz always keeping me in line...

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    He VIs strongly SLE.

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    He looks good in the second pic in the OP. Anyway, his eyes reminded me of some Ni/Se type. (Not very helpful comments, I know.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    AAAAH!!! MY EYES!!!!!


    Sorry but I have not seen an uglier guy than this.

    EDIT: all the photos in this thread are gross, YUCK how could anyone find that sexy??? To each his/her own I suppose.
    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    Worksanon, you do realize the person you're bashing just posted in this thread, right?
    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    Anyway, well, I'm sorry if my words were harsh, but seriously, the guy needs to realize he is not the epitome of beauty to all. But he probably wants to be that way--he seems to be the type that intends to shock people with his looks.
    The septum piercing comes off when I want to and I do consider myself as the shocker type. And I'm not offended at all. Actually, I loved it.

    I have pretty good self-esteem and I love reactions. I consider it fascinating that my looks divide people into two opposed groups, lovers & haters. The same division applies to my aesthetic taste in everything (music, people, movies, everything). I don't consider many things worth liking if they don't have their share of hate.
    In general, I myself rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not.

    And I do enjoy my own looks, practising in front of mirror, admiring myself when no ones around and secretly through reflections in public.

    Even while being shocking, I can be quite the seducer.

    Ironiantinomi:http://forum.socionix.com/topic/1083...enfj-subtypes/
    how do you think that first description applies to you ?
    "Makes decisions and acts through inspiration and instinct, rather than through intellect and reason." The opposite.

    "More unhealthy ones will glorify violence and the darker macabre aspects of human nature." Will sex, drugs & rock n roll do?

    "Likes to be mysterious, eccentric, weird, and is often drawn to very abstract and mystical thinking." Somewhat..

    Weird is something one does not understand whilst my motivations, way of thinking and so on, seem to be pretty clear for me. But people think I'm the Joker card in the pack and an exception to a rule on many parts. Eccentric? Hell yeah.

    Mystical thinking? Now that I think about it, I have some mystical visions about the formulas of the universe and Tao.

    "Likes to test people and thrives on getting reactions out of people, especially if it involves pushing the envelope." Oh God yes.

    "Furiously confrontational if provoked, the force of anger capable in this type has no equal." Confrontational yes, but fury? Anger? Or then it's hard to provoke me.

    "cosmic significance in their mind" Too existentialist for that, I guess.

    In general, some parts click, but the whole picture doesn't match.

    Creep of a Beast: Aren't you somewhat overtly hostile again?
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    Yeah I was going to say. Very classy, confident response.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    oh lol, i sort of skimmed thru the thread. seeing the photos was such a shocker, i couldn't really focus.

    Anyway, well, I'm sorry if my words were harsh, but seriously, the guy needs to realize he is not the epitome of beauty to all. But he probably wants to be that way--he seems to be the type that intends to shock people with his looks.
    :/ blegh

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ironiantinomi View Post
    The septum piercing comes off when I want to and I do consider myself as the shocker type. And I'm not offended at all. Actually, I loved it.

    I have pretty good self-esteem and I love reactions. I consider it fascinating that my looks divide people into two opposed groups, lovers & haters. The same division applies to my aesthetic taste in everything (music, people, movies, everything). I don't consider many things worth liking if they don't have their share of hate.
    In general, I myself rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not.

    And I do enjoy my own looks, practising in front of mirror, admiring myself when no ones around and secretly through reflections in public.

    Even while being shocking, I can be quite the seducer.
    No reason this couldn't be congruent with SLE.


    "Makes decisions and acts through inspiration and instinct, rather than through intellect and reason." The opposite.]
    So not an ethical (F) type?

    Mystical thinking? Now that I think about it, I have some mystical visions about the formulas of the universe and Tao.
    Ni-valuing?

    "Likes to test people and thrives on getting reactions out of people, especially if it involves pushing the envelope." Oh God yes.
    Again, could be SLE.

    "Furiously confrontational if provoked, the force of anger capable in this type has no equal." Confrontational yes, but fury? Anger? Or then it's hard to provoke me.
    Confrontational yet laid-back in a way? Also seems SLE-ish to me.

    You definitely seem Beta to me, and I'd say your temperament in those pix comes across EP > EJ. I dunno, some of my friends, plus my boyfriend, are SLE, and the thing is I'm not sure any of them would see themselves in the stock SLE descriptions Socionics offers. I'll be curious, if you stick around, to see what self-typing you'll try out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ironiantinomi View Post
    The septum piercing comes off when I want to and I do consider myself as the shocker type. And I'm not offended at all. Actually, I loved it.

