Decision about parting with an INTj is often made independently. To accelerate this process this simple method will be required: constant sexual solicitations, diluted by emotional conversations on the same subject. Consider that her behavior regarding the break cannot be accurately foreseen, it can be extreme: either the widespread scandals on the division of property, or her proud disappearance with one bag. Everything depends on what, in her opinion, is correct in this case.
The best method to convince the ESFj of the uselessness of further relations: constant remarks on the theme of her lack of organization and skeptical remarks about her grandiose plans.
The ISFp, this very down-to-earth and sober-minded woman, frequently is for married men the "place of blissful repose" after domestic scandals. It is not desirable to part from her, but not because she is a good lover. It is simply a pity to leave this warm place, where she will listen to you, will feed you and put you to bed. But if you nevertheless are resolved to take this step, it will prove to be sufficiently complex. All your attempts to provoke quarrel will be shattered against the serene calmness of the ISFp woman. Although it is possible to do it, also, without any scandals. It is sufficiently simple to have a talk with her, to tell her any story and boldly you go to freedom! The main thing - the reasons for the break must be compulsorily external: "circumstances force us to part, it hurst me, but you I will always love".
If you plan nothing serious, take this advice: do not confide too much on the ENTp woman. The problems of the break up (and generally any of your problems) she will discuss with the third persons (and also with the fourth and the fifth) without any pangs of conscience. All ther close ones will be informed, that she herself decided to break uo with you and generally she feels sorry about the waste of time. Before the parting the ENTp woman will demonstratively meet you for the last time in order to return letters, and also the cheapest of your gifts.