Is being boring type-related?

[Averroes]

I’d guess the most boring types are E6 and E9 SP/So introverted Fi-valuers

[Averroes]

I have no values, no strong opinions, no backbone, no wisdom to impart, I can't make someone laugh or think deeply, etc. Everything that's interesting about me is superficial

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

I don't really think so because boring-ness is in the eye of the beholder. All the tv shows, books to read, stuff to do in the world, the occupations, lifestyles/thoughts/dreams- ur bound to be narcissistically interesting to some people and very boring to others.

[pixie dreams]

I have no values, no strong opinions, no backbone, no wisdom to impart, I can't make someone laugh or think deeply, etc. Everything that's interesting about me is superficial

??? I thought you had wisdom to part like not being a homewrecker and shit. A lot of people would do whatever they wanted to regardless of how it'd make others feel. Maybe you're just in a rut or something where you feel like you're boring, nothing is exciting anymore in your life

[on a peaceful hiatus]

I think it's somewhat related to type, but more to subtype (normalizing/harmonizing)

[Metaphor]

No. No.

[pasleine]

ya definitely sounds like depression

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

Keep liking my comments please. I am a celebrity.

[Squirrel]

Not type related

Also , both 9 Sp and 6 Sp are described as people who have sense of humour

[nifl]

types which are closer to you are generally perceived as more boring, they are less exotic and have less to offer. in the absolute sense - logical types are more boring, because they are less emotionally mobile, less people-oriented and do not have the same ability to please and stimulate emotionally.

[lookin4waifu]

I think 4D Si types are stereotyped as the most boring and small-minded. But the reality is that IXE and xIE can care about really basic bitch things too and be predictable in their responses. Just look at Eliza Thomason and her stuck upness and religiosity and Adam Strange and his single-minded pursuit of ESIs.

[Averroes]

I don't really think so because boring-ness is in the eye of the beholder. All the tv shows, books to read, stuff to do in the world, the occupations, lifestyles/thoughts/dreams- ur bound to be narcissistically interesting to some people and very boring to others.

I’m boring to talk to in spite of my various niche surface-level interests and all of my thoughts are negative and painfully distorted so they’re not worth sharing to anyone besides a therapist

[lookin4waifu]

I’m boring to talk to in spite of my various niche surface-level interests and all of my thoughts are negative and painfully distorted

Do you consider yourself to be emotionally unintelligent even as an ethical type?

[Averroes]

Do you consider yourself to be emotionally unintelligent even as an ethical type?

I think I’m good at understanding people but don’t know how to use it to my favor at all. I might be autistic which is a death sentence for me especially since I have very typical male SF aspirations

[lookin4waifu]

I think I’m good at understanding people but don’t know how to use it to my favor at all. I might be autistic

How do you know that you aren’t already using your understanding to your favor?

[Averroes]

How do you know that you aren’t already using your understanding to your favor?

i don’t have friends and women don’t like me

[nifl]

I think 4D Si types are stereotyped as the most boring and small-minded. But the reality is that IXE and xIE can care about really basic bitch things too and be predictable in their responses. Just look at Eliza Thomason and her stuck upness and religiosity and Adam Strange and his single-minded pursuit of ESIs.

Eliza Thomason probably isn't IEE, she's overly dramatic for that type - her way of expressing herself is not to my taste. IEE are generally more easygoing, less shrill and avoid emotional conflict. EIE is possible

[VewyScawwyNawcissist]

I have no values, no strong opinions, no backbone, no wisdom to impart, I can't make someone laugh or think deeply, etc. Everything that's interesting about me is superficial

i recall u had an opinion about successful idiots pretending that theres no factors that radically affect someone's opportunities
if u have no backbone u may feel like ur not allowed to have ur opinions bc u cant assert them, and if u are in a bad sitaution somehow it may be why ur unable to assert them. if ur opinions are not assertable or ur struggling to assert them for some reason u may end up avoiding expressing them so much u lose parts of urself in the lies its a damn hell learning to manipulate while retaining your sense of self. you may be not able to make someone think bc ur unwilling to assert something to them. you may also be lacking in understanding or conceptualization that u need to form the strong opinions. this can be due to limiting beliefs, bad cognitive habits (also related to body and environment habits and restrictive environments), at some points u may get forced to take risks u dont wanna take now that i mention that i realize ur simultaneously Ne PoLR H subtype sp 9 sx last like your whole identity is based on avoidance which is a risk in itself bc if u dont take some risks u get stuck in a position that u cant make decisions from anymore bc u have no resources to cope that you would have had if you took previous risks.

