ID Vaysband Working Paper on Socionics
The best and necessary for the person in the family, friendship, cooperation, attitude. Partners are mutually reinforcing: a weaker one - the other is strong. The ratio of support, complement each other. Douala Douala perceives as a reliable partner in any business - whether it be work or family life. Can be regarded as fully established that the most stable couples are formed precisely at Douala.
OB Slinko "The key to my heart - Socionics"
Thoughts and actions of one warn thoughts and actions of another. Douala is like your extension, take the initiative and responsibility for those matters that are hard for you, and thus provides you invaluable help and support. The situation here is entirely mutual. You are at the same time see the weaknesses of Douala, and most importantly, feel that you can help him! - And help, and it costs nothing to you, in contrast, brings satisfaction: you just realize itself by acting on the aspects of your strong features. The mutual ability to help in difficult issues makes duals feelings of gratitude and respect for each other. Dispense with the dual support is very difficult. Dual will always protect and help the board or the silent action. With dualom not seriously quarrel, he would never hurt you and do not be offended. This is the man who understands you without words, and even entirely without words. He correctly perceives and your humor and your grumbling. Only the dual will be able to calm your anxiety, restore your reserves of vitality. When you negotiate with dualom his affairs, he was not even having time to look into your problem, only his own, his very suggestive, questions are already directs you to those aspects of the problem about which you would not think that is shows the right information. Where do you think only of themselves, dual sees you in the context of other people, explains to you about your situation from outside, from the standpoint of society. Provides an opportunity to understand what your problems objectively represent and how they are resolved.
RK Graying "Information psychoanalysis"
Interaction units are ideal. Block ego ("adult") interacts with the Bloc SuperId ("child"), Id ("cocky teenager") - with the Bloc of the superego ("uncertain"). This is potentially the most mutually beneficial relationship in which the dualization is more natural than any other. In practice, the implementation of this feature often prevents misunderstandings between partners, especially the strong, if not one of them through the dualization has not previously held. Familiarity with the full complement of useful to start with a "conversation" acceptance function block unit id and the superego. It is absolutely necessary stage of development of relations. If at the time he revealed the similarity of views and the possibility of mutually beneficial cooperation (by the way, very likely), the relationship will develop gradually. You should not only, as is often the case begins Socionics, not yet having become acquainted with the possible Douala, immediately hang around his neck all their problems. Quietly endure such treatment can only be a saint. In this interaction, with its successful development, which, fortunately, not very rare, people are quickly and drastically changed for the better. Positive changes are related to all aspects: partners become balanced, healthy, energetic, never lose heart. Stability is formed as a pair is such that she was not afraid of any life difficulties. Therefore, in Socionics assumed that a pair (dyad) - the minimum group in which a person may normally exist. Let me remind you also that the presence of Douala makes relationships with third parties totally dangerous, and therefore mutually enriching. Of course, that this interaction is more suitable for other marriage and the relations with partners all over dependent on one another, for example, for a pair of flight into space.
Lyme Stankevichyute "Intertype relationship"
The best and most necessary for man is the ratio of additions. Complementary pass each other in communicating information that is most needed to protect the most psychologically sensitive places. People who have a number of complementary, feel safe and secure, happy to work because they know that their efforts will be appreciated. Almost complement can not quarrel, and if they quarrel, then angry, only one of them. Certainly, and supplements, coming to work with broken spirits, can already begin to grumble in the corridor, but the partner never thought that the criticisms relate to it. Therefore, soon one will complain, the other calm and the mood they are to each other will not spoil. People who have learned to set type, to quickly converge to their complements, and the more they have such friends, the more they interact with people of another type. Those who have a father or mother were complementary, often a wife or husband also purchased complementary. More difficult for those who grow without supplementing. Knowing Socionics, being able to set styles, it is easy to find a complement, but a family - is not easy. First of all, because to believe that everything can be complementary, as if he knows everything and who knows how to ideal. After talking more, they see that supplementing can do, and that - no. By the way, supplementing do not want to educate, teach, that is perfect where it is particularly difficult, much more natural to help him do for him, that is, protect it from harm. Between complementary is no conflict, there are only a misunderstanding, but they occur only at the beginning of communication, as long as one does not know the other. Particularly difficult beginning of friendship between women - ethical extravert (sensory-ethical, ethical-sensory, intuitive and ethical, the ethical-intuitive) and men - logical introvert (intuitively logical, logical and intuitive, sensory-logical, logical-sensory). This type of friendship prevents the traditional understanding of intersexual relations. Logical introverts of sympathy, love, do not say because I do not have need of verbal expression of their feelings, they can only respond positively or negatively, when they were asked about this. A well-bred woman to ask or talk about first love will not. This forms a vicious circle: the ethical extravert-women can not pour out all their accumulated emotions, the inactive logical introverts, in turn, do not break the silence. So it's good if one day have an ethical extrovert female snap break through patience and emotions. Surprised logical introvert would only say that the thought without words is clear.
