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    I'm pretty sure I just made this SLE jealous by joking around with his girlfriend, who is a friend of mine. He's just gotten all territorial at me.

    I want to screw with his head. Any tips? Nothing too ruthless, since the conversation is in a thread following said friend's facebook post.

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    Leave the kid alone. I don't care how you do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trevor View Post
    Leave the kid alone. I don't care how you do it.
    Nope!

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    You run the risk of getting your head bashed in if you push it.
    What do these signs mean—, , etc.? Why cannot socionists use symbols Ne, Ni etc. as in MBTI? Just because they have somewhat different meaning. Socionics and MBTI, each in its own way, have slightly modified the original Jung's description of his 8 psychological types. For this reason, (Ne) is not exactly the same as Ne in MBTI.

    Just one example: in MBTI, Se (extraverted sensing) is associated with life pleasures, excitement etc. By contrast, the socionic function (extraverted sensing) is first and foremost associated with control and expansion of personal space (which sometimes can manifest in excessive aagression, but often also manifests in a capability of managing lots of people and things).

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    Ah. What to say. It's your choice. ...Will you keep us informed at least?

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    What do these signs mean—, , etc.? Why cannot socionists use symbols Ne, Ni etc. as in MBTI? Just because they have somewhat different meaning. Socionics and MBTI, each in its own way, have slightly modified the original Jung's description of his 8 psychological types. For this reason, (Ne) is not exactly the same as Ne in MBTI.

    Just one example: in MBTI, Se (extraverted sensing) is associated with life pleasures, excitement etc. By contrast, the socionic function (extraverted sensing) is first and foremost associated with control and expansion of personal space (which sometimes can manifest in excessive aagression, but often also manifests in a capability of managing lots of people and things).

    For this reason, we consider comparison between MBTI types and socionic types by functions to be rather useless than useful.

    -Victor Gulenko, Dmitri Lytov

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    you could act like you have an inside joke with his girlfriend. he may get confused and worried.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    you could act like you have an inside joke with his girlfriend. he may get confused and worried.
    omg i loled. this would definitely work.

     
    hopefully he doesn't end up taking it out on his gf though, she seems to be kind of an innocent bystander. :/

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    His girlfriend is IEI

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    And redbaron, I think that's what happened in the first place

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thanks Arthur View Post
    I'm pretty sure I just made this SLE jealous by joking around with his girlfriend, who is a friend of mine. He's just gotten all territorial at me.

    I want to screw with his head. Any tips? Nothing too ruthless, since the conversation is in a thread following said friend's facebook post.
    Shoot yourself in the head and wait for him to notice the trail of blood and brains. What kind of asshole are you anyway?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thanks Arthur View Post
    And redbaron, I think that's what happened in the first place
    Lulz, he's probably trying to come up with better inside jokes in his spare time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    Shoot yourself in the head and wait for him to notice the trail of blood and brains. What kind of asshole are you anyway?
    A sadistic one.

    Nah, I felt bad after redbaron made clear what had happened, so I apologised.

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    Don't mess with his head... and try not to take it personally. They can't help it. they get jealous over the most innocent & innocuous of things.

    Honestly, It's almost comical how territorial SLE's can become. Tonight I was out with SLE & and this drunk SEE female acquaintance of ours kept latching on to me the whole night, kissing me on the cheek while repeating "I LOVE HER SO MUCHHH! LOVE HER! SHE'S SO BEAUTIFUL!! She has the most gorgeous eyes! blah, blah". The look on SLE's face was priceless. he kept trying to pull me away from her the whole time, saying things like "wtf. Why am I jealous? god, she better not kiss you. I was so scared she was going to kiss you. She got too close!".

    Even he was confused & bewildered that he could become so jealous over something so silly, as most guys would either not care, or encourage it. He said he kept wanting to tell her to get away from me but he didn't want to come off as looking gay in front of his friends for doing so. lol

    It was so funny that he reacted that way over something so harmless. Silly SLEs.
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    Oh, I see it's settled now--nice. I was going to say to leave him alone, unless you really hate the IEI in question, because you're more apt to cause her problems than him by stirring up his jealousy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    Shoot yourself in the head and wait for him to notice the trail of blood and brains. What kind of asshole are you anyway?
    Ahahahaha

    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Don't mess with his head... and try not to take it personally. They can't help it. they get jealous over the most innocent & innocuous of things.

    Honestly, It's almost comical how territorial SLE's can become. Tonight I was out with SLE & and this drunk SEE female acquaintance of ours kept latching on to me the whole night, kissing me on the cheek while repeating "I LOVE HER SO MUCHHH! LOVE HER! SHE'S SO BEAUTIFUL!! She has the most gorgeous eyes! blah, blah". The look on SLE's face was priceless. he kept trying to pull me away from her the whole time, saying things like "wtf. Why am I jealous? god, she better not kiss you. I was so scared she was going to kiss you. She got too close!".

    Even he was confused & bewildered that he could become so jealous over something so silly, as most guys would either not care, or encourage it. He said he kept wanting to tell her to get away from me but he didn't want to come off as looking gay in front of his friends for doing so. lol

    It was so funny that he reacted that way over something so harmless. Silly SLEs.
    That's cute.
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    Quote Originally Posted by laxidyse
    ...he needs to pull the PVC pipe out of his rear.
    That sounds a little more .

    Very efficient.

    (Still Si-devaluing, though.)

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    If it's on Facebook then befriend those he talks to more and just comment on those peoples statuses/posts, he'll likely be pissed at the territory invasion.

    Edit: for some reason I thought it was a Facebook thing? Same thing will piss him off irl, cause if your fiends with his friends, his Fi PoLR won't know who to trust.....maybe..or he might just punch you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thanks Arthur View Post
    I want to screw with his head. Any tips?
    Order a pizza and eat it all by yourself, that should do the trick.