[on a peaceful hiatus]

Eliza Thomason being IEE is really hilarious to me. Imagine all the stereotypes people build on dumb mistypings. How is a religious fanatic supposed to be Ne base? She's beta NF

[lookin4waifu]

i don’t have friends and women don’t like me

You just came back from a vacation with 2 hot bitches and a man

Some of us here are trapped in the basement by our mothers. Count your blessings

[lookin4waifu]

Eliza Thomason being IEE is really hilarious to me. Imagine all the stereotypes people build on dumb mistypings. How is a religious fanatic supposed to be Ne base? She's beta NF

You’re a religious fanatic for penis, you IEI

[godslave]

Being bored depends on the environment, the situation and can be related to some psychological constructs like ADHD. However, I would say that being in a prolonged state in a place or a situation where our valued functions don't find echo so to speak will eventually lead to a state of being bored. It's understandable since we are bored by things in which we have no interests, that translates in socionics language by IEs we don't value imho.

[Averroes]

Being bored depends on the environment, the situation and can be related to some psychological constructs like ADHD. However, I would say that being in a prolonged state in a place or a situation where our valued functions don't find echo so to speak will eventually lead to a state of being bored. It's understandable since we are bored by things in which we have no interests, that translates in socionics language by IEs we don't value imho.

By boring, i mean being a relatively unstimulating person to converse with

[Averroes]

You can live a pretty mundane life and still have a lot to talk about and intriguing perspectives on things. In contrast, I make everything I like and have done seem dull as fuck and just can’t shake the impression of being a boring NPC no matter how hard I try to peacock because I have nothing going on upstairs

[lookin4waifu]

You can live a pretty mundane life and still have a lot to talk about and intriguing perspectives on things

I’m pretty sure if you made an account and are insane enough to get into socionics and regularly post on this site, you are disqualified from ever being boring

[godslave]

By boring, i mean being a relatively uninteresting person

sorry, I have misunderstood the question, my bad.

There is no such thing as relatively uninteresting person. Every human being is an Universe and has a dual TIM. If one feels that way it might involve a myriad of reasons some psychological, attachment issues, social condition, depression etc... To me the most important thing in such situation is to seek help (mental health pro.) and/or someone who can see in you stuff that you can't see in yourself until they are revealed. There are sick people out there like real bad people but even in them we can find an interest. Some of us have some sorts of morbid fascination for serial Killers and real incarnations of evil because those minds are interesting to study. Finally, we all have a particular interest to the people in the medical field, we all have organs that comes in pairs...

[Renna]

Better be boring but still have a backbone. Having a backbone should be your focus, self pity no help.

[Tallmo]

Yes, it is probably slightly correlated to some types. I'm sure anybody who has typed lots of people can figure this out.

[on a peaceful hiatus]

Yes, it is probably slightly correlated to some types. I'm sure anybody who has typed lots of people can figure this out.

I would say introversion + logic + N-sub probably makes for the most boring types. it depends what the definition of boring is, though

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Chy1oeTjgLA

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

I’m boring to talk to in spite of my various niche surface-level interests and all of my thoughts are negative and painfully distorted so they’re not worth sharing to anyone besides a therapist

You don't bore me, but I think maybe I just sympathize with your 'waaah Chad got the girl and I didn't' posts- as I can have too much sympathy for incels. I mean if they talk about their issues and don't just go 'that's an IEI.'

And ur probably not an incel, just a beta manlet like me. Your time will come, Beta-Wan- when Stacy grows up and gets tired of Chads - when you're 65 years old!!!

[Park]

I am both excitement/adventure-seeking and relatively serious and pragmatic at the same time. That said, impressions are relative and I'm pretty sure some people find me boring while others see me as interesting and/or enigmatic.