However, as explained not always. Therefore, although the majority of people, especially youth, have romances or friendships with complementary, few have created with their families. Ethical extroverts, women flee from their complement, losing hope and wanting to break off is not clear for them to bond. Logical introverts start chasing, but usually not at once and therefore almost always late. In addition, ethical extravert women from logical introverts, men often take away the ethical extravert-men. And do it very easily, because sensory-ethical, self-ethical, ethical-sensory, ethical-intuitive extravert easily speak about love, they left plenty of words that are essential woman, and this is how they are misleading partners a logical introverts. Ethical extravert (both women and men) to marry a young man, because can not wait. Thus, ethical extroverts marry each other, creating a union is not the best quality, because the family consists of people of the same or similar type that is not conducive to the establishment of harmony and balance. For additions to the family and bind these partners, which have long been friends, completing his studies, and only then get married. As a rule, love begins at school, at an age when love still dare not speak, but first begin to trust the partner, when both know that will not lie and will not leave each other. So are friends for a long time and do not marry because there is mutual trust and there is no fear that the partner will lead, or that he will leave. A long and beautiful friendship established between ethical extrovert male and logical introvert women. By the way, young, knowledgeable socionics people often get married in a few months of dating and argue that this time is enough time to know each other.
AV Boukalov, G. Boiko, "Why Saddam Xuseyn wrong, or what is Socionics"
Everyone dreams of happiness, in every living need to love, adore a loved one, do please him. Need to be loved, defended the need to defend yourself for someone. Need to be sure that his state of health, self-esteem is not subject to abrupt changes. Relationship-ons - best for marriage. Nature has formed a 16-tipnost person and therefore a person with differentiated functions can not be a deal with the challenges of everyday life. He needs a complementary (dual), able to defend his weaknesses, to take the burden of those functions that are not creative (say, for logic - it's ethics, for intuitive - sensing, etc.). Addition is on the grounds that come together, give a whole - the dyad. After all, the most preferred form of human existence in society - dyadic, and even kvadralnaya. If a person is alone, he has often caused neuroses, he worked in forced mode, he does not understand what drives him forward, which gives rise to a nervous breakdown. It is spiritually hungry creature, he is looking for a partner, without realizing it. His driving need to receive the signals of the type which are incorporated nature in him. Hence the difficulty. Firstly, because the person does not know its dual nature. And, secondly, people are brought up in nonduality families are not trained to perceive the signals of Douala. Duals often overlooked, but at the same time in need. It was only communicated for some time, or interacting with them in extreme circumstances a person starts to understand what the dualization.
Yes, dual is often overlooked. But notice, for example, konflikterov. They draw their unusual, bright, intriguing man. And often such sympathy, which appears to not close the psychological distance, combined with sexual attraction leads to a hasty choice of life partner. You have to pay for the mistakes of broken marriages, broken lives. Nonduality partners in a marriage begin to educate each other, trying to point out the "right way". Say, Dostoevsky short waiting categorical statements that gives its dual - Stirlitz. If he instead hears some lengthy arguments, he feels very unhappy. But this is only a special case.
Dualization is performed over all functions. It is easy to understand that because of this happening: the scandals, failures, even psychosomatic illness for certain types of relationships, and many other negative phenomena accompanying these families. Like Leo Tolstoy's "All happy families resemble one another, each unhappy: the family is unhappy in its own way." So it is: happy dualizirovanaya family is something single, balanced, a system serving a single entity to the outside world.
