I am not IEI.

Tell me why I should type myself Delta, either IEE or EII (ENFp, INFj).


Here is what I know, and it is probably useless.

* I use a lot in my relationships. But I also know how to use .

* I use both and .

* I like and get annoyed by too much .

* I think like on a personal level, and I can use in certain contexts, mainly related to my own work.

Here are some other things I know:

* My best friend, her partner, and my most important career mentor are probably IEIs. I think one of my close college friends, upon reflection, is SLE. I'm sure that I could dig up a lot of Betas from my past and present relationship worlds, but those are pretty important ones that seem clear in terms of typing.

* I'm artsy-fartsy and pseudo-intellectual, and self-obsessed, but you could chalk that up to being E4.

* Another BUT: I married a very obvious LSE, Delta as fuck, whose whole family is a parade of Delta. Just because the marriage disintegrated doesn't mean I'm IEI.

* If I am IEI, I probably have made a lot of adjustments to seem acceptable to Delta.

I'd appreciate comments, questions, anything. So what else do you need to know know? I don't need to lay this question (me, Beta vs. Delta) to rest in any ultimate sense, but I think it's healthy to question my type. Indulge me.