    I have pretty good self-esteem and I love reactions. I consider it fascinating that my looks divide people into two opposed groups, lovers & haters. The same division applies to my aesthetic taste in everything (music, people, movies, everything). I don't consider many things worth liking if they don't have their share of hate.
    In general, I myself rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not.


    And I do enjoy my own looks, practising in front of mirror, admiring myself when no ones around and secretly through reflections in public.

    Even while being shocking, I can be quite the seducer.
    OK good, I'm glad u weren't offended. I'm the first to say that what's inside is what really counts anyway, and from what you said, it seems like you are a good guy regardless of how you look to me. That's the most important thing.
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    No way he isn't SLE. Looks a lot like my SLE friend.


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    um beta extrovert?

    @ Ironiantinomi: how's your username broken down?
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    Lol yea I agree so far he has handled everything classy, but while I acknowledge that, I'm not particular impressed.

    That's not to say I'm unimpressed or necessarily have an axe to grind, I am just looking at this topic and thinking about it from a realist viewpoint.

    It's not hard to play it classy when the majority is support you, saying your sexy, and the one person who slightly says something to the contrary is immediately shut down by a multitude of people.

    Yea in that situation it's incredibly easy to play it classy.

    What's extremely impressive is when the context is turned and the majority is loathing you, saying your ugly, and the one person who slightly says something in your defense is immediately shut down by a multitude of people.

    Then it's extremely impressive to see someone have the emotional fortitude and focused mind to simply remain confident and play it classy.

    Just saying.

    I have nothing against this guy, but I'm getting a little nausiated by the circle jerking here. I am however interested to see what type he ends up being, I could just do without all the pomp and circumstance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by borderline View Post
    @ Ironiantinomi: how's your username broken down?
    I-
    Ironia- Irony
    Roni- my first name
    Antinomi- refers to one that somehow works on antinomy, although "antinomi" isn't a real word in my native language.

    Antinomia= antinomy
    "antinomi" = "antinomiser", "antinomer"

    Since the pun doesn't work at all in english i decided to modify the name.


    Oh by the way, I haven't still figured out the system although i registered.


    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    I'm the first to say that what's inside is what really counts anyway
    You got it wrong. that's the lie you say to ugly people.
    Both (external vs. internal) REALLY matter.

    LucidLucidDreams is right, it's easy. Although I don't mind attention.
    Attention could be focused on questions cos VI won't be taking us far and it seems rather unreliable source.

    My friend was somewhat certain i would be a clear ESFJ. She's not very keen on these things, but she knows me. I'm still quite doubtful though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Irony of Antinomy View Post
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    My friend was somewhat certain i would be a clear ESFJ. She's not very keen on these things, but she knows me. I'm still quite doubtful though.
    I dunno--my boyfriend is obviously SLE and thinks he should be ESFJ. In his case it's because when I put this question of a type to him many months ago, he only went with the four Jungian dichotomies from MBTI and thinks because he's passionate and doesn't consider himself intellectual, he should be F>T. I will say that fundamentally he's a generous man and super protective of his loved ones, but he can be very black and white in his thinking and very blunt and even controlling without realizing it. (He also seems to be Enneagram 8, though--I think if he were 7 he might be quite a bit different.)

    He claims that he makes decisions based on his heart and not his thoughts, but ... from my POV it can take him weeks and months to figure out what his feelings in fact ARE. I have to help him know what he's feeling and occasionally subtly help him in his interactions with people. So I'd say it's more that he wants to act from the heart and gets all tangled up in mental deliberations, weighing pros and cons, and struggling sometimes to perceive the fundamental emotional truths. He is hungry for emotion from me and can absorb a ton of it, even if it's bitchy or comes from my personal suffering. But he is not the one originating and shaping all the emotions between us.

    On the J versus P thing, he admitted he wasn't sure. At any rate, considering not those four dichotomies proper, but the types as a whole, he is a world apart from ESFJ.

    What about you would be ESFJ?
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    Just some random questions, because you have asked for questions several times now. Ignore any you don't like, I guess:

    Do you tend to plan things out for the next few hours or days, or do you take things as they come?

    Once you've decided to go someplace specific, do you stop along the way to do other things?

    How do you walk, say, down the sidewalk or through a store? (Quickly, slowly; smoothly, jekrily; straight smooth lines, changing direction?)

