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    I'm trying to get a better idea of what Fi is so I was searching for some examples online (stolen from another forum, sorry) and thought these were good examples, wanted to see if you guys agreed or not or could possibly tell me what this sort of communication might be?

    Good Morning sweetie,

    I know right now you are sleeping and hopefully having some sweet dreams
    Hope you don't mind me calling you darling, sweetie, etc.? Just wanted to write to you cause I stepped outside this morning and saw a beautiful sunrise, and it reminded me of how beautiful I really think you are and how lucky I am to have a great person like you!! And that you said Yes to being my girlfriend, makes me feel so special. & how Thankful I am to have such a special Valentine as you. Can't wait til we can do whatever we please and enjoy our own time together - the sunrises and sunsets and just being in each others company, thats what will make me the happiest person alive - not like I'm not already!

    Thanks for everything darling!!!
    Another :

    Hey sexy!!
    Hope you have a good day
    at work today Each and every time I see you, I get that huge smile on my face - the butterflies in my stomach, like I don't know what to say next. This is a very good thing, and hopefully
    you feel the same way as well. Just waiting for that next moment with you I have so much anticipation I can hardly wait. Sorry - this is just me speaking from the heart again,
    if you don't agree or just want me to shut-up just say so.
    Personally, both examples make me want to vomit. Is this Fi?

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    Both of those makes me want to vomit too.
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    Lol. All these sound too exaggerating for me. I prefer a more subtle form of communication.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ssmall View Post
    Both of those makes me want to vomit too.
    Not just you, lol.

    I can't say it's Fi, Fe or maybe something else because I don't know how these two persons are related. Fi is mainly about knowing how your relationships to people can be evaluated. As a Fi-leading type you are very aware of who your friends or your enemies are. That means this message could mean very different things, it would be easier to say if we had the reaction of the receiver. Imagine their 'relationship' only exists in the mind of the person who wrote these letters (maybe he or she is a ILE with Fi-polr), that would mean it's not very good developed Fi if they doesn't recognize that. Maybe it's just a playful joke or just ironic, they words alone don't tell.
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    Quote Originally Posted by eunice View Post
    Lol. All these sound too exaggerating for me. I prefer a more subtle form of communication.
    Haha, yeah. I can't imagine anyone who'd feel comfortable with this level of cheesiness but I thought maybe Fi would? lol, I don't know. Just trying to understand things better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    Is this Fi?
    The first one reminds me a bit of SEE language. Overly using complements. So yes Fi.

    The second one is strange. Can't say anything about that one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    I'm trying to get a better idea of what Fi is so I was searching for some examples online (stolen from another forum, sorry) and thought these were good examples, wanted to see if you guys agreed or not or could possibly tell me what this sort of communication might be?



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    Personally, both examples make me want to vomit. Is this Fi?
    Neither example is Fi

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    http://psychclassics.yorku.ca/Jung/types.htm

    Fi is in those pages. But, if you expect someone to breast feed you the answer then go ahead and don't read.

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    Those examples make me want to vomit too. LOL.

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    Those are both AWFUL.

    I share Eunice's preference for more subtle communication of feelings. Subtlety > cheeseball floweriness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Song View Post
    Those are both AWFUL.

    I share Eunice's preference for more subtle communication of feelings. Subtlety > cheeseball floweriness.
    lol yeah..I'm trying to think what type would appreciate that and i'm at a loss..I think anyone with half a brain and maturity would find that really off-putting. I guess that was a bad example, lol!

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    ahaha. i actually thought those were kind of cute, just because they reminded me of what it feels like to be stupidly infatuated. not because they were brilliantly written or captured emotion really well or anything. it just looks to me like someone who has kind of lost their head with feelings, lol. i wouldn't attribute them to Fi at all.

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    Yeah, I thought they were cute, too lol. Sounds like a romantic IEI.