In nonduality this is not observed: the spouses react differently to events and, adapting to them, they comforted each other. But according to Aushra, "everyone expects from a spouse is nothing else like full mental additions and balancing ... People with complementary mind perceive each other as a very humane person, as the most humane soft available. In addition, a partner who always knows when and what to do, what to advise, what a joke of the scattered power. He understands everything, always able to maintain, protect, offend and, more importantly, is not offended. In Douala each active and feels stronger and more right. Nedualizirovany people constantly, in every manifestation of activity, as it were beyond their capabilities and loses his balance. And what is called a vacation, is not so much to recuperate, but rather to restore mental balance. Lenin ("Zhukov") called H . Bukharin ("Esenina") "a favorite of the party." This is not surprising - they were Douala. And SP Korolev (a type of "Zhukov") selected for the first space flight of Yuri Gagarin ("Esenina - a Douala.) By the way, after the murder, NM Taraki ("Napoleon") LI Brezhnev ("Balzac was, as recalled Andrei Gromyko, in emotional shock. Still - Douala killed! It also influenced the decision to invade Afghanistan. I must say that in the dual pair - a single sexual behavior. Sexual program - common to quadra. But the best compatibility - in the dyad. Even from this point of view the dual relationship - the best. It should be noted that the process of dualization, especially in untrained, inexperienced dual communication - is not instantaneous. Douala should "get used" to each other, learn recognize the signals given by different functions. Until that happens, there are inconsistencies and misunderstandings. dualization relations are most favorable for the types with different subtypes: if one is stronger rational function, then the other must be irrational subtype - more developed an irrational function (Sancho Panza and Don Quixote, Niels Bohr and Bohr, Margaret - "tight" and "slim" types: logical "Don Quixote" and touch "Dumas").
It is the fact that the human psyche developed unevenly, forcing search Douala. After dualization mental balance is restored, disappears se "bias" which may give rise to conflicts, tensions between people. We must note one important fact. If the subtypes do not match (two rational or two irrational), then partners. seem more simple. Hence - the loss of interest in each other. In addition, value-cultural orientation, if they are different, can impede dualization. It plays the role of the law of psychology: innate qualities of individuals must be additional, and acquired education - similar. Gap adverse subtypes can leave their enemies, especially if it's political leaders (eg, ethical subtype of "Hamlet" - Trotsky and logical subtype of "Gorky" - Joseph Stalin, the political rivalry that escalated into severe hostility in Unlike the intuitive "Hamlet" - Molotov, Stalin, who took the program and unconditionally followed it all his life). I must say that man, finding the duality feels psychic protection, comfort and safety, which greatly facilitates his life. The fact that the problems are for most excruciating Pego, are the source of his mistakes, doubts and anxieties, it is best resolved its dual. Douala quickly soothe each other.
VV Gulenko "Tests of reciprocity"
Interesting friendly communication, which is never boring. In the behavior of partners balance each other, creating a sense of psychological "weightlessness". No need to control their behavior, you can be yourself. Due to the fact that the duties in any case divided almost automatically, saving considerable energy for new cases. Disagreements and disputes are not settled by compromise - finding the middle line, but through cooperation, ie Opening the true needs of others, which do not contradict your own, and to meet them.
Binary attributes intertype relationships
Strangers are violating their communicative comfort. But also engage in duality for the same reason you can not fast. Duality of the most appropriate for self-childlessness of the family, when there is no annoying interference of relatives or friendship group activities outside the crowded company.
They are the most relaxed and free from all IO exclude a strict routine and pre-programmed actions. Feeling of well-functioning of duality in this regard is comparable to the state of weightlessness - complete looseness in the movement for the loss of body weight.
They are characterized by sincerity and subtle emotion, but at the same time reduced mental activity. Dual pair can not work intensively, since it has no incentive to hard work.
This ratio provides physical comfort, averages tastes and habits of people joining it. Duality brings relaxation and recreation. Gusts fantasies give way to efforts to achieve real wealth, under the circumstances.
In dual relationship you expect the contrasts of fun and boredom, lots of fun, and fatigue. Dark periods will alternate with light, creating a sense of some of the flight. Relationships resemble sliding along a well-oiled surface, where the convex parts as much and depressions. Partners are given to this completely slow the process, often completely forgetting about the problems of the world.
