So I read DJ's thread about this supposed 'SLE' being guilt-stricken about wanting to fuck whoever makes him horny.
Why feel guilty about that though? I mean even shy really passive people that a lot of people feel sorry for (Like me) want to fuck everything that we're attracted to. It's only human nature.
It doesn't mean you can't also have long, loving relationships too. But wanting to fuck more than one person isn't being cruel. Not even to the person you really like a lot and romantically fancy.
Being cruel is being cruel.
The real issue with that is , is that monogamy isn't natural to the human species. Sorry, it just isn't. Although a monogamous relationship can be very satisfying, we're naturally built to wanna fuck whoever turns us on.
It's only cruel if you use somebody's feelings against them, and try to pretend that it's more than just a hot fuck, just to get in bed with them. Now that, is messed up. You're using somebody wanting real love and human affection just to get your rocks off.
But dear god would people stop feeling guilty over their sexuality? Long-term enduring romantic feelings and more subtle sexual overtones and classical love can exist peacefully along the same side as a fleeting encounter. You should feel guilty if you want to kill and hurt other people and make fun of their feelings and be a asshat. You shouldn't feel guilty if you want to fuck them in their cute little bottom boy ass. Mmm.