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    If anyone ever said those kind of things to me I'd feel uncomfortable. In fact, there was a guy that liked me who used to express his feelings in a similar way, except it was worse... I never took him seriously, and often joked with my friends about it. I don't understand how people can honestly be that corny & then wonder why they've pushed people away? lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Filambee View Post
    Yeah, I thought they were cute, too lol. Sounds like a romantic IEI.
    No.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Yuck. If anyone ever said those kind of things to me I'd feel uncomfortable.

    In fact, there was a guy that liked me who used to express his feelings in a similar way... I never took him seriously, and often joked with my friends about it. I don't understand how people can honestly be that corny & then wonder why they've pushed people away? lol
    Yeah, I also think it's guys like that who then complain that girls never go for nice guys and it's like WELL OBVIOUSLY, I wonder why. It's so creepy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    No.
    Why not ?

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    it almost sounds like someone who is trying too hard... someone who is trying to convince themselves and the other person that they really feel that way.

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    *reads OP*

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    I'm trying to get a better idea of what Fi is
    is not:
    Seeking high activity spheres
    Estimating the reactive state/possible reactions
    Horizontal progression
    Averaging the expectations/conduct of multiple things based on cause-effect
    Demeanor > verbalization
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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    I think anyone with half a brain and maturity would find that really off-putting.
    Truth.

    I guess that was a bad example, lol
    Yeah, but it's not surprising that you [or anyone who frequents this forum] would believe that's what Fi is all about. *sigh*

    Fi is internal bonds, and they often go unspoken... the bond is understood in other ways. Actions > words, please. I don't need or want to hear how much someone cares for me in words; I need and want them to show it in other ways. [I'm not saying this preference is exclusive to Fi-valuers, btw; I'm just pointing out that just like many Fe-valuers dislike outright cheesiness, so do many Fi-valuers.]

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    Quote Originally Posted by EyeSeeCold View Post
    is not:
    Seeking high activity spheres
    Estimating the reactive state/possible reactions
    Horizontal progression
    Averaging the expectations/conduct of multiple things based on cause-effect
    Demeanor > verbalization
    Allocating objects for interaction
    Umm there are a few things wrong with this
    FiSe does seek high activity spheres
    FiNe estimates reaction by aggravating the person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
    Are you trying to make excuses for yourself?
    No. You've read Jung's work and you can remember what it says.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    FiNe estimates reaction by aggravating the person.
    Estimates reaction toward what end? What exactly is the FiNe seeking to define, here?
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    Yeah I concur that the OP quotes don't sound at all Fi. It sounds way too overbearing and direct in its emotional content, whereas Fi (at least sane Fi) is much more subtle and implicit in its emotionality.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryene Astraelis View Post
    Estimates reaction toward what end? What exactly is the FiNe seeking to define, here?
    to extract libido from the object

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
    You're saying you want to extract sexual desire from it?
    HAHAHA...no you silly libido has more meanings then sex.

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    So the OP is Fe? No one wants to claim this example, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    HAHAHA...no you silly libido has more meanings then sex.
    How are you defining it, then?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryene Astraelis View Post
    How are you defining it, then?
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libido

    manipulation

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    *blink* So you're saying FiNe aggravates the person to get an estimate of how much that person is attracted to them?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryene Astraelis View Post
    *blink* So you're saying FiNe aggravates the person to get an estimate of how much that person is attracted to them?
    Why are you blinking?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    Why are you blinking?
    I'm trying to follow your train of thought and am not sure I'm on the right track.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
    Are you trying to make excuses for yourself?
    LOL!!!
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    Why are you blinking, Ryene ?

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    I would love to comment, but I have to go eat something, sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
    I think some libido got in her eye.
    Bahahaha

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    I would love to comment, but I have to go eat something, sorry.
    OK. I'd like an answer when you get back, please.
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    That to me is an example of Fe. Can't say it makes me want to vomit, but tell that person that they don't need to try so hard and chill .

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    I don't think the text is an example of Fi or Fe. Sappiness is not type related. ;]
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