Mirage/illusionary relations--various authors (machine trans)
ID Vaysband Working Paper on Socionics
Lacking confidence, these relationships are bored. Conflict a bit, but are lacking in emotion, joy. Try to understand each other, but are not able to guess the desires of another. good for relaxation, joint activities not go well. In this case, the orchestras are easier to maintain good relations in the cases is not too serious, or somewhere on a joint vacation. By partner relationship develops as a lightweight, not too serious, though nice and sweet person with whom a well in one company, but not very drawn to join him in business contact. However, in family life, for those with psychological comfort factor is dominant, these relationships can be quite favorable.
OB Slinko "The key to my heart - Socionics"
Mirage partner is always pleasant and attractive, but he always eludes your understanding, it seems hidden behind a kind of semi-transparent veil, so that you can admire them, but can not until the end to recognize it. Mirage partner demobilizes you, soften, resulting in a state of mental and physical relaxation, it pleases him brilliance and originality, but it is difficult to grasp its meaning. There should be continuous willful effort to maintain an active dialogue in a pair of mirage. With such a nice partner to relax, but when trying to share business activity shows a completely different "device" of partners, so that concerted action is practically impossible. Mirage often simply do not understand each other and say each of his. In the initial stage of development mirage relationship for this reason that sometimes conflicts can arise.
RK Graying "Information psychoanalysis"
"Adult" - "perky teen plus baby." Conflict of this interaction is as follows. "Adult" by inertia is trying to treat the "self-assured teenager" as a "child" or vice versa, to the "child" as a "teenager". Partner of such an attitude a few knocks, it is surprising and annoying: The man has just been so good, and suddenly for no apparent reason stick with some sort of nonsense. Maybe he did not accept the fact? As already noted, the relationship resembles poludopolnenie opponents, however, tend to be much softer than his. The development of relations due to the reasons described often resembles a ride on a good car on rough roads. Quickly and comfortably ... to potholes and beyond. If successful coincidence of circumstances outside parties time to further interaction to know each other, getting used to, and strongly attached to each other. In this situation, they own and learn to drive around quite well encountered on their way "well." The most important recommendation for poludopolneny. Learn to overcome the sometimes occurring obsessive desire to re-partner. In poludopolneny is always the possibility to reach a consensus and without any pressure on each other. "Unsure teen -" baby "plus" self-confident teenager. " It also helps that the only advice given. The longer and develop better relationships, the easier unit to survive the superego "children's whims" partner. Moreover, this aspect of interaction in dyads looks very mature and very cute.
Lyme Stankevichyute "Intertype relationship"
They do not lack confidence, they get bored. Conflict a bit, but are lacking in emotion, joy. People try to understand each other, but are not able to guess the desires of the partner. And once again accused of ethical logic of selfishness, and the logic of ethics - a carelessness, frivolity.
AV Boukalov, G. Boiko, "Why Saddam Xuseyn wrong, or what is Socionics"
This is a good relationship, but for the common vacation. After all, that something serious to do with hard thought and interests of the other perceived indistinctly, as if in a misty haze. The intentions of others as if absorbing walls made of cotton. Hence, a rather weak understanding. In the discussion of any issue of partners interested in its different aspects, different situations, which causes constant question: "How can he engage in such nonsense?" and it does not cause irritation. The same applies to work together: partners support the activity of each other, so there comes a kind of relaxation. The family also lost quite quickly mutual interest.
VV Gulenko "Tests of reciprocity"
Intervention in comfort
Communication is not so much interesting as useful. Comfort is felt only during quiet nature of the communication. Disagreements and disputes may arise quite suddenly. When the two get into a stressful situation, balancing violated: to pacify each other can not. Unpleasantly striking that a partner is sometimes quite rudely interfere in your affairs, without notice to this effect. The result can be violent showdown. Partner often does not approve of those things you do with the soul. Discussion unproductive.
Binary attributes intertype relationships
Mirazhnikam much nicer to talk together than in a large group. Discussions that arise due to the influence of outsiders can lead to serious disagreements. Such a pair of little interest outside world, concentrating on their internal personal problems.
Mirazhnost characterized by sporadic improvements and declines understanding. It requires first of all, the ability to predict the behavior of a partner, depending on his mood. Discussion to clarify the truth, finding a common point of view, etc., are ineffective. Mirage requires the ability to make concessions. Develop a planned style of living together is not possible.
Mirage relations inherent in fine lyrical emotion, a peculiar sense of humor. Mirage is more suitable for leisure activities than for productive work. In a pair of mirage is a strong internal emotions. For the stability of the relationship mirage partners must sympathize with the soul to each other. Logical evidence of his innocence in these relationships do not make sense.
Imbued with curiosity, mixed with disturbing premonitions mirage relationship. However, the joint plans of partners, again, are illusory. In these respects, even experienced the bitterness of the collapse of hopes not to lose faith in their improvement. Strengthening the intuitive abilities of partners to help them to refrain from hasty actions, to adapt to each other.
For the mirage of relations is indicative of internal variability of the states - from the fascinating feeling of harmony to this anger towards the partner. When mirage should be responsive to encourage partner. Unstable lyrical and nostalgic state, which periodically occur in mirazhnikov, strengthen their confidence in each other, but at the same time and generate sadness about the fragility of human happiness.