In a well-integrated dual pair of partners as to learn from each other's mannerisms and style of behavior that an external observer become virtually indistinguishable. They seem to merge into one. Their signs are averaged socionic: extrovert becomes more introverted and introvert ekstravertiruetsya; intuitive becomes more specific and Sensorik - more abstract, and so on
VV Gulenko, AV Gars "Introduction to socionics"
It is a relationship full of psychological additions. Are most suitable for the life of the individual. These relationships - the most convenient, there is no need to adapt to each other. Communicating with the Douala people can be themselves. Occurs naturally due to the very nature of segregation of duties, and a man in such a pair is able to deal with feasible and interesting for a business. In the dual pairs rarely have conflicts, and if they arise, quickly and painlessly resolved. Partners fit together like two halves of a torn pictures that together make one whole. But precisely because of what is quickly established rapport and no internal sources of stress, Douala is not immediately stands out among other people.
Duale seems too simple and understandable, and therefore not worthy of attention. This is the first position, which can take a person encountering Douala. It is rather typical of extroverts. The second position - it is when you tell me: he is too good for me, I can hardly going to love. This position is more typical of an introvert. Both these positions are found in people who had no experience of dual communication in childhood. How could feel the effects of duality? During the communication with dualom much comfort people initially did not feel. All proceeds ordinary and some emotions do not cause. Douala is perceived as a shadow, as something quite natural, and therefore means nothing. As far as this person was you need, perceive only if broke up with him. Loss of Douala person perceives and experiences a very hot, place a long time does not find it. Accustomed to Douala, gaining experience of dualization, you start to finally realize that his presence calms you, makes sense of security. With favorable subtypes of this effect is enhanced even more.
However, the value of dual relationships and should not be overestimated. This is - the norm for relationships of everyday life, for everyday life. After gaining a duality, a man wants more, namely, the social significance of his personality, a sort of struggle, the deviations from the norm. Under the duality, this goal is not achieved. But not having a dual protection, social acceptance of a person is extremely difficult to achieve. But in general, without dualization person can not be avoided in only two cases: first, when at stake is the very life of man, ie, to survive in adverse conditions of the social environment, and secondly, when a person moves up the social ladder in the highly competitive, ie, for a career.
It is a relationship full of psychological additions. Are most suitable for the life of the individual. These relationships - the most convenient, there is no need to adapt to each other. Communicating with the Douala people can be themselves. Occurs naturally due to the very nature of segregation of duties, and a man in such a pair is able to deal with feasible and interesting for a business. In the dual pairs rarely have conflicts, and if they arise, quickly and painlessly resolved. Partners fit together like two halves of a torn pictures that together make one whole. But precisely because of what is quickly established rapport and no internal sources of stress, Douala is not immediately stands out among other people. Duale seems too simple and understandable, and therefore not worthy of attention. This is the first position, which can take a person encountering Douala. It is rather typical of extroverts. The second position - it is when you tell me: he is too good for me, I can hardly going to love. This position is more typical of an introvert. Both these positions are found in people who had no experience of dual communication in childhood.
How could feel the effects of duality? During the communication with dualom much comfort people initially did not feel. All proceeds ordinary and some emotions do not cause. Douala is perceived as a shadow, as something quite natural, and therefore means nothing. As far as this person was you need, perceive only if broke up with him. Loss of Douala person perceives and experiences a very hot, place a long time does not find it. Accustomed to Douala, gaining experience of dualization, you start to finally realize that his presence calms you, makes sense of security. With favorable subtypes of this effect is enhanced even more. However, the value of dual relationships and should not be overestimated. This is - the norm for relationships of everyday life, for everyday life. After gaining a duality, a man wants more, namely, the social significance of his personality, a sort of struggle, the deviations from the norm. Under the duality, this goal is not achieved. 'But not having a dual security, social recognition of a person is extremely difficult to achieve. But in general, without dualization person can not be avoided in only two cases: first, when at stake is the very life of man, ie, to survive in adverse conditions of the social environment, and secondly, when a person moves up the social ladder in the highly competitive, ie, for a career.
