can this be related to:
Something I have noticed in myself is my reaction when certain topics arise in conversation, perhaps it’s indicative of my unvalued functions.
I don’t know how to explain it, but I feel deeply irritated. And the strange thing is, its not so much the topic, which involve future plans, decisions taken, discussing the human soul, and those sort of philosophical things; but the type of delivery, which unfortunately I’m having difficulty identifying... I just know I hate it! ha!
Another thing that annoys me is when people state that they know all about me (not factual-wise, but emotional-wise), and they know who I am inside, when in my mind they have no idea since they aren’t me.. I don’t know if I’m explaining it correctly. But if someone starts telling me (or worse, a third person) what they think to be my self, or their analysis of my self, I’m like “SHUT THE FUCK UP BITCH!”. I don’t really know why. I try to be polite (though I’m sure my discomfort is apparent) because I understand they are doing this analysis innocently and sharing their perceived discoveries, and perhaps they’re right! But I don’t like it! It’s like I don’t like my motives analyzed. Just let me be!
Returning to the second paragraph, maybe what irritates me in those philosophical conversations (and I might just be a bystander, in which case I will leave) is the type of delivery (analyzing motives).
I don’t feel I’ve expressed my sentiments towards these situations in their entirety nor accurately. But it’s the best I can do for now.