Do you start to act more femininely playful around people you are comfortable or intimate with or when feeling impulsive and uninhibited? Were you ever surprised or embarrassed by this?
Do you admire the intimate and provocative cognitions that women get to have with the world, whereas men are supposed to be serious, aggressive, and territorial?
Does the male body invoke repulsion or indifference in your mind?
So basically, SLI/IEE duality would be backwards. The male IEE would be more feminine and the female SLI would be more masculine. Makes sense?