    Has anyone ever given you feedback on how much space you seem to take up? That is, do you know if you have a big presence, seeming to fill a space, or a quieter or more contracted presence?

    Do you ever do anything to provoke emotional reactions from other people? If you get negative reactions, is that okay with you?

    Do you think you are able to be interpersonally charming?

    Do you think you know how to get your way in various social situations?

    Are you able to figure a lot of things about about people based on stuff like what they are wearing?

    If you hug someone you're close to--let's say an intimate partner--do you squeeze them hard? In general, do you like touches with pressure behind them, or light strokes?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    Do you tend to plan things out for the next few hours or days, or do you take things as they come?
    I'll do what I feel like doing. My plans are theories of how I might feel like doing at given time.

    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    Once you've decided to go someplace specific, do you stop along the way to do other things?
    If I'm not in a rush, I take detours, stop to meet people etc.
    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    How do you walk, say, down the sidewalk or through a store? (Quickly, slowly; smoothly, jekrily; straight smooth lines, changing direction?)
    I usually walk hastily and smoothly, but haven't paid enough attention.
    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    Has anyone ever given you feedback on how much space you seem to take up? That is, do you know if you have a big presence, seeming to fill a space, or a quieter or more contracted presence?
    I think I can change the size of my presence. I like attention and if given opportunity I will take it. But often I tend to observe from a distance as well.
    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    Do you ever do anything to provoke emotional reactions from other people? If you get negative reactions, is that okay with you?
    I like quarrels and drama. I tend to keep people on their toes with nasty remarks, but I don't want to alienate them from me if I like em, so I act kindly at the same time. I also sometimes feel quite vulnerable if I can't prove my awesomeness. Then again when you walk with a nose ring, a kilt and a studded leather jacket, you can't constantly worry if I won't be pleasing everyone.
    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    Do you think you are able to be interpersonally charming?
    I consider myself a natural pick up artist and I will charm almost anyone I like. That also means I don't like the ones that are beyond my reach.

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    Do you think you know how to get your way in various social situations?
    Naturally. I'm also an adept salesperson when needed.
    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    Are you able to figure a lot of things about about people based on stuff like what they are wearing?
    That and how they move, speak and act in general.
    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    If you hug someone you're close to--let's say an intimate partner--do you squeeze them hard? In general, do you like touches with pressure behind them, or light strokes?
    I usually lift some of my friend in the air as I hug them and if I don't hug hard it means I was forced to hug under social circumstances someone I don't like. With intimate partners it's very sensual and aesthetic so the light strokes apply on that part.

    Thanks for the questions if it helps to solve anything.
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    You sound like ILE from your responses than a SLE.

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    Well, I really only asked you questions (and possibly not very good ones) that have to do with how I think the SLEs I know can be. (I'm mostly thinking of the two I know extremely well.) So it's hardly an objective measure. More like inquisitive conversation. I bolded below the things that seem most strongly SLE to me, and things that are in purple are "maybe." The other stuff, not sure.

    Quote Originally Posted by Irony of Antinomy View Post
    I'll do what I feel like doing. My plans are theories of how I might feel like doing at given time.
    Sounds potentially irrational. One thing I notice is that my SLE boyfriend and longtime female friend will make a plan with me, and I see that from their perspective it is kind of a theory. Once we go out on our way, it can change entirely. This is a little hard for me to flow with sometimes, because if I say, "Let's go to dinner at Restaurant Z," then I feel like it's settled and done, it's a definitely plan, and now we will just execute that plan without further amendment. But then I find that for them it's still up for debate, again and again.

    I've even literally said of my boyfriend that it's weird how dinner is just a "theory," going to the park is a theory, etc.

    If I'm not in a rush, I take detours, stop to meet people etc.
    Also possibly irrational.

    I usually walk hastily and smoothly, but haven't paid enough attention.
    Could be SLE; could, of course, be other types. One thing I notice about SLEs is that there's some subtype description that says they move like big cats. I asked my boyfriend once what animal he thinks he's most like, and he said "Panther." The girlfriend I mentioned was a LOT like a big cat. So there's a sort of fluidity in the joints, but a certain amount of power in the movement. If I think of a big cat, it can seem pretty laid-back a lot of the time, but also ready for action, can spring or pounce at any given moment.

    I think I can change the size of my presence. I like attention and if given opportunity I will take it. But often I tend to observe from a distance as well.
    I've never asked an SLE how they perceive their own presence. I've seen them do extremes from flat-out attention whore to quiet observation. I'm not necessarily sure what prompts them to go with the "big" mode versus the "quiet" mode.