[Kalinoche buenanoche]

By boring, i mean being a relatively unstimulating person to converse with

People go to great lengths to "have nothing going on upstairs". Maybe see how you are the one who is first and foremost annoyed by silence. Letting silence unfold with curiosity and lightness can be quite something. Maybe it will bring more words than we would have thought.

[timber]

I have no values, no strong opinions, no backbone, no wisdom to impart, I can't make someone laugh or think deeply, etc. Everything that's interesting about me is superficial

Yeah you do sound boring. The apathy on top makes it even harder to see your appeal.

[timber]

People go to great lengths to "have nothing going on upstairs". Maybe see how you are the one who is first and foremost annoyed by silence. Letting silence unfold with curiosity and lightness can be quite something. Maybe it will bring more words than we would have thought.

The life of simplicity is simple, but it opens to us a book in which we never get beyond the first syllable. - Father Dag Hammarskjold

I personally find alot of meaning in this quote. I told my dual this and he laughed and said there was nothing profound in it at all.

I said "oh reaaaaaly".

[timber]

You don't bore me, but I think maybe I just sympathize with your 'waaah Chad got the girl and I didn't' posts- as I can have too much sympathy for incels. I mean if they talk about their issues and don't just go 'that's an IEI.'

And ur probably not an incel, just a beta manlet like me. Your time will come, Beta-Wan- when Stacy grows up and gets tired of Chads - when you're 65 years old!!!

He might be mildly clinically depressed, given the life circumstances he explained. I don't blame him I might feel similar.

[timber]

I would say introversion + logic + N-sub probably makes for the most boring types. it depends what the definition of boring is, though

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Chy1oeTjgLA

Finally something I can agree with you for.

[timber]

You can live a pretty mundane life and still have a lot to talk about and intriguing perspectives on things. In contrast, I make everything I like and have done seem dull as fuck and just can’t shake the impression of being a boring NPC no matter how hard I try to peacock because I have nothing going on upstairs

You might actually just be noticing how NPC the entire world has become and you are taking on the collectives unconscious about it all. As a Fi type you would be the first to notice this about yourself anyway.

Does being boring bother you?

[timber]

Eliza Thomason being IEE is really hilarious to me. Imagine all the stereotypes people build on dumb mistypings. How is a religious fanatic supposed to be Ne base? She's beta NF

Dude, despite your travels, you lead a sheltered life.

You remind me of a EII, LII guy I met while logging in the MTN range next to my region. He was there from Belgium with his beautiful girlfriend. They both wanted an "authentic Canadian experience".

I took him under my wing, showed him how to operate a chainsaw, even fall some trees amount many other things.

I had us building camp fires and cooking meat over them, something they had never done in their lives, despite having been world travellers.

It's like, for all their education and travels, they still had a fuck ton to learn outside of their ideas about the world.

I see the same with you. A kind of arrogance. It's like you think "that cannot possibly be, because my mind's hologram cannot picture it".
That you can't understand even how a person can be religious shows me more about your modern German background than it says something about reality.

A smarter man might have deduced Eliza lives in North America, a place where religions are very normal. To be a religious believer here is typical and not worth note. That you think she is a fanatic also shows me your lack of knowledge into how evangelical american brand of Christianity is, another sad piece of information your so called Ne creative mind hasn't discovered (odd your Ne can't see these sorts of things and mix them with thinking). Why can't a IEE be religious?

It's like your entire thought systems is based on prior assumptions. No wonder you are having trouble.

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

If you have a pulse or any kind of personality, you can't be from a Fi-valuing quadra according to Aliveonics. Totally ignoring the fact that IEEs have 4D Fe demo, and would of course naturally come across campier than IEIs much of the time - who only have 3D Fe. But in Aliveonics, only valued functions are ever shown or demonstrated.

Maybe he's Superficial, Maybe he's Overly-Simplistic, Maybe it's Aliveoleine!™

[leckysupport]

I have no values, no strong opinions, no backbone, no wisdom to impart, I can't make someone laugh or think deeply, etc. Everything that's interesting about me is superficial

Most of these come about through conflict with the real world.

You grow a backbone when someone/thing humiliates you.
Your opinions get stronger as you come to distrust others.
etc.