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    It is a facebook thing Words, says in the original post.

    Thanks Arthur... especially that I'm considering ESTp strongly now... this kind of crap would piss me the hell off. If you are going to pretend to hit on his girl, or be friends with her, without his knowing, making him question what is going on... expect him to beat the living daylights out of you. Or mess with your *car* or other personal property. Don't keep the joke going for too long, before explaining, cause you WILL regret it. (Assuming he is ESTp)

    But I understand people need to lighten up sometimes. I like to give my girl freedom to talk with people and all, as long as I feel reassured nothing is going on. Perhaps he's one of those over-controlling ESTps... in which case, perhaps teasing him might be a good idea, help him learn to loosen up. Just curious, why do you want to provoke this guy?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mountain Dew View Post
    But I understand people need to lighten up sometimes. I like to give my girl freedom to talk with people and all, as long as I feel reassured nothing is going on.
    i'm sure you probably didn't mean the connotation here, but words matter. surely you know that your girl already possesses the freedom to talk to people before you benevolently bestow this freedom upon her. right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by laghlagh View Post
    i'm sure you probably didn't mean the connotation here, but words matter. surely you know that your girl already possesses the freedom to talk to people before you benevolently bestow this freedom upon her. right?
    Of course she has the freedom to do what she wants. I'm not controlling like so many other guys are. I didn't mean "give" her the freedom like she didn't have it already. I meant let her do it without trying to make a big deal out of it.

    But she actually likes that I'm very possessive/protective of her. I think INFps appreciate Se. She thinks it's cute to know I care so much.

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    No, I just made a bunch of silly posts on a silly status update, and got asked "Wait, hold the phone, who are you?"

    I mean, wtf is up with you guys? The SLEs I know IRL are all like giant teddy bears. Usually it's just a matter of sidestepping their dominance plays or engaging in some friendly jostling. I find it hard to believe the entire type is populated with murderous gangsters and vandals

    I really just wanted to know how I might continue to push his buttons, since I apparently managed to inadvertently trip one. Now I don't, because I feel like a dick now that my bully switch has unflipped.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thanks Arthur View Post
    I mean, wtf is up with you guys? The SLEs I know IRL are all like giant teddy bears. Usually it's just a matter of sidestepping their dominance plays or engaging in some friendly jostling. I find it hard to believe the entire type is populated with murderous gangsters and vandals
    Thanks for saying this, because I agree totally. Although I have seen SLEs be territorial and jealous and very assertive, and have been under huge emotional pressure from one, the few I know are really sweet, thoughtful, solicitous. The one I know best is aggressive with words but isn't impulsive in terms of beating someone up. He sometimes does lose his temper, but it's pretty much harmless stuff.

    I could see how lots of types, if raised in the right (wrong) environment, could be reckless or violent, but I haven't seen that with SLEs so far.

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    best way to troll anybody: have a successful relationship of your own.
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    I think the most irritating thing to do to him would be to write, "You need to show more skin!" on a beachside photo of her or similar But seriously, don't do that unless you want him to hate you FOREVER.

    Quote Originally Posted by Thanks Arthur View Post
    No, I just made a bunch of silly posts on a silly status update, and got asked "Wait, hold the phone, who are you?"
    Lol, are you sure you're not ILE? I've had maybe 4 ILEs do that sort of thing on my Facebook and my SLE bf went all territorial too.

    It's just what redbaron said - SLEs with their Fi PoLR have no idea what's going on, just that you and his gf are paying more than the usual amount of attention to each other. In their heads, it's like you've come out of left field or butted in in her internal listing of important people or something. They don't have such a good grasp of how non-emotionally invested the joke is, and it's especially bad when it's over Facebook where they have no other clues (body language, real time spent etc.) to gauge the interaction. Once the confusion's cleared up, everything will be fine and he might even compensate by being extra nice to you. (Chances are he's already quizzed his gf about it and she's provided the necessary reassurance.) It's adorable.

    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Even he was confused & bewildered that he could become so jealous over something so silly, as most guys would either not care, or encourage it. He said he kept wanting to tell her to get away from me but he didn't want to come off as looking gay in front of his friends for doing so. lol

    It was so funny that he reacted that way over something so harmless. Silly SLEs.
    Yeah, it's funny how my SLE bf goes straight from, "He comments on your statuses really quickly," to, "He's definitely trying to get into your pants! He's a creep!" Never mind that the guy in question is a geek who works with computers and has Facebook open in the background all the time.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mountain Dew View Post
    Of course she has the freedom to do what she wants. I'm not controlling like so many other guys are. I didn't mean "give" her the freedom like she didn't have it already. I meant let her do it without trying to make a big deal out of it.

    But she actually likes that I'm very possessive/protective of her. I think INFps appreciate Se. She thinks it's cute to know I care so much.
    I agree. I think both SLEs and IEIs in dual relationships like being reassured of their primacy in each other's minds. So an SLE's easily stirred jealousy serves both to rid the IEI of IEI-ish doubt, and to elicit unambiguous (i.e. no Fi use necessary) statements of loyalty from the IEI. I've found myself sometimes instinctively doing things that I subconsciously know will make my SLE bf a little jealous, which probably sounds fucked up to non-betas but it's just predator/prey, victim/aggressor dynamics. (It also leads to good sex :wink
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    Quote Originally Posted by Thanks Arthur View Post
    I'm pretty sure I just made this SLE jealous by joking around with his girlfriend, who is a friend of mine. He's just gotten all territorial at me.

    I want to screw with his head. Any tips? Nothing too ruthless, since the conversation is in a thread following said friend's facebook post.
    He needs to chill out. Also tell him you were joking.

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