    I like quarrels and drama. I tend to keep people on their toes with nasty remarks, but I don't want to alienate them from me if I like em, so I act kindly at the same time. I also sometimes feel quite vulnerable if I can't prove my awesomeness. Then again when you walk with a nose ring, a kilt and a studded leather jacket, you can't constantly worry if I won't be pleasing everyone.
    Some of this sounds Beta, some of it sounds sensing, some of it sounds young. Whom do you say these nasty remarks to? As a personal example, my boyfriend will say the most absolutely HORRIBLE things--he loves to do that. The more he likes a person, the more he'll do it. (Not that he doesn't sometimes tell a stranger or a co-worker exactly what he thinks in a conflict situation, but that's different.)

    Once in a while, he'll actually hurt my feelings. Then he's very sincerely sorry. He has to remind me occasionally that he wouldn't say these things if they were true. For instance, I just spent two months with him and I reckon I gained five pounds--which I hate--from eating too much cheese and pastry. He knew I was worried, so he kept telling me I was fat in various teasing ways, and he would squeeze various parts of me and then tell me the measurements, lol. After a while I was just like STOP IT. But he likes to see me get freaked out, gah. So he can't stop doing it, but he can regularly patch it up by making it clear that if I were a fat person, he would never, never call me fat, because that isn't funny. And he'll tell me and show me how much he really does like my body.

    I consider myself a natural pick up artist and I will charm almost anyone I like. That also means I don't like the ones that are beyond my reach.
    Have seen this a lot with SLEs.

    Naturally. I'm also an adept salesperson when needed.
    This, too.

    That and how they move, speak and act in general.
    To me, this is probably a sensor thing. I pick up on all kinds of things from people, too, but what I am "reading" is not the same stuff--not making leaps to knowledge based on concrete details, but based on vibes, on feelings the person prompts in me, and sometimes on images that arise from nowhere in my mind.

    I usually lift some of my friend in the air as I hug them and if I don't hug hard it means I was forced to hug under social circumstances someone I don't like. With intimate partners it's very sensual and aesthetic so the light strokes apply on that part.
    Aw! Enthusiastic squeezes! I dunno about the "light strokes" thing, as one person's light stroke is another person's firm stroke, now that I reflect on it. I know that when I've been with some Si-valuing partners, the way they touch me can be too light and make me really uncomfortable, even irritated. Se-valuers seem too apply the right amount of pressure so it's not annoying. For me, even if it's "light," there still has to be intensity and deliberateness in it.

    Regarding the ENTp idea, I didn't ask questions looking for ENTp traits. You don't come across in your photos as ENTp at all to me. The two ENTp subtypes can appear extremely different, and one of them to me is rather sweet-looking with very warm and open glowing eyes and an inviting little semi-smile; the other is more birdlike or something, a small-chinned professor thing, lol, with a more narrow gaze (Sorry, everyone. Just my way of seeing it.) I often see ENTps as moving in a gangly way, not as smoothly as SLEs tend to.
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    sounds SLE to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    I've never asked an SLE how they perceive their own presence. I've seen them do extremes from flat-out attention whore to quiet observation. I'm not necessarily sure what prompts them to go with the "big" mode versus the "quiet" mode.
    There's time to wait, time to watch and the time to act.
    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    Some of this sounds Beta, some of it sounds sensing, some of it sounds young. Whom do you say these nasty remarks to? As a personal example, my boyfriend will say the most absolutely HORRIBLE things--he loves to do that. The more he likes a person, the more he'll do it. (Not that he doesn't sometimes tell a stranger or a co-worker exactly what he thinks in a conflict situation, but that's different.)
    I feel like sometimes I'm the child from the story whom yells "The Emperor doesn't have clothes on!". Usually if I make nasty remarks out of some other motive than telling the thing on everyone's mind, it's a person I like. If it seems I went too far, I act nicely all of a sudden.

    Quote Originally Posted by Golden View Post
    Regarding the ENTp idea, I didn't ask questions looking for ENTp traits. You don't come across in your photos as ENTp at all to me. The two ENTp subtypes can appear extremely different, and one of them to me is rather sweet-looking with very warm and open glowing eyes and an inviting little semi-smile;
    People refer to me as someone inviting person with warm smile although I tend to see myself as emotionally cold, calculative and distant.

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    Oh by the way, the my eyes in the picture with the girl with the stretched ear, are not my eyes normally. Pretty stoned there.

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