Valentine Meged, Anatoly Ovcharov
The most comfortable and necessary for a person in a family relationship, friendship, cooperation: what is the weak one - the other is strong. Partners see the difficulties, challenges and problems of each other. Mutual aid is very effective, provided the right to assign responsibilities. It occurs naturally and without much controversy. In these respects, there is no leader. Leadership at every moment goes to someone who is better versed in the aspects of the situation. Partners willing to respond to suggestions and requests of each other, constantly providing mutual assistance in difficult situations, both spiritual and material terms. This is - spontaneous, enjoyable relationship that will never get bored. Disputes arising from differences in styles of thinking, are educational in nature and enliven the conversation. Over time, pleasant relaxation leads to contemplation and concentration on each other. Quarreling and rapid reconciliation may have a tonic effect.
Anatoly Grechinsky, Tatiana Pedan
Nature as would make fun of the man: that of all the possible law-governed relations only one - dual approach for the family. And yet: the inability to adapt in other ways. No matter how we try, to whatever tricks, calling on all creative imagination, experience and various skills, no recourse - all relations, except the dual, we are plagued by various problems and the inability to resolve them. All the efforts in improving relations not only tied the Gordian knot tighter.
We need a duality, subconsciously expect and are aggressively seeking and finding, surprised. What is happening to us? We become different: more confident, cheerful, kind, sympathetic, stronger, in a word, better, and life - emotionally and intellectually richer brighter. Disappear all the secret fears, doubts, anxieties. We find ourselves - a true one. Understand what it means comfort - both foreign and domestic, that the main thing - it's comfort the soul. Where this comfort? In responding to the needs. We all want something, we are looking for support, understanding, assessment of our knowledge, effort and skills. We want to be helpful. And the only dual - mentally complementary partner - to protect, support and help throughout, and only that person properly appreciate our help, because it is in these skills needs.
Dual relationships are the best, most comfortable. They only needed a man for provide full mental enlarged. This is the full consent and understanding. Partners that complement each other when communicating the desired transmit, vital information. Protect the weak and sensitive areas of the psyche and evaluate the strengths, asking nothing in return. See the difficulties and challenges each other slightly and in time to help in difficult situations, hunting responsive to suggestions and requests.
The inner world is very different partners, so it's strong their sympathy and interest. But despite the difference in the characters, they have a similar score of people, events, phenomena, the same values. Communicating and partners merge into a unified whole: more intuitive elaborates his thoughts and actions in touch appear flash of intuition, logic becomes more attentive to people, and ethics in a calmer emotional manifestations. With dualom feel confident, secure, powerful and harmonious person. Disappear anxiety and uncertainty in their own abilities and capabilities. Partners healthier, feel the rush of energy and forces. Communication is easy, stress-free and brings true satisfaction - because you can only get it from communicating with the person next to whom you can be yourself. Thoughts and actions of one precede thoughts and actions of another, it is absolutely clear to both and did not come as a surprise.
In these respects, there is no leader. Leadership at every moment goes to someone who better understands the situation, occurs naturally and without unnecessary requests or disputes. Partners willing to cooperate, they know that their work and efforts will be duly appreciated. At the high culture of communication is the most appropriate and necessary for the cooperation relationship, not to mention family and friendship. Dual partners are associated with the two parts of one whole, and therefore ideal for marriage.
The partners do not fear doing something wrong, a failure to settle the issue does not cause irritation and dislike another, but only a desire to help and console. And everyone tries not only to help others, how to realize themselves, and be grateful for this opportunity to your partner. Implementation of the strengths of the intensive and naturally so that the partner needs them. And the weaknesses are not used, so everyone feels comfortable and confident. Dualizirovanny people relaxed, not afraid to show themselves. Moreover - tends to this.
Dualization enhances self-esteem of man. Thanks to her, always aware of the need to own and other people and their place in society. At Douala do not look as unattainable prince, next to themselves become kings. Sense of ease and refer to themselves and to others more tolerant. The more familiar-duals, the easier it is to communicate with people of other types.
If the dualom discuss the case, it is not even having time to delve into the issue, but his questions focuses on those aspects of the partner, as he did not think the problem is easily solved together. You can say that the duals are no problems, only challenges that are easy for them to work together to solve. Therefore, to live together is easy, fun and effective. If they work - that effectively, if talking - is meaningful if the rest - fun and interesting. Only duals perceive each other as the most humane person - a humane, gentle, affordable, intimate, empathetic. But this is subject to high culture of communication.
