Originally Posted by
BulletsAndDoves
In socionics you can have outgoing infps, and you can have shy enfps. That's a very possible combination, so it's not really wise to find out your type that way.
Socionics is more about your own social norms, society attitudes, and peculiarities of thinking. It's really complex....
Also socionics isn't really about your personal identity, it's more about your identity in how you are in relation to others. It's a very relationship-based model, with a strong and intricate emphasis on intertype relationships. If you notice, MBTI and other personality typologies do not put as much emphasis on relationships. So I agree it's not really a good idea to study it when you're insecure, because the theory itself, by its nature, causes you to compare yourself to other people. Ya know?
Right now, I agree that you sound closest to enfp more than anything else, though.