Mirage relations are also subject to the inevitable failures. In mirage pair partners are making autonomy, the right to own, distinct from other interests. Partners do not like dragging each other, their activity is often directed in opposite directions. In a dispute, each insists on his own, not even trying to patiently explain my point of view to another. To dismiss the distance or provide other freedom of action, the partners at time calm down.
VV Gulenko, AV Gars "Introduction to socionics"
This attitude of relaxation. None of iitertipnyh relationship so do not relax and not discouraged partners like mirage. With the "mirage" partner pleasant to rest or to discuss extraneous issues. Man, as it spreads, dekontsentriruetsya turns into a rippling mirage. With such partners do not want to deal with cases. Business co-operation with such a complicated nature of the relationship. Quite understand the motives behind acts of each other. It aspires to be a partner, it seems insignificant, not worthy of attention. Expect from each other completely different activity. Therefore, one cools the other in its business plans. Partners as playing a bad phone. Such a communication from the times may look very funny. It recalls the humorous dialogues Shirvindt (OR) and Derzhavin (IEE), when one cuts off abruptly and unceremoniously the other. Introvert in this pair is trying to get rid of attempts extrovert, to impose their opinions, wants a certain autonomy. Extrovert wants to turn an introvert "normal" person. Both are tuned to the capabilities of each other's mission. Tiffs in these relations, usually of short duration. Partners are drawn to each other. At times, relations have become very good and warm. This happens when they say little on specific topics, and more do work together. Discussion of the results of successfully completed work is encouraging, but the new attempt to take over the case once again face the same difficulties. But together it is hardly possible to achieve much because of the inability to assemble and operate at full power.
This attitude of relaxation. None of iitertipnyh relationship so do not relax and not discouraged partners like mirage * C "mirage" partner pleasant to rest or to discuss extraneous issues. Man, as it spreads, dekontsentriruetsya turns into a rippling mirage. With such partners do not want to deal with cases.
Business co-operation with such a complicated nature of the relationship. Quite understand the motives behind acts of each other. It aspires to be a partner, it seems insignificant, not worthy of attention. Expect from each other completely different activity. Therefore, one cools the other in its business plans. Partners as playing a bad phone. Such a communication from the times may look very funny. It recalls the humorous dialogues Shirvindt (OR) and Derzhavin (IEE), when one cuts off abruptly and unceremoniously the other.
Introvert in this pair is trying to get rid of attempts extrovert, to impose their opinions, wants a certain autonomy. Extrovert wants to turn an introvert "normal" person. Both are tuned to the capabilities of each other's mission.
Tiffs in these relations, usually of short duration. Partners are drawn to each other. At times, relations have become very good and warm. This happens when they say little on specific topics, and more do work together. Discussion of the results of successfully completed work is encouraging, but the new attempt to take over the case once again face the same difficulties. But together it is hardly possible to achieve much because of the inability to assemble and operate at full power.
Relationships sufficiently comfortable and pleasant, but not all meet the needs of partners, promote relaxation and recreation. In terms of model A software feature one partner gets on the supervisory function of the other (hence the possible discord), the creative function - for activation (which gives the warmth of relations), role function - for suggestive (which generates dissatisfaction) demonstrative function covers pain partner. Relationship quite favorable for family life, but inefficient for collaborative activities.
Valentine Meged, Anatoly Ovcharov
The comfort of these relationships is relatively good, while partners are attention to each other and mutual sympathy. Ignoring the views and interests of partner could lead to conflicts on the small things that usually are quickly forgotten. Communication is relaxing or distracting in nature. Disputes are rare and usually end up with a compromise solution. Partners tend to moral support and assistance, but lack of understanding of the motives, goals and actions of another has an inhibiting effect on their work together and often makes it impossible. Very difficult to choose the mode of action, which would suit both. At times, relations have become good, even warm, when the partners together and discuss the rest indifferent subjects. Differences of opinion and inefficiency of mutual offset pleasant emotional relationship when your partner does not seem so very far from ideal.
Ekaterina Filatova Art to understand themselves and others "
Here, as in the case of Douala, very good partners help each other through the second-and third channels. But supplementing with 1 channel on the 4 th is not here. This means that the partners are easier to maintain good relations in the cases is not too serious - for example, somewhere on a joint vacation.
There is not too much that a weak function of 4-th channel of both partners is left without support. In general, these relations are more likely to be "nice", but no more: a strong function of the partners are equal, though opposite, "vertnosti, therefore, a strong function of the partner is not very much and valued (say, I do so I can) and the weak - in a bad light. Such a partner relationship as the sum seems to be a not too significant and authoritative, but in general, very sweet person with whom bad sometimes spend time in the company, but somehow it does not pull on the business contact. The exception is when a joint activity entirely focused on the influence of 1-th channel. In family life, these relationships can be very beneficial, especially for those with psychological comfort factor dominates.
And yet another consideration. In mirage respects there is no communication identical functions. Therefore, if the partners do not feel support for their weak functions from each other, they usually can not reach an agreement of its vital installations.
Eugene Gorenko, Vladimir Tolstikov, "Nature's own self"
Partners have nothing against each other, seem to each other is quite nice and pleasant people. They are willing to spend free time together, but together make a serious case is difficult because each partner is poorly understood goals and intentions of others. This is completely conflict-free relationship, but they do not know the ups and downs. The partners are no active mutual interest.