However, even with knowledge of Socionics and its type is not simply to create a harmonious family. At the beginning of the Common Life in duals there is a perception that the partner knows everything and know how, but later it becomes clear that he can do and what not. Therefore, to avoid disappointment after the passion, partners need not be ashamed to acknowledge that they "can not accomplish and what they are weak, not sure, be ready to give preference to the initiative and his partner. It is also important equality in educational and cultural levels.
Dual relationship from the outset to have a sincere friendship, to encourage frankness. There can not be anything to hide. Want everyone to share, discuss everything, to seek advice. Nevertheless, no need not romanticize the duality of this relationship is not only pleasant but also complex. Although the contrast in communication attracts people mentally different, so they can easily hurt each other, because every word, every action is perceived directly, immediately, without analyzing. Any rudeness on the part of Douala is perceived very painful.
Therefore, partners need to be very careful to behave so as not to injure the subtle matter of harmonious relations. Douala little quarrel, not angry, but misunderstandings still occur, however, themselves quickly and quietly disappear. Most often it happens at first, until one yet knows the other. Quarreling, which arise from differences in styles of thinking and rapid reconciliation tone partners bring excitement in relationships, educate and develop. Relationships stimulate work on them. Occurs amazingly fast growth of the individual. Ability to work on yourself, respect and attention to the partner and their needs, respect for it increasing culture of communication, and then it passes easily, without stress and brings true satisfaction.
Douala is never bored with each other. And strangers, getting in their society, feel strange, cozy, pleasant, and for them the mysterious atmosphere that always exists between Douala and contributes to the overall positive attitude towards life. Therefore, the dualization people are pleasant to communicate with others and are perceived as good, sincere, good people.
Relationships develop, the partners are improving, making the interest, harmony and surprise with new and new pleasant surprise, hitting the endless creative manifestations: "We're so good together, can there be even better?" Time passes, and it turns out that the relationship became even more enjoyable, more interesting, and is perceived by all as a miracle, like grace as a gift of fate.
In interactions with dualom no need to adapt to the partner, as in other respects. This saves a lot of energy that can be used in interesting activities. Dual host partner the way he is and appreciates and loves him for it. In this case, there is a sense of inner freedom, independence. Nobody presses, without prejudice, on the contrary, promotes free expression of another. Incidentally, duals really have no desire to educate and teach all happens naturally and willingly, and the improvement happens by itself.
In such a comfortable relationship psyche of both balanced and calm state of life the body is working smoothly, there is a power vzaimopodpitka. Partners healthier, feel the rush of energy and effort to become calm, balanced, feel at ease and freely as a child.
In dual relationship corrected deficiencies that are felt acutely partner and immediately goes back reaction. This natural reaction "gets to the point," can certainly be painful, but stimulates the analysis of behavior to deep reflection and efficient corrective action. But such a process, however, takes time and tremendous effort, domestic work, soul-searching, analysis of our own actions and behavior of others is a heartache. Sometimes people may refuse from each other.
Therefore, the dual relationship more stable, and their partners to better communicate when they are the same age, and if they, together with an earlier age, as is the relationship of equality. In adulthood, plays a role not only certain life achievements, habits, persistent views that may not coincide, but the curvature of the psyche - wrong (irregular) use its strengths and weaknesses. But in this case, the partners appreciate each other for its own renaissance, "a return to life - the life that now, rich, interesting. They all have more confidence in yourself and your partner to others. Become more sociable, calm, confident and cheerful. Over time, people begin to realize how much they mean to each other.
Duality - this is only the foundation for creating a family for which the need and other factors. Therefore, theoretically, if the dual relationship - the best, virtually every dual can become the embodiment of your dreams. The reason is that people live and are raised in different environments, have different life experiences, cultural and educational level. The difference of worldviews, values and needs, durable installation complicate relations. Therefore, young people are more likely to find the perfect partner.
In order to dual relationships developed successfully, are necessary, at least two conditions: firstly, between the dual needs to be an interest of another person, the ability to interpenetrate, to listen and understand. Secondly, and more importantly - should have at least a minimum common when the partners are directly experiencing and fighting for similar things: they have common interests, goals or common cause. A good example - the serious intentions of both to create a family. In couples as if they are spliced into a common "I". And if the separate parts of one whole will cause antipathy, or move in different directions - it is easy to scatter a whole into separate independent parts ... Duals combine as the presence of common interests, and diverge in their absence is very simple.
The first period in a relationship can be really stressful. And if relations break down, it happens in the early stages. The more time duals together and the more common are - the stronger their relationship. This is not just recreation - it is work that leads to improvement. Over time, partners are convinced that the dualization - this is not a luxury but a vital necessity.
In dual relationship partners complement each other, communication is usually easy and relaxed, and work together - nice, although improving relations can pretty painful, "grinding". All activities in one way or another find themselves in a zone of strong features one of the partners, and they share common values (value function) and the same rhythm of life - both rational and irrational. From the perspective of the Model A program (Basic) feature provides information on the suggestive (told to) a function of Douala, creative - for activation, supervisory controls the activity of role-playing, and demonstrative (background) covers pain function Douala. Dual relationships are considered among the most favorable (in the first place - for a serious relationship and long life together).
Ekaterina Filatova Art to understand themselves and others "
We have already mentioned that this - the most favorable combination of psychological types. Their relations are called dualization, or a full complement. It is obvious that any of us the most favorable relationship can arise is with the person from whom the asymmetry function is complementary.
What is the meaning of this supplement? Mainly in the fact that the individual is dealing with a partner whose energetic support (from the strong features) willingly accepts his suggestive 4-th channel, and vice versa, he maintains a channel partner's suggestive power of his own first channel. Such "complementary" partner in Socionics called Douala. Information from Douala, therefore, is perceived as support, correction, the willingness to facilitate the solution of any difficult task. On the other hand, none of the partners does not feel pressure on their "pain" function, as here, "vertnosti" functions of the 2 nd and third channels are different.
Thus, each dual pair, in the first two channels, represented four complementary functions. Two dual pairs with the same set of strong features are the quadrupole. Total Blocks - four, in literature one can find their names: alpha, beta, gamma, delta, and just I, II, III, IV-, respectively.
Below we refer to the lead unit for all four Blocks:
I square (alpha)
Don Quixote (CHI-NL) - Dumas (BC-NE)
Hugo (SE-REF) - Robespierre (BC-CHI)
II squares (beta)
Гамлет (ЧЭ-БИ) - Максим (БЛ-ЧС)
Beetles (ES-BL) - Yesenin (BI-NE)
III squares (gamma)
Наполеон (ЧС-БЭ) - Бальзак (БИ-ЧЛ)
Джек (ЧЛ-БИ) - Драйзер (БЭ-ЧС)
IV quadratic (delta)
Stirlitz (tsp-BS) - Dostoevsky (BE-CHI)
Гексли (ЧИ-БЭ) - Габен (БС-ЧЛ)
In each square the function of all four of its members in such a way that none of them did not exert pressure on the "pain" functions of the other - on the contrary, information sent by the powerful functions of any partner, the other three is perceived as a help. Thus, the square provides a more complete co-operation than a dual pair: psychophysical regulation in this group, optimally, all participants have a sense of understanding and support ... But back to Douala.
It is easy to see that the duals differ from each other on the grounds of: extroversion - introversion, Ethics - logic, sensing - intuition. But on the basis of rationality - irrationality they coincide. It turns out that the three featured duals complement each other and coinciding rationality or irrationality ensures the same rhythm of life partners. In each square one pair of duals rational, the other - is irrational.
Eugene Gorenko, Vladimir Tolstikov, "Nature's own self"
Traditionally, in Socionics is considered that the priority in all respects is a dual relationship, or, as they are called, for additions. Their advantage is that each of the complementary types takes precisely the case with which it is not difficult to handle because of its existing functions. As a result, each person a sense that its dual at the right time comes to help in the fact that it is difficult to fulfill himself. Indeed, with close to a Douala, it is easier to cope with the requirements placed on life. However, in fairness it should be noted that in relations between the dual there are many difficulties precisely because of the fact that a strong function of their opposite. However, it allows them to successfully interact with the world, but often turns misunderstanding between the partners themselves.